20/01/2026
For the women who’ve always felt “different”…
but could never quite explain how
Have you ever felt like something about you doesn’t quite fit —
but you can’t put your finger on it?
You function.
You’re capable.
You’re insightful.
You might even be the one others come to for emotional understanding.
And yet…
Your body reacts strongly.
Your energy crashes unexpectedly.
Food, supplements, medications, environments — they affect you more than they seem to affect others.
Doctors are confused.
You’re confused.
And you start wondering whether you’re just “too sensitive” or doing something wrong.
You’re not.
What if the issue was never that something was missing —
but that your system takes in too much?
We tend to think neurodivergence looks a certain way.
We’re taught to look for:
• People who can’t read social cues
• People who miss what’s going on around them
• People who struggle outwardly in obvious ways
But neurodivergence actually exists on a wide spectrum.
The middle of that spectrum — the average — is what we call neurotypical.
That’s the norm our systems are built around.
Either side of that middle is non-typical.
And some people sit on the other end:
• They read the room instantly
• They sense emotional shifts without trying
• They absorb more information, more sensation, more impact
From the outside, they look “fine”.
From the inside, their nervous system is working very hard.
This often shows up in the body — especially later in life
Many women don’t question this until their bodies start asking for attention.
Suddenly:
• Digestion becomes unpredictable
• Nervous system crashes become more frequent
• Small doses have big effects
• Stress tolerance drops
• Recovery takes longer
And because this doesn’t fit the typical picture, it often goes unnamed.
No one suspects neurodivergence.
Especially not the woman herself.
Instead, she’s told:
• “It’s anxiety”
• “It’s hormones”
• “It’s stress”
• “Everything looks normal”
Meanwhile, she feels like she’s fighting her own system every day.
What if you stopped fighting yourself?
What if the goal wasn’t to “push through”, optimise harder, or override your sensitivity…
…but to understand how your nervous system actually works?
For highly sensitive, high-perception nervous systems, thriving doesn’t come from doing more.
It comes from:
• Reducing load
• Working with sensitivity instead of against it
• Creating safety rather than stimulation
• Learning how to pace, dose, and recover
• Finally having language for your experience
That’s where things start to make sense.
That’s where the body softens.
That’s where people often feel like they’re “coming home” to themselves for the first time.
This is the work I do as a coach
I support people — especially women — who have spent years feeling misunderstood, mislabelled, or unseen.
Not by forcing them into someone else’s framework.
But by helping them understand their own nervous system, their own patterns, and their own needs.
When you stop fighting yourself, things change.
When your system feels understood, it can finally relax.
And that’s often where real healing begins.
If this resonates, you’re not alone.
And you’re not broken.
You may just be wired differently — and ready to be supported differently too. 💛