28/04/2022
💫 “Children are resilient!” This is a statement we have all heard, to highlight how kids are able to cope with all sorts of things that we may be surprised by. And some children are resilient! Just as some adults are resilient. But in my experience, this isn’t always the case. Children may appear to be resilient, because they may not understand what is happening, not yet. And when they start to make sense of it - days, months, years later - when their brains have the capacity to understand - they may seem to not be so resilient after all. Other children may appear to be unaffected, but there may be other changes - sleep, appetite, behaviour - that they don’t connect with what is happening, but their brains are trying to understand without knowing what it is.
Resilience is a skill that we nurture, develop, and learn - how do we cope when things don’t go our way? How do we find the bright side if things didn’t work out as we expected? We take it one step at a time, and learn that sometimes, there are positives.
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