20/01/2026
Just some of the things I say NO to as a Paediatric Occupational Therapist 🛑
Not because parents are doing anything wrong, but because kids need support before skills.
When we skip regulation and preparation, children aren’t choosing to struggle. Their nervous systems are communicating that they are overwhelmed and need to stop, regulate and start again with different supports.
Regulation before play.
Preparation before busy places.
Practice before big emotions.
The slow, everyday moments matter more than we realise.
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