29/11/2022
Some Things I Know.
Try to listen as if you have nothing to say after.
Water tends to solve restlessness, drinking it, splashing in it.
Stop worrying about their white clothes getting dirty.
Stop buying them white clothes.
You will not ruin them by sometimes saying the wrong thing.
Always buy more bananas than you think.
Hide spinach in smoothies, add berries for flavour.
Surrender to the sleep thing, it’s less exhausting than fighting it.
You will sleep again, sort of.
If they won’t eat their dinner, feed them off your plate, in their room, in the bath.
They will have a favourite book, it won’t be yours, but you will read it 100 times anyway.
You won’t need an alarm clock.
You won’t be a gentle parent all of the time, albeit trying.
If they’re playing & laughing it’s usually followed by crying.
Get a laundry hamper for each room, it’s easier.
Mum guilt gets the good mums.
Buy two of their favourite cuddly, if you know, you know.
You can try hide in the pantry but they will sniff you out.
You don’t need lots of fancy toys, they’ll enjoy the box it came in, the tv remote, the dog bowls.
Saying “it’s spicy”, only works for so long.
“I’ll race you to bed”, only works for so long.
Nothing is forever.
Be willing to unlearn so they can teach you.
Live in the moment when you remember to.
Don’t believe everything you see online.
Toddlers can be savage, it’s not just yours.
You don’t need everything in that nappy bag, but on the day you don’t bring it, you’ll need it.
Hours can pass by in 5 minutes but the years are short.
Get comfy with public tantrums, big emotions, yours too, and Blippi and Frozen.
Talk about how craft is for daycare.
Attempt said craft at home, cry.
Mess can be cleaned, but it’s OK if you’re triggered by it.
Remember you’re not just nurturing them but this life of yours together. Do things for you too.
Apologise to them if you need to.
Don’t apologise for them acting their age.
Keep reinforcing you said “truck”, it won’t work though.
Take a deep breath, teach them about deep breathing.
Most of us don’t know what we’re doing, but we show up.
Hold your arms out to them, even when you don’t feel like it.
You need that hug more than they do.
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