27/01/2026
As the heartbreaking landslide disaster hangs very heavy over our home town, there is so much to say. Today I want to talk about supporting our kids processing what’s happened.
We sometimes have a tendency to try to protect our kids kids from traumatic events (especially our sensitive ones) by not talking about it, glossing over it or ignoring it. The thing is though, they of course will hear all about it through the media, through other kids and other adults. Sensitive kids in particular often also pick up on the unspoken stress of those around them and energy of the community.
Create some space to explain things to your kids, in your words, based on your values and at a level that intuitively works for your kiddo. Make sure they understand they can ask any questions at any time - even weeks from now. Don’t assume you know what they’re thinking - often kids have a different way of seeing the world and might have some concerns on that basis. Talk about the helpers and community love and support alongside the disaster. See if there are ways your family can help and process in your own unique way (tears, movement, stories, talking, community support)
AND sensitive kids often belong to sensitive parents, so check in with your own mind and body. What do you need to help process this tragedy?
Our love and support is with the victims and their family and friends as well as those working hard at the site.
Let’s go gently with ourselves and others 🧡🧡🧡🧡🧡