15/11/2025
We say “I can’t” so easily.
“I can’t afford it.”
“I can’t make time.”
“I can’t leave.”
“I can’t start.”
“I can’t change.”
But here’s the raw truth…
Most of the time, “I can’t” isn’t a barrier.
It’s a shield.
A shield that protects us from discomfort, the unknown, the risk of failing, the fear of success, the responsibility of actually rising.
Because if we remove the word “can’t”… what are we left with?
“I won’t.”
“I’m not ready.”
“I’m scared.”
“I don’t know who I am without this version of me.”
And that’s the part most people don’t want to sit with.
Because when you finally CAN—
when the money comes in,
when the path clears,
when the timing aligns,
when the opportunity opens…
so many people still don’t move.
Not because they can’t.
But because change requires courage—and courage requires vulnerability.
So if you’ve been hiding behind “can’t,” here’s your loving invitation to check in with the deeper truth:
✨ What am I afraid will happen if I actually do this?
✨ Who do I become once I step through this doorway?
✨ What comfort am I clinging to?
✨ What would life feel like if I chose “can,” “will,” and “am”?
Your power doesn’t come from removing the barriers.
It comes from removing the stories you tell yourself about them.
You are capable.
You are ready.
You are allowed.
And the moment you stop hiding behind “can’t,” you meet the version of yourself who always could.
