18/01/2026
Yesterday we set some deep Grounded Goals! And I want to share one of mine.
It was under the category "Body".
I've put on weight, that's fine.. but mentally I've been resisting it as I've had a mindset about wearing the next size up clothes...
It made me feel like a failure and I worried if I accepted going up a size, that's me now committing that this is the NEW me.
Be grudgedly... here is me, trying to fit this ass into a size to small everything, feeling uncomfortable, probably looking a bit eeekkkkk... And getting upset regularly about putting this weight on and how I look in these ill fitting garments 👙
Wearing clothes that are too tight does something subtle but powerful
*Im constantly adjusting
*I'm constantly aware of my body
*I'm constantly being reminded that sometimes “not quite right”
That mental noise is exhausting.
And over time, it chipped away at my sense of safety in my own skin.
Firstly, I'm working on my nutrition and exercise, but the mental side was taking the leap to wear things THAT FIT!!
So today, coz underwear is a huge issue for me, I'm totally cramped in, spilling over, getting wedgies...so I splashed out and got me a BRAND NEW FITTED underwear kit out.
So I'm off home to have a bra burning ceremonies, free the ti***es! But better still, it's a Support party 🥳🎉 I can now go forth, feeling empowered, looking sexy, being comfortable and properly supported in my second skin!
I know this will effect other areas of my life too 🙏