Steve Toelupe - Ment 4 More

Steve Toelupe - Ment 4 More I help men 35+ break old patterns, rebuild habits, reclaim their confidence, and reconnect with their true power!

Evolve into your greatest expression whatever that feels like for you ๐Ÿ™†๐Ÿฝ๐Ÿ’ฏ๐Ÿซ‚๐Ÿ™๐Ÿฝ I have two amazing daughters Nekea and Danusia who have had a huge impact in turning my life around for the best. They have been my inspiration in various roles I have previously held in the education and health sectors. I also have a loving and kind-hearted partner Rachel who I choose to 'Do Life With'. Pretty awesome friends, family, communities...endless opportunities and possibilities to Grow, Develop, Invent, Reinvent, and Expand...

I am very grateful for the people I am blessed to share my life with, the many challenges/opportunities I have received to help me grow, and make me stronger. Dedicating and loving my commitment I have made to teaching, mentoring and coaching in education, personal development, health and wellbeing spaces. Sharing the Love and Joy of Life with others to Live the Best Lives We Can Possibly Live. Give Your Dreams A Chance...
Grow Your Greatness...It Becomes You! Life is Now, Your Best is Now, You are Now...

Thank you,
Steve Toelupe

๐Ÿง๐Ÿฝโ€โ™‚๏ธ ๐™„๐™ข๐™–๐™œ๐™ž๐™ฃ๐™š ๐™– ๐™ฌ๐™ค๐™ง๐™ก๐™™ ๐™ฌ๐™๐™š๐™ง๐™š ๐™š๐™ซ๐™š๐™ง๐™ฎ๐™ค๐™ฃ๐™š...1. ๐™ฌ๐™š๐™ง๐™š ๐™ฉ๐™๐™š๐™ข๐™จ๐™š๐™ก๐™ซ๐™š๐™จ ๐Ÿ’Accepted the past, and lived with more Presence 2. ๐™ช๐™ฃ๐™™๐™š๐™ง๐™จ๐™ฉ๐™ค๐™ค๐™™...
27/02/2026

๐Ÿง๐Ÿฝโ€โ™‚๏ธ ๐™„๐™ข๐™–๐™œ๐™ž๐™ฃ๐™š ๐™– ๐™ฌ๐™ค๐™ง๐™ก๐™™ ๐™ฌ๐™๐™š๐™ง๐™š ๐™š๐™ซ๐™š๐™ง๐™ฎ๐™ค๐™ฃ๐™š...

1. ๐™ฌ๐™š๐™ง๐™š ๐™ฉ๐™๐™š๐™ข๐™จ๐™š๐™ก๐™ซ๐™š๐™จ ๐Ÿ’
Accepted the past, and lived with more Presence

2. ๐™ช๐™ฃ๐™™๐™š๐™ง๐™จ๐™ฉ๐™ค๐™ค๐™™ ๐™š๐™–๐™˜๐™ ๐™ค๐™ฉ๐™๐™š๐™ง ๐Ÿซฑ๐Ÿปโ€๐Ÿซฒ๐Ÿฝ
Less judgmental, and more compassionate

3. ๐™ฌ๐™–๐™ฃ๐™ฉ๐™š๐™™ ๐™ฉ๐™ค ๐™—๐™š๐™จ๐™ฉ ๐™›๐™ค๐™ง ๐™š๐™–๐™˜๐™ ๐™ค๐™ฉ๐™๐™š๐™ง ๐Ÿ’ฏ
There's enough for everyone!

Wouldn't that be the best... โ˜ฎ๏ธ๐ŸŒ

It ๐™Ž๐™ฉ๐™–๐™ง๐™ฉ๐™จ ๐™ฌ๐™ž๐™ฉ๐™ ๐™ฎ๐™ค๐™ช! ๐Ÿซ‚

Today is Friday, a new day, miracle and blessing ๐Ÿคธ๐Ÿฝโ€โ™‚๏ธ

Have it, enjoy it! ๐Ÿ™๐Ÿฝ

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Keep it simple
Keep it real ๐Ÿ’ฏ
Keep showing up...

๐™‡๐™š๐™–๐™™๐™ž๐™ฃ๐™œ ๐™›๐™ง๐™ค๐™ข ๐™ฉ๐™๐™š ๐™„๐™ฃ๐™จ๐™ž๐™™๐™š ๐™Š๐™ช๐™ฉ ๐ŸŒฌ ๐™ฉ๐™๐™š ๐™Š๐™ฉ๐™๐™š๐™ง ๐™Ž๐™ž๐™™๐™š!

Honour the struggle, don't become it


onelove onelove evolvedmen

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26/02/2026

๐Ÿ™‹๐Ÿฝโ€โ™‚๏ธ ๐—™๐—ฒ๐—ฏ๐—ฟ๐˜‚๐—ฎ๐—ฟ๐˜†๐˜€ ๐—ฃ๐˜‚๐˜€๐—ต-๐—จ๐—ฝ ๐—–๐—ต๐—ฎ๐—น๐—น๐—ฒ๐—ป๐—ด๐—ฒ ๐—ณ๐—ผ๐—ฟ ๐—ฏ๐—ฒ๐˜๐˜๐—ฒ๐—ฟ ๐— ๐—ฒ๐—ป๐˜๐—ฎ๐—น ๐—›๐—ฒ๐—ฎ๐—น๐˜๐—ต ๐Ÿซ‚

Day 22: Target 120 Push ups,
with lying scissor kicks ๐ŸŽฏ

10 push ups
20 scissor kicks
10 push ups x 6 sets

Last set: some BGM chill vibes with Khalid 'Better'

"Cause I live down the street
So when we meet
When you need it, it's yours
All I hear is...
Nothing feels better than this
Nothing feels better
Nothing feels better than this..."

Total:
120 scissor kicks
120 push ups ๐Ÿ’ฅ boom w ๐Ÿ• Teddy

Day 22 challenge complete ๐Ÿซถ๐Ÿฝ

๐Ÿ™†๐Ÿฝ The ๐™‹๐™ค๐™ฌ๐™š๐™ง ๐™ฉ๐™ค ๐˜พ๐™๐™ค๐™ค๐™จ๐™š - Who Shows Up!

Key takeaways:

21 days to create a habit
90 days to build a lifestyle

๐ŸŽฌ what you Practice grows stronger, you get better at

Keep it simple, keep it real ๐Ÿ’ฏ Keep showing up

Honour the struggle, don't be the struggle


healing wellbeingjourney bestself dreamlife onelove corelifecoaching leadership

26/02/2026

๐™„ ๐™ช๐™จ๐™š๐™™ ๐™–๐™ก๐™˜๐™ค๐™๐™ค๐™ก, ๐™ฌ๐™š๐™š๐™™, ๐™–๐™ฃ๐™™ ๐™ฌ๐™ค๐™ง๐™ ๐™ž๐™ฃ๐™œ (more) ๐™ฉ๐™ค ๐™š๐™จ๐™˜๐™–๐™ฅ๐™š ๐™ฌ๐™๐™–๐™ฉ ๐™„ ๐™›๐™š๐™ก๐™ฉ ๐Ÿ™‡
..๐™—๐™ช๐™ฉ ๐™ฃ๐™ค๐™ฉ๐™๐™ž๐™ฃ๐™œ ๐™˜๐™๐™–๐™ฃ๐™œ๐™š๐™™ ๐™ช๐™ฃ๐™ฉ๐™ž๐™ก ๐™„ ๐™›๐™–๐™˜๐™š๐™™ ๐™ž๐™ฉ ๐Ÿฆธ๐Ÿฝโ€โ™‚๏ธ

For years I ran from the noise in my head

I numbed
Distracted it
Avoided it

๐Ÿง๐Ÿฝโ€โ™‚๏ธ but the truth is -
What you don't face
Controls you

Everything changed when I:

Slowed down
Got honest
Rebuilt
From the Inside Out

Now I'm: ๐Ÿ™‹๐Ÿฝ

Calmer
Clearer
Grounded
More Present

On the Other Side

๐Ÿ™†๐Ÿฝโ€โ™‚๏ธ The ๐™‹๐™ค๐™ฌ๐™š๐™ง ๐™ฉ๐™ค ๐˜พ๐™๐™ค๐™ค๐™จ๐™š - Who Shows Up!

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With simple morning self-care practices and discipline, you can get started

W๐™ž๐™ฃ ๐™ฉ๐™๐™š ๐™ข๐™ค๐™ง๐™ฃ๐™ž๐™ฃ๐™œ, sets new standards for your life...

๐™„๐™› ๐™ฎ๐™ค๐™ช'๐™ง๐™š ๐™ฉ๐™ž๐™ง๐™š๐™™ ๐™ค๐™› ๐™ง๐™ช๐™ฃ๐™ฃ๐™ž๐™ฃ๐™œ ๐™–๐™ฃ๐™™ ๐™ง๐™š๐™–๐™™๐™ฎ ๐™ฉ๐™ค ๐™›๐™–๐™˜๐™š ๐™ฎ๐™ค๐™ช๐™ง๐™จ๐™š๐™ก๐™›:

DM me "๐™๐™€๐˜ผ๐˜ฟ๐™”" and I'll reach out

Don't do it alone bro ๐Ÿซ‚

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Keep it simple
Keep it real ๐Ÿ’ฏ
Keep showing up...

Honour the struggle, don't become it




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25/02/2026

๐™๐™๐™ž๐™จ ๐™ข๐™ค๐™ง๐™ฃ๐™ž๐™ฃ๐™œ'๐™จ ๐™ฌ๐™ค๐™ง๐™  ๐™จ๐™ฅ๐™–๐™˜๐™š ๐ŸŒ…

5.30am ๐Ÿ“ More journaling and planning

6.30am โ˜ฏ๏ธ EFT, Qigong and yoga

7.30am ๐ŸŠ๐Ÿฝโ€โ™‚๏ธ Swim

๐Ÿก ๐™ฌ๐™›๐™...

2 ๐˜ฝ๐™๐™๐™จ ๐™œ๐™ž๐™ซ๐™ž๐™ฃ๐™œ ๐™ฉ๐™๐™š๐™ž๐™ง ๐™—๐™š๐™จ๐™ฉ ๐™ฅ๐™ค๐™จ๐™จ๐™ž๐™—๐™ก๐™š ๐™ก๐™ž๐™ซ๐™š๐™จ ๐™– ๐™˜๐™๐™–๐™ฃ๐™˜๐™š, ๐™ฉ๐™ค๐™œ๐™š๐™ฉ๐™๐™š๐™ง... ๐Ÿซ‚ Rach is at home lol

๐Ÿซถ๐Ÿฝ Have it, enjoy it...nothing intense

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๐™’๐™ž๐™ฃ ๐™ฉ๐™๐™š ๐™ข๐™ค๐™ง๐™ฃ๐™ž๐™ฃ๐™œ - ๐™ฌ๐™ž๐™ฃ ๐™ฉ๐™๐™š ๐™™๐™–๐™ฎ

Keep your dreams alive...

๐Ÿง๐Ÿฝ Imagine your life, if you didn't allow fear to hold you back?!

Keep it simple
Keep it real ๐Ÿ’ฏ
Keep showing up
for yourself
Your BFF and life xo

๐Ÿ™‹๐Ÿฝโ€โ™‚๏ธ The ๐™‹๐™ค๐™ฌ๐™š๐™ง ๐™ฉ๐™ค ๐˜พ๐™๐™ค๐™ค๐™จ๐™š - Who Shows Up!

๐™‡๐™š๐™–๐™™๐™ž๐™ฃ๐™œ ๐™›๐™ง๐™ค๐™ข ๐™ฉ๐™๐™š ๐™„๐™ฃ๐™จ๐™ž๐™™๐™š ๐™Š๐™ช๐™ฉ ๐Ÿ™๐Ÿฝ from the Other side




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25/02/2026

๐™„ ๐™—๐™ง๐™ค๐™ ๐™š ๐™ฉ๐™๐™š ๐™‹๐™–๐™ฉ๐™ฉ๐™š๐™ง๐™ฃ...๐™ƒ๐™–๐™—๐™ž๐™ฉ ๐™ค๐™› ๐˜ฝ๐™š๐™ž๐™ฃ๐™œ ๐™ˆ๐™ฎ ๐™Š๐™ก๐™™ ๐™Ž๐™š๐™ก๐™› ๐Ÿ™†๐Ÿฝ

Time
Age
Money...wasn't the ๐™ฅ๐™ง๐™ค๐™—๐™ก๐™š๐™ข

My:
Mind - Body - Spirit...was

Disconnected
Stressed
Reactive
In Survival mode ๐Ÿคฆ๐Ÿฝ

Can you relate?

๐Ÿง๐Ÿฝโ€โ™‚๏ธ I knew it was time for change
Same ๐Ÿ’ฉ different day mode

Time for a ๐™๐™š๐™จ๐™š๐™ฉ, and
๐™—๐™ง๐™ค๐™ ๐™š ๐™ฉ๐™๐™š ๐™‹๐™–๐™ฉ๐™ฉ๐™š๐™ง๐™ฃ...
๐™ƒ๐™–๐™—๐™ž๐™ฉ ๐™ค๐™› ๐˜ฝ๐™š๐™ž๐™ฃ๐™œ ๐™ˆ๐™ฎ ๐™Š๐™ก๐™™ ๐™Ž๐™š๐™ก๐™› ๐Ÿ’ฅ

Nothing hard ๐Ÿค๐Ÿฝ

Making small shifts and changes to
What you did
Waking up
Changed everything

Intentional
Taking action
Discipline...every morning ๐Ÿ”„

Slowing down
Stillness and silence
Movement
Fueling the body properly

W๐™ž๐™ฃ ๐™ฉ๐™๐™š ๐™ข๐™ค๐™ง๐™ฃ๐™ž๐™ฃ๐™œ, set the standards for my life...

๐Ÿ™†๐Ÿฝ The ๐™‹๐™ค๐™ฌ๐™š๐™ง ๐™ฉ๐™ค ๐˜พ๐™๐™ค๐™ค๐™จ๐™š - Who Shows Up!

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DM "๐™๐™š๐™จ๐™š๐™ฉ" and let's get started together ๐Ÿค›๐Ÿฝ

Keep it simple
Keep it real ๐Ÿ’ฏ
Keep showing up...

Honour the struggle, don't become it




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21/02/2026

๐Ÿ™‹๐Ÿฝโ€โ™‚๏ธ ๐—™๐—ฒ๐—ฏ๐—ฟ๐˜‚๐—ฎ๐—ฟ๐˜†๐˜€ ๐—ฃ๐˜‚๐˜€๐—ต-๐—จ๐—ฝ ๐—–๐—ต๐—ฎ๐—น๐—น๐—ฒ๐—ป๐—ด๐—ฒ ๐—ณ๐—ผ๐—ฟ ๐—ฏ๐—ฒ๐˜๐˜๐—ฒ๐—ฟ ๐— ๐—ฒ๐—ป๐˜๐—ฎ๐—น ๐—›๐—ฒ๐—ฎ๐—น๐˜๐—ต ๐—ณ๐—ผ๐—ฟ ๐—ฎ๐—น๐—น ๐—”๐—ผ๐˜๐—ฒ๐—ฎ๐—ฟ๐—ผ๐—ฎ๐—ป๐˜€ ๐Ÿซ‚

Day 17: Target 120 Push ups,
with lying scissor kicks ๐ŸŽฏ

10 push ups
20 scissor kicks
10 push ups x 6 sets

Last set before taking ๐Ÿ• Teddy for his last walk of the day...finish strong

BGM: winding down with D'Angelo '

"I'm tired of hidin' what we feel
I'm tryna come with the real
And I'm gonna make it known
Cause I want them to know...
You're my lady, you're my lady yeah yeah
You're my lady you're oh
You're my lady, lady yeah my divine..my divine lady"

Total:
120 sit ups
120 push ups ๐Ÿ’ฅ boom

Day 17 challenge complete ๐Ÿซถ๐Ÿฝ

Keep it simple, keep it real ๐Ÿ’ฏ Keep showing up


Rest well peeps ๐ŸŒฌโ˜ฎ๏ธ๐Ÿ™๐Ÿฝ

Honour the struggle, don't be the struggle


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