03/01/2026
Standing at the crossroads, which path am I going to take?
Do I let things just carry on? Or do I seek another path and
make some changes: positive changes?
The moment we decide to give up drinking or drugging is
often called a rock bottom, when we feel so low we are
driven to make some changes.
It may not be a single event that gets us to that point, it
may be a number of events that build up, then take us down.
Significant negative life events: Examples include an arrest, a drink drive charge an overdose scare, or an accident with tragic consequences.
Health concerns: Recognition of serious physical or mental health problems directly linked to substance use (e.g. liver disease, heart issues, severe depression) can be a primary motivator for seeking help.
Strained relationships and family pressure: The fear of losing loved ones, especially children, is a powerful influence. Pressure and concern from family members can be crucial in the initial decision to seek help.
Loss of control and self-respect: A personal realisation that the addiction has taken over our life and that we are no longer in control of our actions can be a moment of clarity. The desire to regain dignity and live a life aligned with our own true values can be a strong intrinsic motivator.
Desire for a better quality of life: Many people simply reach a point where they long for a sense of purpose and happiness beyond the cycle of addiction. It is a realisation that our current habits are holding us back.
The accumulated weight of consequences: For many, there isn't one single, dramatic moment, but rather a slow accumulation of negative outcomes over time—financial troubles, isolation, shame, guilt and despair—that eventually make the idea of change seem more bearable than continuing in addiction.
Whatever the drivers, when we ‘take a look in the mirror’, there is a moment. A moment that promotes the decision to make positive change. This is the moment we must grab with both hands and do everything we can to never let go. Is it easy? No. Is it worth it? Yes, 100%. The rewards are immeasurable for you, and everyone around you.