07/11/2025
Kintsugi-" The fractured light of being"
Esther Bunning
Back in May 2022, I jumped at the opportunity to bear all when Esther Bunning, photographer, creator, artist, storyteller, invited me to be part of an exhibition inspired by the philosophy of Kintsugi: the art that teaches us our cracks do not define us. Instead, if we learn to grow through the cracks, to refine our imperfections, our flaws, we indeed reveal the masterpiece within.
My journey has been about embracing all the parts of myself that once felt broken, hurt, betrayed, silenced, shamed, weak, wrong. Especially in a world fractured through the distorted lens of societal “norms,” shaped by man-made structures designed to break us, control us, feed our fear. Especially as wāhine...
Through colonisation, the schooling system, religious constraints, and power plays, the wāhine...in all her beauty..was lead to believe she was too much, not enough.
I’ve always said, my home is where I lay my hat. Disconnected from my homeland and people, I’ve never truly known what it means to belong. I still can’t say I’m fully there… but my journey through Rongoā Māori has given me a new sense of what it means to belong...to the whenua, to te taiao, and to self. I’ve found that my tūrangawaewae lives within me.
Rongoā Māori has led me back to the whenua, back to te taiao.. back to reclaiming myself. My true self.
It’s a journey. Just as te taiao moves, I move too. It doesn't always feel perfect, but I’m learning to redefine perfection.. To navigate the ever-changing currents of life, to embrace them instead of resisting the natural flow.
I am the Rongoā for my whānau... I am the tūrangawaewae for my children.. my mokopuna.
No one can tell you who are, and what you should be or whether you are enough! Only you can define that..
Ngā mihi nui e Mareikura Esther Bunning
Thank you so much for being the light and for bringing the light to so many who share their stories with you. Thank you for holding those stories with such care and aroha.
To the 10 wāhine that joined me on this journey, sharing your stories of courage, embracing strength and vulnerability, I honour you x 💜🤍
Aratoi Wairarapa- exhibition open until January 5th 2026