Light Your Life with Yee Ley Lau

27/10/2025

My latest interview with Bold Journey. Thanks for the opportunity!
read here ---->https://boldjourney.com/story-lesson-highlights-with-yee-ley-lau-of-whanganui-new-zealand-highlight/

25/10/2025

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22/10/2025

Did you bite off more than you can chew?? Or as the Chinese saying goes 'Big eyes, small belly'
When it comes to constellation sessions (or any healing session!), choosing your ‘serving’ size and understanding the different types, depth, and duration of sessions is an important part of your healing journey. You want to avoid overloading your system and allow time for digestion and integration

Read my latest blog post---->
https://www.yeeleylau.com/blog/the-size-and-duration-of-family-systemic-constellation-sessions-choosing-your-serving

Family and systemic constellations are like a unique dining experience for the soul. They uncover hidden dynamics in our lives—within family systems, relationships, work, or even our inner world....

19/10/2025

19/10/2025

Forgiveness and reconciliation
Sometimes in relationships, we cling to innocence - wanting to be right, to be the one who was wronged. Yet true forgiveness asks something deeper of us. It asks us to step down from the pedestal of being “good” and meet the other, heart to heart, in our shared humanity.
The following story and quote remind us that healing and reconciliation can only happen when both dignity and accountability are honoured
*An 'Aha' Experience* (from Love's Hidden Symmetry, Bert Hellinger)
A woman divorced her husband in order to be with her lover. After many years, the woman began to regret her decision. She discovered that she still loved her ex-husband and wanted to be married to him again, especially as he had remained single. When she spoke to him
about her feelings, he avoided answering, either positively or negatively, but agreed to talk the matter over with a counselor. The counselor asked the m a n what he hoped to get from the meeting. He laughed halfheartedly and said, "An aha! experience!". The counselor asked the woman what she had to offer that would make her former husband interested in living with her again. She said that she hadn't really thought about what she had to offer, and was unable to answer convincingly. Not surprisingly, the man remained cautious and uncommitted.

The counselor suggested that she must, first of all, recognize that she had caused her ex-husband pain, and then give him cause to. Guilt, Innocence, and the Limits of Conscience believe that she was prepared to make reparations. The woman thought it over for a while, and then looked directly at her former husband, and said convincingly, "I'm truly sorry for what I did to you. I want to be your wife again, and I will love you and care for you so that you will be happy and so that you can trust me."

The man remained noncommittal. The counselor said to him, "It must have hurt you a lot and you don't want to risk a repeat." The man had tears in his eyes and the counselor continued, "A person like you, to whom something painful was done, often feels morally superior and assumes the right to reject the other;" He added, "Against such innocence, a guilty person has no chance." The man smiled and turned to his former wife.

"That was your "aha" experience. Pay me my fee," said the counselor, "and what you make out of your "aha" is up to you. I don't even want to know."
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17/10/2025

Illness is often the way we express the unspeakable, the shameful, things that need to be voiced but can only be uttered through symptoms or conditions. This is also a way we atone, sacrifice or merge with someone else's tragic fate.

Barry Krost
healingbodytherapeutics.com

16/10/2025

PODCAST | Constellations and all that...

"Through her story, from IT business analyst to sound and constellation facilitator, Yee Ley shares how listening deeply to the field and the body’s wisdom allows transformation to unfold naturally."

Thanks Tracy Cartwright Constellations-Healing-Insight for interviewing me.

Interview: https://youtu.be/5jSrILk9W18?si=vSXb5Qd3xWBFGtv2

Kia Ora, In this episode of Constellations and all that..., I’m joined by the beautiful and insightful Yee Ley Lau, a sound healer, facilitator, and creative...

16/10/2025

UPDATED: Tonight's Class has been cancelled | Friday Sound Immersion 17th October
I've got the lurgies! Not feeling well so resting up!
Introduction to Family & Systemic Constellations has now been re-scheduled for the following Saturday 25th
https://www.facebook.com/events/2648936098794406/
Ahhh-chooooo!

13/10/2025

Current Timetable Oct 2025
https://www.yeeleylau.com/events.html