Choices holistic healing.

24/09/2025

🌿 A Personal Invitation to Heal & Reconnect 🌿

This is a heartfelt invitation to begin or continue your healing journey in a safe, supportive space.

Hi 👋, my name is David. This is my calling. I’ve walked through trauma, shadow, and deep healing myself, and I know how much courage it takes to step onto this path. That’s why I hold space with compassion, understanding, and a genuine desire to see you find peace and inspire you to a new way of feeling and thinking!

💜 Introductory offer now available – reach out to book your first session today. First 10 clients to give a koha and write a review on this page. Sessions are 1-1.5hrs remotely or in person in Whangarei in a lovely studio in town. N.B studio space is rented, so please factor this in to your koha.

Here’s what I bring into our sessions:

🌑 Shadow work – gently exploring the parts of you that have been hidden or silenced

✨ Energy healing – helping your body and spirit find flow again

💆 Reiki healing – channeling gentle, universal energy for balance

🗣️ Talk therapy – a safe space where your truth is always welcome

👶 Inner child work – nurturing and healing the younger parts within

🌌 Spiritual therapy – connecting to deeper meaning, intuition, and guidance

💔 Lived experience with trauma – not just theory, but real understanding from someone who’s been there in the trenches like you have.

If your heart is calling for healing, release, or simply a safe space to come out of the darkness and shame — I’d love to walk support you to that end. 💜

I Am also an avid student of A Course in Miracles as I learn, teach, and share these principles for the purpose of mutual benefit and freedom.
This is not your typical or exclusively christian style teaching. It is about Consciousness spoken of by many teachers throughout the centuries.

💫 Sessions typically range from $50 to $200 depending on depth and length.

There will always be assistance for those financially struggling but needing the solutions to make thier circumstances better.

Whatever the problem, the solution is bigger.

Message me via this page or David Parbery

02/09/2025

I'm not a beleiver that Yeshua was crucified for our sin, I am a believer there is no sin, only error in my mind. Yeshua came to set me free and give me salvation from my ego centric thoughts, from the error of my judgement upon others, my brothers. To awaken me from the sleeping dream that I am seperate from my Father. Jesus set me free by His resurrection, victory over even death. God is Love. No Father would kill His Son and call it Love.
I would not kill my son and call it Love to save my other son.

27/08/2025

21/08/2025

New Zealand event

Due to popular demand, next weekend's Men Being Real workshop is now full. Our hearts are full knowing this life-changing weekend continues to go from strength to strength. If you would like to attend our next Men Being Bold (2-5 October) or next Men Being Real (7-9 November) workshops, places are filling fast. We would strongly recommend you get in quick!

Learn more here: https://www.essentiallymen.net/programmes/men-being-real

09/08/2025

Hey men, I've had the pleasure of this quick read (can listen on audio too) a gem of a small book.
https://www.gavintopp.com/a/2148093502/yWn72Y3R

And also for any men who'd like to attend the 5 day man challenge, here's a link to that, I did this last week and found beneficial.

https://www.gavintopp.com/a/2148105886/yWn72Y3R

And for 11 years straight I put over 1200 men through a 10 week modern day ‘rite of passage’ where every-day men, business owners, contractors, tradies, white collar, blue collar men, were taught how to fight and then given a *trial by fire* at the Star Casino on the Gold Coast in front of 1,000...

22/06/2025

I wanted to talk to you about something that’s shaped many people and entire societies.

It’s the idea of sin.

If you were raised with any kind of religious background, chances are you were told - maybe even from the moment you were born - that you came into the world already wrong.

That there’s something you must fix. Something you must atone for. Something broken about you.

But what if that was never true?

There is no such thing as original sin. You were born of love. You were born perfect from your creator.

The way the spiritual master Yeshua (Jesus) spoke of sin had nothing to do with guilt or punishment. To him, sin simply meant acting from a place of forgetfulness, from the ego, from separation.

In other words: you made a choice not because you’re inherently flawed, but because in that moment…

You forgot who you truly are.

You forgot that you are Source in form.
You forgot that you’re whole.
You forgot that love is your nature.

And when we act from forgetfulness, yes - we hurt others. Yes, we cause harm.

But that’s not the same thing as being fundamentally bad. That’s not the same thing as being unworthy.

So why has the idea of sin become so distorted?

Because once you tell someone they’re inherently flawed, they’re easier to control.

You can’t control someone unless you have something on them, and so the moment you say: there’s something wrong with you… now you’ve created dependency.

That dependency turns into fear.
That fear turns into guilt.

And suddenly, people are paying to be saved from something that was never true in the first place.

But what if the real “salvation” isn’t out there?

What if it begins by remembering:​
You are not broken.
You are not bad.
You never have been.

And when you forget - when you slip into old patterns - you don’t need a priest, or a building, or a system to get you back to God.

You just need to remember who you are.

With love,

Christina Lopes

26/01/2024

Thankyou to the sisters who brought these gifts along tonight.

25/01/2024

Yup

04/01/2024

Happy New Year to all. Special shout out to all who attended CDWAD in 2023.

Looking to hold one more event with some Yoga and Sound healing later in January. This will be a small exchange of $10 to cover hall hire.

Hope to see some of you there.

🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾