04/03/2018
• Let's talk about S E X baby, let's talk about you & me. . . .🎶💖🌙⚘
A lot of people shy away from this topic while others are extremely open, but in the end we are all human and for majority of people in long term relationships or even those entering new relationships find it hard to connect with their partners on a ‘deeper’ level by really surrendering; feeling good within themselves, communicating and connected with their partner whole heartedly.
While others use s*x to try find that fulfilment to feed their ego but that is where we go wrong as this does not bring us long term happiness, in fact it can do quite the opposite, leaving us feeling empty & disappointed if we don’t receive the connection or fulfilment we were after. What we have to find is the love space, ‘the end goal’ is naturally great but it shouldn’t be the intention, because if the connection isn’t there it is like eating a slice of cake without icing! You need to let go of the mind, by surrendering , soul shaking, body moving, mind bottling of the masculine & feminine.
So many of us hold blockages and stay in our head and resist the natural flow of letting go completely by being raw and vulnerable and open to giving and receiving love. Have you ever experienced full body soul connecting love making? Your eyes lock within each other, everything about her or him sends electric pulses through your body as you touch, breath in sync, her body softens to your touch while his masculine energy takes responsibility to make love to her leaving each other feeling whole & loved like a form of euphoria. Connecting on this soul level is extremely important in a relationship, some times when we cant find a way to really express how deeply we feel for someone this is our chance to show our partner how we feel on a deeper level by pleasing them in a sensual way.
If you want this experience with your partner on a regular basis you have to relax into yourself by going in with the intention to free the mind, the ego and to be ready to surrender without resistance disolving all fears and insecurities. Come away from the idea of the end goal by being present in the moment with your partner offering your mind, body, soul love & pleasure and accepting the same in return. Communication is key so you know what makes your partner feel comfortable and what they like so you can build trust and make it as enjoyable as possible on both ends.
Alecia Zeta x
The VIOLET Mind