11/07/2025
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I am the youngest of eleven siblingsโfive brothers and five sisters. Sadly, two of my siblings passed away, one due to illness and the other by su***de. Many of them were bright and full of potential but lacked the opportunity to pursue formal education.
My father was both a tailor and a farmerโa well-known tailor in our community. He had a lively personality, often spending time drinking ๐๐ข๐ฏ๐ฅ๐ถ๐ข๐บ rum with his friends. Whenever he got drunk, his loud voice would echo throughout the neighborhood. Though our ears had grown accustomed to it, his presence was always felt.
My mother, a quiet yet strong presence, is the light of my life. She instilled in me the right values and encouraged me to always do what is right.
From a young age, I learned to take initiative to earn money. I used to fetch water for neighbors in exchange for a small amount of money. That was my first taste of responsibility and independence.
When I was about to enter elementary school, my sister accompanied me to enroll at Anonang Norte Elementary School in Bogo City, Cebu. I walked to school every day. Each morning, I would wake up early to cut grass for our two cows. After school, I returned to the fields to gather more. I studied at Anonang Norte until Grade 4, then transferred to La Paz Elementary School for personal reasons. Most of my siblings graduated from Anonang. I may not have been the smartest student, but I was diligent. My routine was school and work, and during weekends and summers, I helped my family taking care with the cows and worked on the sugarcane plantationโeven at a young age. The cows we tended belonged to a relative, Inday Vic Alagase.
After elementary, I wasn't sure where to attend high school, as there were few public schools nearby. I prayed that one would open in our barangayโand indeed, La Paz National High School was established. I enrolled there and continued my routine of waking early to cut grass and catch a free ride with my brother on a sugarcane truck to school.
Weekends and holidays were spent in the fields with my brother Ondo Tali, helping from cutting grass to harvesting sugarcaneโunder the sun or in the rain. For those who have worked in sugarcane plantations, you would understand the hardship. Name any farm taskโIโve done it. The cows we cared for helped our family make ends meet.
Despite these challenges, I finished high school with flying colors.
After high school, I couldn't go to college right away. I worked in Danao City at Tokyo Hardware, then assisted my brother in Mandaue with his baking business while taking care of my nephewsโwho are now professionals themselves. At 18, I moved to Buhisan, Cebu City, and worked at Metro Gaisano. Despite having no backers or strong connections, I got hired by Metro Gaisano (VicSal Corporation). When that job ended, I worked at Colonnade Supermarket.
Meanwhile, my former high school classmates were already in their second year of college. During my days off, I would go to National Bookstore in Ayala and Mango Avenue to read materials for college entrance exams. I applied to CNU and USJR and passed both. I chose Cebu Normal University (CNU), a state university, and went home to Bogo City to inform my parents of my plan to study. My mother is very supportive of my decision.
At CNU, I pursued a Bachelor of Science in Biology. I studied by day and worked by night as a part-time bagger at Metro Gaisano โ Colon. My father sewed my college uniformsโjust as he did in my elementary years. His work was so durable that I never experienced a single tear.
I would go straight from class to work, often taunted by my OIC for my un-ironed uniform. I remained silent, choosing grace over confrontation. Later, I explained I was a working studentโand from then on, she understood and treated me with kindness.
I worked part-time from 6:00 PM to 10:00 PM because I wanted to finish college. Though tuition was minimal, it was not free. I sometimes wrote promissory notes. Eventually, I received a scholarship during the term of Congressman Martinez and Cong. Salimbangon. Still, the funds didnโt arrive on time, so I continued workingโat Chowking SM Cebu and as a tutor for Korean students.
College was no easy ride. It was filled with hard work, sleepless nights, and sacrifice. After graduation, I worked as a medical representative, but my heart wasnโt in it. I eventually found purpose teaching biology and chemistry at Royal Oaks International School. During my free time, I volunteered teaching street boys in Colonโa mission close to the heart of the Society of the Divine Word (SVD), which serves the poor and marginalized.
This mission awakened something deeper in me. After prayer and discernment, I decided to enter religious life. I didnโt renew my teaching contract and followed my heart into the SVD as a Brother candidate.
The SVD offers two vocations: as a Priest (performing sacraments) and as a Brother (sanctifying the Church through professional work such as being a teacher, doctor, nurse, architect, etc.). My formation included:
โข 1 year Associate Program in Cebu for professionals
โข 1 year Postulancy Program in Tagaytay City (psycho-spiritual formation)
โข 1 year Novitiate Program in Calapan City, Oriental Mindoro (spiritual formation)
Afterward, I returned to Cebu and pursued a Masterโs degree at Seminario Mayor de San Carlos. Upon completion, I wrote to my Superior expressing my desire to study Medicine. Miraculously, my request was granted.
Despite being under formation and aware of how expensive medical school is, the Society supported me fully. Their belief in me was unwavering, and after years of sleepless nights and countless sacrifices, that support bore fruit.
In 2024, I passed the Physician Licensure Examination.
Today, I proudly say: I am now a licensed medical doctor.
This journey is proof that the Divine Word became flesh and dwelt among us. Thanks be to God!
To the Society of the Divine Word, former Provincial Superior Fr. Jingjong Eduardo Rocha SVD, current Provincial Superior Fr. Roger Bag-ao SVD, the SVD Brothers, teachers, formators, SVD Crusaders, family, relatives, and all my friends near and far Brendan Walls, Bishop Peter Johnson, Stephen Pierce, Fr Bill Rickle and SJ friends, Pastor Reg Weeks & Diane Gilliam-Weeks, Rev Scott Martin, Charles A. Mulik, Fr Steve Coffeyโthank you so much for shaping the person I am today.
My story isnโt mine aloneโand itโs never meant to boast. Itโs a tribute to every student striving to stay in school, every worker enduring long, tiring days, and every dreamer holding on in the face of lifeโs hardships. This is for all of you.
Donโt lose heart. You never know how far grit, gratitude, determination, kindness, and unwavering faith in God can take you.
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