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08/10/2021

Both members of a marriage deserve a chance to fulfill their potential.

08/10/2021

I came across a picture of you the other day, and it made my heart skip a beat.
It’d been some time since I thought of you and what we had, and I felt a strange mixture of sadness and happiness.
It seems like just yesterday that you were the most important thing in my life, the first person I told everything to and my safe place every day.
I don’t really remember why we didn’t work out, and it’s been so long, it doesn’t really matter, anyways.
It was a love story that I thought would never end- passionate nights and loving embraces that made me feel like I was floating on air.
For a time, it was beautiful, it was love and it was magical..
I fought so hard to move on, burying the memories and trying to forget..though it took me some time and healing to be okay with that..
I don’t even know that I ever fully worked through the pain of our split.
Until I saw your picture, I thought I had finally gotten past everything, but I learned something as the emotions washed over me.
Maybe we can forget, try to not think about or bury the memories of someone gone, something painful.. but the heart will never truly forget.
So, as a random thought flashes through my mind, I wonder what you’re doing. I debate reaching out to you..but I know that’s not what’s best.
Looking back will never help build a better future for myself, so I’m just going to look ahead.
Seeing you was a myriad of emotions, but most of all, it reminded me of how hard I’ve worked to become a stronger, wiser and happier person..
And nothing is worth sacrificing that, especially not the past.
I’ll never be able to grab onto new hope and possibilities if I’m holding onto the pain of what’s gone.
You’ll always hold a special place in my heart, but not in my life.
I’m saying hello to my future and I delete your picture, I’m saying goodbye..finally.
It’s a hard thing, moving on, but it’s necessary for my growth and happiness.
Turning the page to a new chapter is always sad when people aren’t part of it..
But this time, I’m being true to myself and just being happy.
That, for me, is all I could ask for.
I’m finally writing the story of my life the way I always should have..
For myself, my dreams and most of all, just loving who I am,
Best happily ever after that I could have imagined.
|ravenwolf

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04/10/2021

To be a superboss, do five things well.

04/10/2021

You asked me how I knew that I loved you.
You wondered why I chose you.
Honestly?
I didn't choose you.
My heart fell in love with yours.
Our souls connected in a way I’d never known.
I saw it in your eyes, felt it in your touch.
Butterflies made room for physical cravings- to hold you, to be close to you.
When I was away from you, every fiber of my being longed to be in your arms again.
Those feelings-emotional, physical and soulful,
Redefined everything I ever thought I knew about love.
In the blink of an eye, you became my everything, my person and my future.
You were the missing piece, the safe place, the beautiful truth I had always searched for.
In that moment, when your lips touched mine for the very first time, it was more than a feeling or an emotion.
It was meant to be.
When I kissed your lips and realized how wrong every other kiss had ever been,
it was then that I more than knew.
The answer that I had long sought showed up just when it was meant to, not a moment sooner.
I look at your beautiful eyes and see the reflections of my soul,
and I know all the reasons why I fell for you..
I could tell you how or why, but I'd much rather spend the rest of my life showing you all the ways you’re beloved to me.
I love you today more than I did yesterday- somehow- and I’ll love you more tomorrow than I do today.
I can’t say that you cross my mind, because you never leave it.
My love for you can't be described in any words I've ever known,
And I can't verbalize forever in a way that doesn't pale in comparison
to the beautiful love that I found in you.
I love you and I will never stop, for you will forever be my always.
|ravenwolf

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01/10/2021

28/09/2021

28/09/2021

Astronauts see the aurora regularly, but the one that French astronaut Thomas Pesquet captured is especially breathtaking.

25/09/2021

I realized today that everything in the world today just feels kinda heavy.
The stress, the news, all the bad stuff and pandemonium..it’s just a little overwhelming sometimes.
We’re all rushing around trying to live our best lives and do all the things that we have to do that we’ve stopped doing what makes us happy and brings us peace.
We all tell ourselves that once everything is done and we’ve finished doing all the things that we must do..that’s when we will rest.
We promise ourselves that is when we will take that vacation and make some time for our peace of mind.
Only, that time never comes.
We keep doing and going until each day slips away and there’s no time left over to rest and recharge.
So, let’s stop all the busyness for a bit and remember the things that make us happy.
Letting go of the need to rush about and losing ourselves in the peace of loving the beauty of the moments.
It doesn’t have to be long or fantastic.
It can be a quiet cup of coffee.
It can be reading a chapter in your favorite book.
It can be anything that frees your mind from the frantic pace that sometimes rules your life.
But if you want to really step away and find a new path, take my hand and join me in that place that transcends definition..where we can do and be anything we want to be.
It’s not about where you’re going or what you’re doing..
It’s about losing yourself in the adventures that remind you how amazing it is to be truly alive.
Let’s get in the car, roll the windows down, turn up the music and just drive.
Wind blowing through our hair, freedom electrifying our spirits..that’s when we remember how beautiful life can be.
Let’s find those places where everything and everyone isn’t so heavy and let’s just linger there for a while.
We don’t need destinations or tasks to be happy.
We just need to fall in love with being alive again.
Rekindling that spark that we lost along the way when life got hard and we started feeling heavy.
It’s not easy to let it go, even for a time..
But I can promise you that it’s worth it.
It’s worth all the struggles, the challenges and hard days to find those serene moments of beauty that are waiting to be found.
It’s up to you and me to search out those reminders of how beautiful life can be.
Wanna go?
Jump in the car and let’s lose ourselves in adventure.
If not now, when?
Let’s go.
There’s never going to be a more perfect time than right now.
It’s our time, right now, to change our lives and choose to be more, do more and live more
Let’s do that.
Let’s choose to be happy, one gorgeous moment at a time.
|ravenwolf

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17/09/2021

WordPress is global in reach and open source in nature. And you would assume that what allows the software to be used by anyone would also enable it to be built by anyone. After all, your location …

12/09/2021

You need, power only when you want to do something Harmful, otherwise Love is enough to get everything done.

~ Charlie Chaplin♡
Rumi

12/09/2021

You’ve spent your days fighting to survive, gasping for air when all you want to do is breathe freely.
You’ve never really had a choice on who you wanted to become, because life chose that path for you.
You’re tired in ways that sleep alone will never remedy.
You need peace.
You need purpose.
You just need to be happy.
No, it’s not easy and it’s not always obvious how to find those things in your life.
You’ll probably struggle to find yourself and your way many times..
But you’re worth it-
You’ve always been worth it.
It’s just been a very long time since you’ve truly believed in yourself or that deserved more.
Stop and take a deep breath.
See the world you’ve created all around you?
Notice the people that love and need you?
You did that, and it’s only just the start.
You’re capable of so much more, but you have to let go of yesterday’s regrets, guilt and sadness.
You can’t open your heart and arms to the future if you’re still shackled to your past.
Embrace who you are, how far you’ve come and the possibilities.
Your soul has been restless for some time, hasn’t it?
You’ve ignored those feelings, occupied yourself with mindless activities hoping that need for more would go away..
And it will..once you start listening.
And start doing.
Stop telling yourself what you can’t do and start believing what you can.
Remember the hopes and dreams that you had so long ago as a child?
They’re still there, still waiting for you to remember.
You’re standing on the edge of tomorrow’s precipice, and you’ve always had those wings that you’ve forgotten you had.
It’s time for you, darling, to start a new journey and become who you were meant to be..
No more putting off, delaying or waiting.
It’s your time to fly..
Take that first step into the unknown..
Beautiful things are waiting for you,
If you’re ready to believe.
|ravenwolf

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12/09/2021

They tell you to find yourself, be true to who you were meant to be..
But then, sometimes, the very people who cheered you on decide they don’t like who you’ve become.
It’s not really that I changed that much..it’s that you decided you didn’t like who I was all along.
As long as I fit into your definition of what you thought I should be, you’re happy.
But the moment you realize that I’m strong, I’m different, I’m beautifully unique?
That’s too much for you and you vanish along the way..and that makes me a little sad.
I should thank you for encouraging me to stop hiding who I was all along and even more, that you left so quickly- you really did my a favor.
I want to know that the people I hold close to my heart are the ones that will accept me for who I am..
I know I won’t always have it together, I’ll make some terrible decisions and chase the wrong ones in love..but my people won’t care.
They’ll be there to hold my hand through the letdowns, talk me off the ledges and always show me they love me without condition or judgement.
It took a lot of courage to search my soul and start being true to myself, and I’m proud of who I’m becoming.
It saddens me that there are people that I once considered friends who decided I wasn’t important enough to keep walking beside me.
I’d rather know now than down the road when I really needed them.
It still hurts, though, when someone you loved turns their back on you simply because they don’t approve of the changes you’ve made to better yourself.
Yes, I’m tragically flawed and beautifully broken, but I own who I am and where I’ve been and I don’t make excuses for any of it.
It saddens me to see people who were once close to my heart fade away into being strangers, but I’ve learned that life has a way of showing you the true colors of those around you.
I survived a hard road and somehow found myself along the way,
I just wish I hadn’t lost some as I unveiled my truths..
But then, I’ll always be too much for some people, and I’m good with that.
If they can’t handle me at my worst, then they don’t deserve to handle me at my best.
I deserve the best from the people in my life, because that’s just who I am and will always be.
Bold, beautiful and free.
|Ravenwolf

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12/09/2021

07/09/2021

07/09/2021

Harry White served his country as a soldier and then served in the Secret Service for 25 years.

07/09/2021

29/08/2021

Everyone tried to tell me who they thought I should be and how I should act.
I spent many years listening to everyone’s opinions about my looks, my personality- even who I loved.
I’m done listening to their nonsense any more.
Nobody has walked in my shoes and they don’t know my reasons for being who I am.
They weren’t there during the battles I fought, the times when I got knocked down and the nights that I was coming apart.
Truth is, I don’t expect very few to get who I am and why I’ve made the choices I have made..
Only that I’m not going to conform, water myself down or change to please anyone else.
I tried that and it just made me miserable.
I dance to my own music, fight my own battles and make my own choices.
I don’t need anyone’s approval and I don’t care about being accepted by them.
In fact, I much rather prefer to stand out, stand up and be heard for the passionately intense person that I am.
Some may call me difficult, opinionated or too independent, and I’ll keep smiling through their comments.
I have a voice and I will be heard.
I have boundaries and they will be respected.
I have strength and it will be recognized.
I know I’m not for everyone, but the few people in my circle that I love dearly- they totally love and get me for who I am.
They don’t try to change me, they love me for every bit of the fierce warrior that’s made it this far.
Everyone else is going to have their opinion of me regardless of what I do or don’t do..
So I let them think whatever they choose.
I don’t need permission to live my best life, love my people hard and chase my dreams.
Maybe I won’t always be understood or even liked, but I will be respected for the person that I’ve fought so very hard to become..
I’ve paid dearly to evolve and become better- tears, heartaches and long nights were the currency for my journey..
And every day, I’m still paying the price to get stronger, become wiser and to be better.
It’s my choice and my life..
And I choose to pursue the things that fulfill my passions and electrify my soul.
So, when people sit on the sidelines and try to tell me how to live my life,
I’ll just smile and keep going.
By the time they’ve finished their judgement of me, I’ve already moved on..
To the next challenge, next dream and next happy moment.
I don’t dwell in the negativity.
After all, every day in every way,
I remind the world very loudly..
“THIS is who I am..and today, I rise.”
|ravenwolf

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22/08/2021

I know that you’ve been bruised, broken and battered.
I see the pain in your eyes.
I know I can’t make it go away or always make it better.
You don’t always need me to rescue you, fight for you or save the day.
Sometimes, you just need me..
To be there and care.
Sometimes, listening is all you want.
Not to offer you a solution or try to fix everything , but just to rest your weary soul on my shoulder.
I’ll give you refuge on those days- when the world has just been too much and has worn you down.
Know that I’ll always love you for the woman that you are and the soulful spirit you’ve always been.
I don’t have all the answers, but then, you don’t need me to.
Sometimes, all you need is just me..
To hold you, to listen, to care.
I’ll always be there for the laughter, the tears and everything in between.
Together, there’s nothing we can’t overcome.
In the meantime, just hold my hand and I’ll protect your heart.
There’s nothing stronger than our love.
I’ll stand with you through the storms and dance with you in the rain.
Me and you, forever.
|Ravenwolf

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