Talk to Suzy Roxas

26/09/2025

22/09/2025

Family favoritism: #6 Self-reject
Bakit tagos buto ang sakit na hindi ka ‘favorite’? Kasi ang trato sa iyo ay ‘iba ka’—- Hindi parehas,parating may kulang, parating nilalamangan. Ang Turing sa iyo OUTSIDER — aka spare wheel. Nawalan ka nga identity na equal ka sa mga kapatid, hindi ka pa equally belong. Kapos pa sa biyaya ng pamilya. Tratong kulang, tratong outsider, puno ng hiya. Hindi na kabilang sa loob. Kailangan magmalimos ng pagmamahal

18/09/2025

15/09/2025

Favoritism, a family cancer: #13 Never good enough
Favoritism is an active choice to love the other child more.
It needs just 2 family members engaged to keep the cancer alive.
Favoritism is an unspoken and unwritten family contract that is unsustainable, mostly to the unfavored. The video explains how.
Why do family members perpetuate favoritism? Because it is too expensive to challenge the system. The system challenger loses many resources: love, adulation, kindness, money, sense of self.
Is there a solution?
Not without involving the whole family.
Do not wait till the unfairness and injustice and inequality destroy all relationships.
Fight for deeper love and authenticity by demanding more from one another, including talking about favoritism in the open.

11/09/2025

Governing done right