Grayce, Mintal (2025)

12/05/2025

NO WOMAN WANTS TO BE ANGRY ALL THE TIME OR BE LABELED AS TOXIC. 🙂

If you think her reactions are always excessive or out of place, maybe it's time to look at yourself. A woman doesn’t just become difficult or hot-headed for no reason; most of the time, it’s a reaction to the way you treat her.

Are you focusing on every little flaw of hers? Do you point out her mistakes while ignoring your own? When was the last time you really took a hard look in the mirror and asked yourself if you're being fair to her?

She’s not the problem if all you’re showing her is disrespect, neglect, or indifference. You can't just judge her like that when your own behavior is left unchecked.

If you want a woman to love you fully, you need to take care of her trust and respect. In the end, she's not looking for perfection. She just wants to feel valued by you, in both words and actions. Maybe the reason you think she's toxic is because you haven’t yet understood the importance of being a responsible partner.

08/05/2025

41 RULES TO STAY AHEAD OF THE GAME

1. **Privacy is your superpower.** What others don’t know, they can’t ruin. Keep your life close to the chest—people thrive on drama.

2. **Loneliness is part of the journey.** Embrace it; it’s an art form all its own.

3. **Remember, everything is temporary.** Life is fleeting, so stay grounded and humble.

4. **Everyone you meet is fighting a battle you know nothing about.** Be kind; it costs nothing.

5. **Your partner mirrors you.** Choose wisely. Seek out her values just as diligently as her looks.

6. **Your mental health trumps everyone’s feelings.** Be a little selfish here; it’s vital.

7. **You don’t need more time; you need fewer distractions.** Focus is your key to success.

8. **Guard your time fiercely.** Not everyone deserves a piece of it.

9. **Surround yourself with those who truly value you.** You shouldn't have to plead for respect and appreciation.

10. **Self-love is not selfish; it’s necessary.**

11. **Treasure those who lighten your load.** They are rare gems in this world.

12. **Choose your circle with care.** The right people uplift you; the wrong ones can drag you down.

13. **Peace of mind is invaluable.** Protect it at all costs.

14. **Stop chasing love; simply live your life.** The right person will come along.

15. **Seek those who embody that “grow together” mindset.** Lift each other higher.

16. **No regrets—just lessons learned.** Dust yourself off and push forward.

17. **Pursue someone proud to have you by their side.**

18. **Never surrender.** Everyone faces tough times; pick yourself up and keep going.

19. **If you feel drained, take a step back to recharge—don’t quit.**

20. **Sometimes, you need to disappear to return stronger.**

21. **Learn from the successes of others, but let their mistakes teach you wisdom.**

22. **Want to be happy?** Stop expecting anything from anyone; nobody owes you a thing.

23. **Everything will fall into place eventually.** Keep that optimistic mindset alive.

24. **Keep grinding—your breakthrough is on the horizon.**

25. **There’s nothing more attractive than mutual effort.**

26. **Stop overthinking it in places where you’re not valued.**

27. **If no one lends a hand, take the initiative yourself. Complaining won't help.**

28. **Obsess over your growth.** It’s the best investment you can make.

29. **A heart-to-heart should never end in conflict.** Open dialogue is sacred.

30. **“I’ll do it tomorrow” is just procrastination in disguise.**

31. **Aim not to stay the same—strive to be better.**

32. **Sometimes, waiting is more powerful than forcing things to happen.**

33. **Not everyone will understand your journey, and that’s perfectly fine.**

34. **Heal so you don’t become a reflection of your past trauma.**

35. Keep your circle small and your friends insightful.**

36. If they’re only around temporarily, feel free to let them go permanently.**

37. People come and go; learn how to stand strong alone.**

38. If needed, take time to disappear and focus on yourself.**

39. Some will resent you for refusing to be controlled. That’s their problem.

40. Concentrate on your improvement, not on proving yourself to others.

41. Never, ever return to what once broke you.

**Keep pushing forward!**

06/05/2025

12 BEST INHERITANCE YOU CAN GIVE TO YOUR CHILDREN

1. WISDOM
Wisdom is not graded in schools, wisdom is acquired through life experiences. The best people to teach wisdom are the parents. Mentor your children, share with them your experiences, don't allow them to learn tough lessons through trial and error yet you can impart in them awareness that will make them wiser and go further than you

2. SOCIAL SKILLS
This is one of the most important inheritance you can give them because life is about relationships. Teach your children how to handle self, how to handle sisterhood and brotherhood, how to handle the opposite gender, how to choose the right company, how to make friends and keep friends, how to interact and socialize, how to communicate. This will help your children as they leave your nest

3. HEALTHY VIEW OF FAMILY
If you damage your children's view of marriage you might damage them for life. As a couple, model to them what a healthy couple looks like; the experiences at home shape the children's romantic decisions. If you are a single parent, perhaps divorced or widowed; still speak honourably about marriage and family. Let your children know your experience doesn't have to be their experience

4. GOOD MEMORIES
Childhood memories are what torment adults or keep adults going. Give your children moments they will treasure even after you are gone. Let your children testify, "There are good people in this world and they came in the form of my parents"

5. SOUND MENTAL HEALTH
The worst thing you can leave to your children is trauma. A lot of children receive trauma from their parents through insults, abuse, neglect, comparison and rejection. Leave your children sound mental health by caring, loving and covering them

6. A GOOD NAME
Leave your children a reputation that they will admire, be great to the point your children will feel proud to be associated by you, to carry your name and to name their children after you

7. AN IDENTITY
You have the keys to your children's identity. It is up to you to teach them about their family tree, who are their great grandparents, grandparents, uncles and aunties, cousins, how did you two meet as a couple? so that the children can continue the family lineage

8. FINANCIAL WEALTH
Your children will need money to build their own life; leave them assets, money, shares in companies or even a family business to run. In addition, teach them wealth management. Don't let them struggle yet it was you who brought them into this world

9. A LEGACY OF FAITH
Leave your children with the knowledge of God, pray with them so that they build a prayerful lifestyle that they will help them through life when you are not around. Teach them that as a parent you have your limits but God is their everything

10. CONFIDENCE
Give your children the belief in self, let them leave your hands with a better understanding of their purpose, with an awareness of their greatness. Teach them to silence bullies and to push on when it gets tough

11. VALUES AND TRADITION
Transfer to your children good values and traditions to uphold, such as integrity, hard work, honesty, eating together as a family, unity; so that they continue this on their own

12. A SUPPORT SYSTEM
Introduce your children to mentors, spiritual leaders, family friends, books, teachers, communities, h social clubs that will enrich your children's lives; you can only do so much as a parent, some blessings will come in the other people and platform.
Remember; We are all the product of the previous generation, if we are a responsible person so our parents are responsible too. These will be the best tips to best our next generation a healthy and respectful generator. God bless us all

06/05/2025

Protect your wife from your negligence. Pay attention to her needs and concerns, ensuring she feels valued and heard.

Protect your wife from your anger. Practice patience and understanding, allowing your home to be a place of peace and love.

Protect your wife from your pride. Be willing to admit when you're wrong and apologize sincerely, fostering trust and mutual respect.

Protect your wife from your indifference. Show her you care through your actions and words, reinforcing her importance in your life.

Protect your wife from your distractions. Prioritize quality time together, free from the interruptions of work and technology.

Protect your wife from your impatience. Give her the time she needs to express herself, knowing her thoughts and feelings matter to you.

Protect your wife from your insecurities. Offer her confidence and reassurance, supporting her dreams and ambitions.

Protect your wife from your unrealistic expectations. Accept her for who she is, embracing her flaws and celebrating her strengths.

Protect your wife from your past mistakes. Learn from them and strive to be a better partner, committed to a brighter future together.

Protect your wife from your silence. Communicate openly and honestly, creating a foundation of trust and intimacy in your relationship.

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06/05/2025

Kapag si Mister ay good provider
Maalaga sa asawa,
Mapag mahal sa mga anak
Nag tataguyod sa pamilya
Sya yung sentro at nagbibigay buhay sa pamilya

Makikita sa pag katao ni misis na mabuti syang mister

Blooming si misis
Hindi mabunganga si misis
Maganda ang itsura ni misis
Maayos ang mga anak
Payapa ang pag sasama at higit sa lahat
Nagkakaroon ng maraming blessings sa tahanan

PERO kapag si Mister ay walang emotional intelligence, alak at bisyo, walang dereksyon or plano sa kinabukasan ng Asawa't mga anak

Losyang si misis
Mabunganga si misis
Magulo ang pag sasama
Sakitin ang mga anak
Baon sa utang
Puro problema
Walang katahimikan sa tahanan

MAKIKITA SA KATAYUAN NG ISANG MISIS KUNG PAANO SYA TINATRATO NG KANYANG ÀSAWA

WOMEN IS A REFLECTION OF MANS LOVE ‼️

Ctto

06/05/2025

The silent treatment is a refusal to verbally communicate with your spouse, often as a means of punishment, emotional manipulation, or control.

The silent treatment is a manipulation tactic that can leave important issues in a relationship/Marriage unresolved. It also can leave the spouse on the receiving end feeling worthless, unloved, hurt, confused, frustrated, angry, and unimportant.

Silent treatment is one of the greatest killers of communication in marriage, it solves nothing and only pushes you two apart

Shutting your spouse out and refusing to engage in talks to demonstrate how mad you are only works against your marriage.

You will have your silent way but your issues don't get resolved and can lead to almost permanent damage

Irrespective of your fights, communication shouldn't be on hold.

No matter the gravity of your misunderstanding, communication should resume without lingered hurts.

Emotional connection is one of the best way to bond with your spouse.

When you spouse disconnects from you emotionally, it will affect every area of your marriage, especially your s*xual life.

WHAT TO DO!

1. Don’t assume you know the reason for the silent treatment.

The first step to handling the silent treatment is to figure out why your partner is being silent. Is it because they are feeling hurt and don’t know how to express their feelings? Or are they using silence as a form of punishment or retribution?

Look for the reasons behind the silent treatment.

Once you’ve identified the reason behind their silence, you can start to work towards finding a solution.

People who give the silent treatment aren’t always doing it out of malice.

They may have trouble expressing themselves, especially when it comes to negative emotions like anger and grief. They may also be afraid of how you might react knowing how they really feel or think.

2. Explain to your Silent Spouse your need and desire to communicate.
The most important thing you can do when dealing with the silent treatment is to have a conversations with your spouse.

3. Be ready to listen, not just talk.

Getting the silent treatment might trigger anger in you too and you may lose control over your tone. This will defeat the purpose of your conversation.

Try to stay calm and avoid becoming defensive. Focus on listening to your partner's concerns and working together to find a solution.

Do not interrupt. They are likely going to clam up if they sense that you are just looking to fight and take the floor. We often fail to realize where we stopped listening.

4. Try to show empathy instead of winning sympathy from your Silent Spouse.

Acknowledge your spouse's emotions even if you are not the recipient of the silent treatment. Try to validate their experience. It lays the foundation for comfort, openness, and trust signaling towards the fact that you genuinely care about their feelings.

5. Do Not Try To Win the Silent Treatment:

You need to realize that there is no winning or losing when dealing with the silent treatment. It should not be a blame game. Your goal should be to resolve the issue once and for all.

However, both parties should realize their mistakes and make it a point that they do not repeat them.

6. Share your feelings with them.
As you invite them to talk directly with you, let them know the impact their withdrawal has on you. You might say something like this: “I’ve noticed that something seems to be bothering you. You seem to have withdrawn. I want to invite you to talk directly to me about whatever is troubling you. I also want to let you know that I find your prolonged silence to be very hurtful.”

7. Be willing to let go of your grudge.

Grudges can be devastating. Irrespective of which end of the silent treatment you are on, always be ready to ask and offer forgiveness.

If you are someone who has never apologized to your spouse, try it. You will feel so much lighter when your part of the job is done.

8. Make time.
Getting a silent spouse talking takes time. And you might need to schedule time where you can just be alone. If you’re not in the habit already, this might be a good reason to start making date nights to have some time away from kids and work and everyday stuff to focus on communicating.

9. Be ready to ask for forgiveness.
Sometimes the silence comes from an unspoken hurt you’re unaware of causing. If it surfaces, don’t be defensive, but be willing to evaluate it and own it. Asking for forgiveness in a meaningful way can be a powerful help to a marriage

10. Be ready to offer forgiveness.
Sometimes silence comes from your spouse’s guilt or shame. If this surfaces, having a forgiving heart may be just what’s needed to open up the gates of meaningful conversation again with your spouse. Forgiveness is a decision. When you really forgive someone, you are making a decision to release, embrace, pardon, and grow.

11. Don’t give up.
Complacency is so destructive in marriage.

08/04/2025

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19/06/2024

Dear INLAWS

1) DON'T Encourage your SON and his WIFE to stay under same roof with you. Best to suggest them to move out, even to the extent of renting a house. It's their problem to find a separate home.
More the distance between you and your children's families, the better is the relationship with your in laws.

2) Treat your Son's Wife as his wife, not as your own daughter, maybe just treat her as a friend. Your son would always be your Junior but, if you think that his wife is of the same rank and if you ever scolded her, she would remember it for life.
In real life, only her own mother and not u will be viewed as a person qualified to scold or correct her.

3) Whatever HABITS or CHARACTER your Son's Wife has, is not your problem at all, it is your son's problem. It isn't your problem as he is an ADULT already.

4) Even when living together, make each others businesses clear, don't do their laundry, don't cook for them and don't baby sit their children. Unless, of course, there is a special request by your son's wife and you feel that you're capable and don't expect anything in return.

Most importantly, you shouldn't worry about your son's family problems.
Let them settle themselves

5) Pretend to be Blind and Deaf when your son and his wife are quarrelling. It's normal that the young couple do not like their parents to be involved in the dispute between husband and wife.

6) Your Grandchildren totally belong to your son and his wife. However they want to raise their children, it is up to them.
The credit or blame would be on them.

7) Your Son's Wife need not necessarily respect and serve you. It is the son's duty. You should have taught your son to be a better person so that you and your Daughter in Law's relationship could be better.

8. Do more Planning for your own Retirement, Don't Rely on your Children to take care of your retirement. You had already walked through most of your journey in life, there are still a lot of new things to learn through out the journey.

9) It is Your Own interest that you Enjoy Your Retirement years. Better if you could utilise & enjoy everything that you had saved before you die. Don't let your wealth become worthless to you.

10) Grandchildren don't belong to your family, they're their parents precious gift.

CREDITS:
ADVICE from a Supreme Court JUDGE who Handled Family Dispute Courts:
Very applicable to Seafarer's Parents.

_This message is not only for you. Please share it with your friends, parents, in-laws, uncles, aunties, husband or wife to find peace & progress in life as it is *based on life long experience* of a *judge* who handled *family dispute courts*.

19/06/2024

QUALITIES OF A GREAT WIFE.

1. SHE IS INTELLIGENT.

She opens her lips and oozes wisdom. One can have a hard and serious talk with her.

2. SHE IS EMOTIONALLY STABLE.

Yes, she may be hurt, feeling low and going through much, but she's a master of her feelings. She remains calm and collected

3. SHE MULTIPLIES.

She will turn one hundred into a thousand, a thousand into a million. She doesn't sit pretty and lazy waiting to be done for.

4. SHE LOVES BEING LOVED

Yes, she is not waiting to be done for things, but when you love on her and do good to her, she is receptive and appreciative. In as much as she loves to give, she welcomes being served and given too

5. SHE LOVES THROUGH FOOD

She will make attempts to cook the best meals and in the process, feed your soul too

6. SHE'S FUN

Though she's intelligent, she can also act silly, crack jokes, tease, laugh; she is great company

7. SHE KNOWS HOW TO CALL FOR HELP

When she's stuck or in trouble, she knows how to ask for help. She doesn't suffer alone

8. SHE'S A REFLECTION OF GOD

You see her and see God, she's becoming more and more like God: loving, forgiving, graceful, strong valued

9. SHE IS CONFIDENT

Whether she is an introvert or outgoing, she has a high self esteem. You can't bring her down. She has admirable qualities

10. SHE FEEDS HER MIND, BODY AND SPIRIT

You will catch her often reading a stimulating book or novel, praying, eating the right foods and working out

11. SHE KEEPS RELATIONSHIPS

She will have strong people surrounding her, whether a best friend, a clique of girlfriends or a bunch of close friends.

She values relationships with friends and family not just the one with her man

12. SHE UNDERSTANDS HER BODY

She is self aware. She knows what type of clothes, fashion and hair compliments her body shape, size and complexion. She looks phyically good

13. SHE IS SEXUALLY AND FAITHFULLY ALIVE

She is not afraid to make s*xual advances on her spouse, she knows how to make him touch her and desire her. She is s*xually exciting. She is faithful to him and respects s*x

14. SHE NURTURES

She takes care and covers children; whether her own or other people's.

15. SHE IS A TEACHER AND A STUDENT

She is one to advice and correct her man with love but also willing to learn and be corrected

16. SHE GIVES GREAT HUGS

Her touch is reassuring and comforting. She leaves you feeling loved and cared for

17. SHE IS NOT INDEPENDENT

Though she is successful, professional, has her own money and is educated; she admits she needs her man.

Being a modern woman doesn't mean she ages alone in her big mansion. She needs to love and be loved

18. SHE DOES NOT DO DRAMA

She values her peace and makes no apologies when she walks away from nonsensical matters.

19. SHE BLESSES AND ADDS VALUE

Everyone who encounters her is positively impacted. She oozes wisdom, uplifts you and speaks to King or Queen in you

©️ 📷 ✍️ ctto

08/06/2024

1) DON'T Encourage your SON and his WIFE to stay under same roof with you. Best to suggest them to move out, even to the extent of renting a house. It's their problem to find a separate home.
More the distance between you and your children's families, the better is the relationship with your in laws.

2) Treat your Son's Wife as his wife, not as your own daughter, maybe just treat her as a friend. Your son would always be your Junior but, if you think that his wife is of the same rank and if you ever scolded her, she would remember it for life.
In real life, only her own mother and not u will be viewed as a person qualified to scold or correct her.

3) Whatever HABITS or CHARACTER your Son's Wife has, is not your problem at all, it is your son's problem. It isn't your problem as he is an ADULT already.

4) Even when living together, make each others businesses clear, don't do their laundry, don't cook for them and don't baby sit their children. Unless, of course, there is a special request by your son's wife and you feel that you're capable and don't expect anything in return.

Most importantly, you shouldn't worry about your son's family problems.
Let them settle themselves

5) Pretend to be Blind and Deaf when your son and his wife are quarrelling. It's normal that the young couple do not like their parents to be involved in the dispute between husband and wife.

6) Your Grandchildren totally belong to your son and his wife. However they want to raise their children, it is up to them.
The credit or blame would be on them.

7) Your Son's Wife need not necessarily respect and serve you. It is the son's duty. You should have taught your son to be a better person so that you and your Daughter in Law's relationship could be better.

8. Do more Planning for your own Retirement, Don't Rely on your Children to take care of your retirement. You had already walked through most of your journey in life, there are still a lot of new things to learn through out the journey.

9) It is Your Own interest that you Enjoy Your Retirement years. Better if you could utilise & enjoy everything that you had saved before you die. Don't let your wealth become worthless to you.

10) Grandchildren don't belong to your family, they're their parents precious gift.

CREDITS:
ADVICE from a Supreme Court JUDGE who Handled Family Dispute Courts:
Very applicable to Seafarer's Parents.

_This message is not only for you. Please share it with your friends, parents, in-laws, uncles, aunties, husband or wife to find peace & progress in life as it is *based on life long experience* of a *judge* who handled *family dispute courts*.

CTTO

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