06/07/2025
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Physical aggression in autistic children can be challenging and confusing for families. Many parents worry about why their child hits, bites, or pushes. It is important to know that aggression is not simply โbad behavior.โ It is often a form of communication or a reaction to something the child cannot express in words.
There are several common reasons behind physical aggression in autistic children. Sensory overload is one of the most frequent. When a child feels overwhelmed by noise, lights, crowds, or other sensations, they may act out physically to escape or cope with discomfort. Communication difficulties also play a big role. If a child cannot express pain, frustration, or needs, they may use aggression to get attention or to stop something that feels too hard.
Other origins include changes in routine, feeling anxious, or even medical issues like pain or hunger that the child cannot describe. Sometimes, aggressive behavior is a way for children to try to control their environment or to protect themselves from situations they find confusing or scary.
Hitting and other forms of aggression can also be learned behaviors. If a child sees that hitting leads to getting what they want, escaping a situation, or receiving extra attention, they may repeat the behavior. Children can also learn to hit by imitating others or because they do not yet know safer ways to express their needs and feelings. How adults respond to aggressionโsuch as quickly giving in or providing a strong reactionโcan also make hitting more likely to continue.
Understanding the reason behind aggression is the first step to helping. Instead of punishing the behavior, try to observe what happened before and after the outburst. This can give important clues about what the child is feeling or needing. With the right support, strategies, and patience, most children can learn safer and more effective ways to express themselves.
If you have concerns about aggression, working with an occupational therapist or other specialists can help you find practical solutions that fit your childโs unique needs.