18/12/2025
O QUE MUDOU EM MIM QUANDO PERCEBI ONDE COLOCAR O MEU FOCO (engl 👇)
Este tem sido, para mim, um ano de foco e de atenção plena. Num ano conturbado, exigente e por vezes emocionalmente intenso, senti que a verdadeira questão não era o que estava a acontecer, mas onde eu estava a colocar a minha atenção.
Aprendi que o foco é uma escolha diária. E que viver em atenção plena não é um conceito abstrato nem um estado permanente de equilíbrio. É, antes, um exercício constante de regresso. Regresso ao essencial. Regresso ao que importa.
Ao longo deste ano, o meu foco foi-se afinando. Foi-se tornando mais claro que o lugar onde quero estar é no meu jardim interno, esse espaço invisível onde cultivo a minha paz, as minhas intenções, os meus valores. E também no meu jardim externo, feito das pessoas que amo, dos mais próximos que, sem saberem, me ensinam todos os dias o que significa estar verdadeiramente presente.
Este foi o ano em que me senti mais focada naquilo que realmente interessa. Não foi fácil. Continua a não ser. Há dias em que a atenção se dispersa, em que o ruído entra, em que a vida tenta puxar-me para fora do meu centro. Mas tenho-me treinado para isso. Treinado o olhar. Treinado a escuta. Treinado a capacidade de perceber quando me afasto e, com gentileza, puxar-me de volta.
Tenho aprendido a proteger o meu foco ... continuar a ler em: www.espacoyndigo.com/blog-yndigo
E o teu ano, qual o balanço que fazes?
What changed in me when I realized where to place my focus.
This has been a year of focus and mindfulness for me. In a turbulent, demanding, and sometimes emotionally intense year, I felt that the real issue wasn't what was happening, but where I was placing my attention.
I learned that focus is a daily choice. And that living mindfully is not an abstract concept or a permanent state of equilibrium. Rather, it is a constant exercise of return. Return to the essential. Return to what matters.
Throughout this year, my focus has been refined. It has become clearer that the place where I want to be is in my inner garden, that invisible space where I cultivate my peace, my intentions, my values. And also in my outer garden, made up of the people I love, those closest to me who, without knowing it, teach me every day what it means to be truly present.
This was the year I felt most focused on what really matters. It wasn't easy. It still isn't. There are days when my attention wanders, when noise creeps in, when life tries to pull me away from my center. But I've trained myself for that. Trained my gaze. Trained my listening. Trained my ability to notice when I drift away and, gently, pull myself back.
I've learned to protect my focus like someone protecting something precious. Not to waste it on distractions that don't add anything, on worries I can't control, on paths I don't want to take. Because the focus I choose today silently builds the life I'm creating inside and around me.
I've also practiced mindfulness, not in long meditations or formal rituals, but in real life. In everyday life. In simple tasks. In family time. In being truly present while I am. In living each moment as if it were the first and, perhaps, the last. Because even when it repeats, it's never the same. It's never exactly that instant again.
I'm incredibly lucky to have people around me, big and small, who remind me of that every day. They show me, with their presence and spontaneity, that moments don't accumulate, they are lived. And that they deserve to be lived fully, without distractions, without haste, without always being halfway to another place.
It doesn't mean that I don't care about the state of the world, about the future of our young people and our children. I do care, of course I do. But I have learned something important: there is a difference between concern and presence. As someone I admire very much says, the word for the madness that is sweeping the world right now is acceptance. Not a resigned acceptance, but a conscious acceptance. I haven't stopped believing in change, I deeply believe in it. I desire it. But I know that change comes when we are ready for it. And that, often, what we can do is wait, trust and pray for the best.
All of this has been, for me, an inner journey. A path of alignment, of peace and of serenity possible in the midst of chaos. A year in which I learned that focus is not closing your eyes to the world, but choosing where to place your heart.
And today, I know more clearly than ever: where I place my focus, I find myself.
And this deep wish goes out to you: that you may find yourself in harmony with the world.
And your year how was it?