09/02/2026
We’re living through genuinely overwhelming, frightening, enraging times.
If you feel rage, fear, grief, panic, exhaustion, or all of it at once - it is adequate. The news about the unimaginable abuse of the vulnerable, the wars, the growing discrimination, the democratic states turning authoritarian - your nervous system is responding appropriately to what’s happening in the world! And it can feel a tad ridiculous to talk about nervous system regulation under these circumstances. Some even question, whether it is a "morally right" thing to do, or do we rather *need* to stay dysregulated in order to protest and implement change.
I hear these voices and these questions. However, let’s be clear about something: regulation is not numbing, not complacency nor indifference.
It’s not pretending things are fine.
It’s not bypassing, dissociating, or gaslighting yourself into “good vibes only.”
And it’s definitely not living in a delusional bubble where injustice and horror don’t exist.
Regulation is the capacity to stay connected - to reality, to your values, to your emotions - without being completely hijacked & overwhelmed by sensations in your body & the meanings your mind ascribes to them.
You can be outraged & regulated.
You can feel deep grief & be grounded.
You can hold anger without letting it burn you alive from the inside.
A regulated nervous system doesn’t erase your rage, it helps you carry it without collapsing or exploding. It allows your anger to be informative and be the fuel for what needs to be done. It makes space for action, boundaries, care & discernment. Being consumed by rage or fear doesn’t create conditions for deliberation & choice.
Dysregulation isn’t proof that you care more & being calm isn’t proof that you don’t care at all. Emotions & grounding can coexist. And right now, that coexistence is actually necessary if we, as a society, want to make steps that create positive change, rather than just unrest.
Be gentle with yourself. Your reactions make sense. And you can also offer yourself support. 💟
If doing this alone feels not enough - reach out. I am here to offer somatic guidance and tools.
Warmly,
Jurga