18/08/2025
🌍 On Injustice and Non-Violence
There is so much injustice in the world. About 4.5 years ago, I faced a painful turning point in my personal life, where injustice struck my family deeply.
I am a strong believer in non-violence and a peaceful approach. For me, as the Dalai Lama explains, this means dialogue—using our language, our human intelligence. Problems should never be solved by force.
Yet, my young children were taken from me with aggression and force, based on false accusations like pornographie and sexual abuse that I could never have imagined to be taken serious. Within weeks, their father—having the status to work for one of the wealthiest families in the world—managed to convince the authorities to separate my children from me and give their care to him. Since then, many harmful actions have been used to keep the children with him against their will. Even today, they ask daily to return to their mother—and still, he refuses.
For a long time, the trauma and the repeated punishments for my children whenever I spoke out silenced me. I lost much of the little trust I had left in the authorities. But now, as my children begin to raise their own voices, I see it is my duty as their mother to stand with them. So I am preparing to present our full story in court, supported by documents, and request that the court finally hears the children. It is a big step for me, taken despite my fears of losing even the little contact the children are allowed to have with me today.
Along this journey, I have been touched by the stories of others facing oppression and injustice—the occupation of Tibet, the genocide in Gaza, and many more. One of the deepest lessons I have learned is that justice begins in myself. Every step I take in my struggle for my children must be grounded in compassion, love, and the sincere wish for all beings to be happy.
This even includes the father of my children: I wish for him to be happy, and to have a genuine bond with his children—one based not on force, violence and control, but on mutual respect, patience, and understanding. Because happiness can never be built on domination and violence.
Reading about those who chose the path of non-violence—Mahatma Gandhi, the Dalai Lama, Nelson Mandela—touches me deeply. Their courage and commitment inspire me, even though their journeys were full of loss and hardship. They remind me that hate and force only create more hate and force, but that we must always continue to stand up against injustice—courageously, but without hatred.
As the Dalai Lama said:
✨ “Peace is not the absence of conflict. Peace is the resolute practice of compassion and non-violence.”
With love,
Jeanine