16/02/2025
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How are you?
I find it striking how many people I meet, both in my work and outside of it, who cannot answer this question (honestly) because they don't know how they truly feel. Often they answer with 'good', 'okay', or 'I can't complain'. Does this sound familiar?
As humans, we are always seeking connection. It's precisely these types of questions that can create and even strengthen that connection. So why don't we answer in line with our true feelings?
Is it because the question doesn’t feel sincere, or do we assume that no one is actually listening?
Now, imagine that someone is genuinely interested in your answer and really wants to listen. Do you even know how you truly feel?
The inability to name emotions can have negative consequences for your mental well-being, coping skills, and interpersonal relationships. Developing emotional awareness is crucial for promoting psychological health and improving the quality of relationships. It not only helps in better understanding yourself but also in dealing more effectively with challenges in daily life.
What about you, can you recognize your feelings the next time you're asked, "How are you?"
Anchorage coaching can help you with this.