29/12/2025
Grateful as I was for spending quality time with my family, the holidays also bring up quite some feelings for me.
I’ve returned home for Christmas for 11 years in a row now, alone. Without a partner.
And sometimes that hits me. Sitting in the back of my parents’ car, driving to family…..feels like I got stuck in childhood.
Sleeping in my old bedroom, on my own, makes me feel like there wasn’t any progress.
People asking me “how are you still single? How is it possible? You’re such a nice woman? 🤦♀️
Seeing my sister and my girlfriends busy with their families, while I’m still bouncing from guest room to guest room.
The Holidays are always just a tad more confronting when you’re single. Right?
But, despite the sadness I carry around being single and the deep confrontation during the holidays, there is also so much strength in owning it.
And that’s what I do. Fully owning this (yup, longgg) chapter of being single.
Owning my grief around it. And also owning the freedom I have to build my life exactly the way I want to - because I cán. Because I’m not tied to anyone (yet).
Owning this time of deep inner exploration and inner work, that most mothers have zero space for.
Taking full responsibility to make the most out of this chapter - even though it feels long.
And thát feels so empowering.
Feeling this too?
The grief of being alone, but also the desire to feel empowered in this chapter of being single?
Then join me for my upcoming masterclass next week:
SINGLE, SEXY & SETTLED WITHIN ❤️🔥
Tuesday January 6th | 6pm Lisbon/UK time
DM me ‘SEXY’ to sign up! Or link in bio.
This isn’t a pity party - we’re not here for “poor me, I’m single” energy.
This is a high-vibe, self-led, deeply empowering space for women who are ready to rise in their self-worth, where we explore what it means to be grounded, empowered, sexy and settled within yourself during this season of life.
See you on the 6th!