10/01/2019
ALONE or ALL ONE
Is curious how emotions and feelings make your entire body and everything around you look different.If you pay attention you can actually observe that even just a single emotion can and has the power to change it all, but which one is the “ right one” for this moment?
We keep on speaking about attachment and about : “live the present moment”, but can we really do that , or it’s just another Utopian idea?
We say emotional intelligence is the ability to adapt but do we really have to adapt constantly, on an on, as the present moment changes on and on? I agree that we have to accept the fact that things happen constantly and for a reason and also with the fact that if we clinch or obsess with things or people, we can and we will suffer, as in the end nothing is forever, but should we: by living the present, leave all this behind ? … as the suffering is also a teaching …
Ain’t we all attached by construction with an idea or feeling that actually could be “ the Essence “ of who we are, and by leaving that behind we are not ourselves?
Everybody repeats “ to be ourself”, to explore ourself more, to know more, but how much of all this is not just simply propaganda? How much of al this is not actually another pressure and tension from the society?
Now consider this for a couple of seconds: if you would be left Alone in a place with nobody just surrounded by nature for a week or two.Try to imagine yourself as you read these words having the opportunity to be All One ( Alone ) just you, without any ideas, beliefs or criticism from the outside world, in a place known just by you, surrounded by trees and plants, birds and friendly animals, the sun and the sky, moon and the stars.You get food from the nature, water from its rivers and you just have made a basic shelter where you can protect yourself from the rain.
Now what do you Really Need? How much of all that your family of origin stories do you really need? How much of all those expectations You and the Society “invented” , you really need or are really helpful ?
Take some time please and think really good about if for few moments….
I do know you don’t want to be Alone and that You need Someone to share, someone that recognizes and acknowledges you… that you Exist.
Ok the easy part is clarified, now comes the hard one:
How do you know who, who that someone is?…because Everyone deep down looks for the same thing. The essence of all is the same…
Some people know more about themselves or at least they believe that, others have no idea and live a life that’s not theirs. Some have more skills and move quicker towards what they want, others none.
If you pay very good attention when is about finding that Someone, Everyone can be a potential ”the other one”, so in that case how to choose the right one?
When I say Everyone I mean the fact that everyone has something amazing and great to Share, that can make us fall in love, or like.
But is there a right one or is more about the right time? ..because in different life stages you might match with different people..or the word ” right “ should be taken out of the context?
Or what actually really is about, it’s just a matter of you, of you being in Coherence ( Congruent, Aligned ) with what you think, feel and what your body senses for mother Earth…of You being Aware of life?
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Lets go back a little to how I started : when you feel in love, Love is all around you, when you feel Sad, or Anger is all around you, and of course All Inside You!
In that way you are Existence, life itself..and whatever you do and feel that is real and true, is actually life itself.
Now if we got this clear and understand that “the other” is not actually to recognise you as a human being as you already are one, but that “the other one” is just to Share.
Once you found out that you are Existence / Life itself, what you do by sharing with the other is actually expanding yourselves as you both create a bigger energy, you create a Remembering that Love Exists, that starts within you, with Yourself, that it is possible, not another invention.
You create a New self that actually is not new, that always existed in all the beings and that self is called : LOVE
What’s interesting about Love is that it breaks all patterns, beliefs and creates transformation within us in very deep ways.
Love brings joy and sadness, anger or envy as well as it resuscitates Hope, where was lost and creates deep down in an unconscious level, the desire “ I want love too”, but more than that a real connection with Our Universal Need. It is in the end an extraordinary tool, that remembers us that we by ourselves are Already Complete.
And to repeat, with ”the other” we only Expand, as we unite the same energy that created us all and we remember others and those who forgot about LOVE.
