14/05/2024
Consider this...
What's the worst that could happen if you chose not to react to the rude or irritating comments, the inconsiderate actions, or the moments that really upset or rile you?
Reacting with anger or sarcasm is tempting, and it may offer temporary satisfaction, but it just perpetuates the cycle of negativity, in a relentless loop. For you and them.
The actions and words of others can only unsettle your peace if you grant them permission to do so.
Instead, let it go.
Acknowledge that their behavior is not aimed at you. It's their problem, not yours.
If you react then you've just accepted their gift of negativity, badly wrapped up in a shoddy box with your name on it, which you'll then pass to someone else - a bit like a really bad game of pass the parcel.
Try this instead (it might take a bit of practice!) ...say to them (quietly inside your mind) 'I wish you well', and BREATHE. Now... think of what you're having for dinner, or your shopping list, or anything neutral.
You've immediately cut the negative energy of it, and likely won't give it much more thought. They might, but you've already moved on with your day.
Trust the process x