Unopened Male, Kosti (2025)

01/07/2025

🍻🌞 A sunny pint and a little reminder why I love this community 🌞🍻

I don’t think I acknowledge this community enough for the amazing work it does and how often it’s brought light into my life 💡

You wonderful people share raw stories 📖, posting daily reminders for who we should strive to be 🫂 and make all of us feel a little less alone 💚

I want to continue to share all the love and support that you have shown me over the year and remind you how important what you do it 😍

If there’s a mental health page or charity that’s inspired you lately, tag them below so we can spread some love together👇🏼

26/06/2025

🎾🔥 Backhanded Confidence 🔥🎾

Managed to drag myself into the office for the company tennis tournament this week 🎾

Did I get absolutely cooked by the sun? Yes

Am I as good as I remember? No 🫠

But we still won the match so naturally I must still be Federer’s protégé 💪🏼

Even if I was puffing like a steam train by the end, it reminded me how much I love playing.

There’s just something about getting back into a hobby that lights you up 💡

It’s not about being good. It’s about doing something that gives your brain a break from the daily chaos 🎾🧠

Slowly getting back into the things I enjoy is one of the best things I’ve done for my mental health lately.

Highly recommend whacking a ball as hard as you can when life gets overwhelming 💥

What hobby would you love to get back into? 👇🏼

24/06/2025

🛋️🧠 No Longer a Couch-Based Organism 🧠🛋️

Spent most of last week battling an unholy alliance of cold symptoms and dramatic self-pity! AKA the dreaded man flu 🤧

Turns out, when your body says “stop” and you finally listen… it’s actually onto something 🧠💡

Being ill forced me to slow down. Properly slow down. A wrapped in a blanket, questioning everything while blitzing Netflix kind of slow down 🛋️

But after all that enforced rest, and some proper quality time with people who fill up my cup, I’m finally starting to feel like a semi-functioning human again 🧃

Might still sniffle every 15 minutes in an attempt for some sympathy, but my battery’s at least out of the red zone now. Progress!

If last week was about shutting off, this week’s about gently turning things back on 🔁

We pick ourselves up, dust ourselves off and go again 💚

What’s something that helps you feel recharged when life’s done a number on you? 💬

17/06/2025

🧑🏻‍🦱⚡️ Choosing Myself ⚡️🧑🏻‍🦱

I was given some advice from somebody important recently that hit a bit different.

When your battery is low, you need to choose yourself.

Not because you’re being selfish.

Because you have a responsibility to protect what little charge you’ve got left 🔋

The problem is, I’ve always been better at trying to keep everyone else happy.

Worrying about who I might let down.

Pushing through when I should’ve stepped back 🙃

But choosing yourself doesn’t mean you don’t care about others.

It means you’re finally including yourself in the list of people you care about 💚

Still learning. Still reminding myself. But trying.

How do you remind yourself to choose you? Drop it below 👇🏼

12/06/2025

🧘🏻 🧘🏻 I need a chill system, not a nervous system 🧘🏻 🧘🏻

Can you imagine having a really chill system instead of a nervous system? Couldn’t be me 🙃

I’m always one bad nights sleep away from sheer panic at attempting the bare necessities that life has to offer 🐻

As much as I would love to sell my house and pay for that upgrade, it doesn’t currently exist so I’ve got to make do with the one I’ve got.

So then the question becomes, how do I best set myself up for success? 📈

The answer to that question is an ever evolving one that couldn’t be more different from person to person.

Right now my focus is on avoiding doing things in this very moment that will make future me want to shout at present me 💥

If you’ve cracked the code, drop your secret below 👇🏼 What actually works for you when your brain won’t switch off? 📖

10/06/2025

😴 💭 Depressed / Deep Rest 💭 😴

“You should think of the word depressed as deep rest. Your body needs to be depressed. It needs deep rest from the character that you’ve been trying to play.” – Jim Carrey

That quote hit me hard this week. I’ve been teetering on the edge of a depressive episode. Not quite in the thick of it, but tensing waiting for the (hopefully not) inevitable drop 🫣

I’ve been running on fumes ⛽ Showing up, pushing forward, trying to outrun it all. But the harder I try, the more I feel it draining me 📉

Maybe this isn’t something to fight. Maybe it’s something to feel. To not be afraid of it, but to welcome what my body and mind is crying out for 🔁

A break from the pressure. A break from pretending. A break from playing a version of myself that’s cracking at the seems 🎭

Time to slow down and embrace some deep DEEP rest 😴

If you’re in that space too, I see you. You’re not alone 💚

What’s one thing you do when your body or mind starts waving the red flag? 🧠💬
Share this with someone who might need a little reminder to slow down.

08/06/2025

🫂 🫂 Never too thug for a hug 🫂 🫂

I’m a hugger. Always have been. Always will be.
But apparently, once you hit a certain age as a bloke, hugs are replaced by weird head nods and awkward fist bumps 🙃

The whole “real men don’t show emotion” thing? Not for me hun.

I’ll keep choosing hugs over handshakes. Because sometimes a hug does more for your mental health than any “you good, yeah?” ever could.

So do as I do and catch your mates off guard. Hit them with a hug and confuse the sadness right out of them.
They’ll pretend they hate it, but deep down? That’s the serotonin kicking in 😌

📲 Send this to someone who needs a hug but would never ask for one.

Save it for the next time you need a reminder that softness is strength 💚

28/05/2025

⚡️ ⚡️ Thunderbolts* ⚡️ ⚡️

There’s a quote from the new Thunderbolts* film that hit me right in the gut:

“I have these good days, you know? Where I feel, feel invincible. But then there are a lot of bad days when I remember that nothing, nothing matters.”

Firstly, shock that I loved a quote from a Marvel film about mental health. But more importantly, that one line sums up some of my darkest moments better than I ever could 😶

I’ve had those highs — the fleeting days where everything clicks and it feels like I’m finally on the right path 💪🏼

But they’re often followed by crushing lows. The kind where the weight of everything just flattens you and you start to wonder what the point is. Where you’re not sad because something bad happened — you’re just empty 🫥

That back and forth can be exhausting. And sometimes the hardest part is not knowing which version of you will show up when you wake up tomorrow 💭

But here’s the truth I’m talking in existence: even when it feels like nothing matters… you still do 💚

You matter on your good days, and you especially matter on your bad ones.

If you’re in a low patch right now, my DMs are open. Sometimes all it takes is one message to shift the weight 💬

25/05/2025

🔋🔋 Recharging Your Batteries 🔋🔋

I’ve realised recently that I’ve been running on fumes. Not in the “I’ve been a bit tired” kind of way, but in the “everything feels 10x harder than it should” kind of way 😵‍💫

I used to think that taking time out to rest was the same as being lazy. But that mindset just kept burning me out over and over again 🔁

The truth is, recharging your mental health batteries isn’t optional – it’s essential ⚠️

Sometimes that means cancelling plans. Sometimes it means putting your phone on ‘Do Not Disturb’ for the day. Sometimes it just means allowing yourself to stop pretending that everything’s fine 😮‍💨

So this week, I’m prioritising rest without guilt. That doesn’t mean I’m giving up – it means I’m giving myself what I actually need 💚

Anyone else feeling the crash coming on? Let this be your permission to pause. Your future self will thank you for it 🙏🏼

What helps you recharge when things get heavy? Let me know below ⬇️

07/04/2025

🏡 🔑 My First Home! 🔑 🏡

Couldn’t think of a better way to make my triumphant return than with this huge life update… I’m officially a homeowner! 🥳

After moving back to Brighton just a few months ago, I’m finally in a place I can truly call my own. HOME. What a feeling 🏡

This has been one of my biggest long-term goals, and I’ve never been more excited to be hundreds of thousands of pounds in debt! 💷

I’m feeling incredibly grateful for the support, encouragement, and kind words that have helped me get here. This milestone means the world to me, and I can’t wait to start the next chapter in this space and share more of the journey with you all 💚

03/12/2024

🗜️ 🗜️ Pressure 🗜️ 🗜️

Starting this new chapter of my life has brought with it a mountain of pressure to make progress in every area, tall the time ⏰

The voice in my head keeps saying: “If you’re not doing enough, you’re not good enough” 💭

Here’s just a glimpse of what I’m juggling right now:

👉🏼 UnopenedMale - Posting and engaging with content daily, building it into a business

👉🏼 Fitness - Hitting the gym, tracking my diet, and walking 10k steps every day

👉🏼 Mental health - Journaling, meditating, and reading consistently

👉🏼 Buying a house - Taking steps toward a big life milestone

They say that pressure makes diamonds. Sure… But it can also crush you under the weight of unrealistic expectations 💥

This post is my reminder: it’s okay to slow down. Progress doesn’t mean perfection, and not every problem needs solving today 🫂

You’re not a failure for not reaching 100% of your goals. Keep moving forward, even if it’s one small step at a time.

What’s one way you remind yourself to slow down? Share your thoughts below—I’d love to hear your strategies for handling pressure 💚 ⬇️

01/12/2024

📈 📈 Investing in yourself 📈 📈

As 2024 reaches a close, it’s a time for reflection of how the year went and planning for how we want the next year to go 🤔

With how the the back end of this year has gone, I’m sure it’s of no surprise to anyone that I am more thinking about the future than the past 😂

When I think about the year to come, I’m wondering how I can best invest in myself and you should too! Don’t worry though, investing in yourself doesn’t have to mean monetary investment 💷

Here’s a few free ways you can invest in yourself:

👉🏼 Meditate

👉🏼 Journal

👉🏼 Practice gratitude

👉🏼 Get enough sleep

👉🏼 Spend time in nature

👉🏼 Reach out and accept support

💫 So let me know below, how are you going invest in yourself in 2025? 💫

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