19/03/2026
I used to lie awake at 2–3am, completely exhausted but unable to switch off, wondering why my body felt so wired when all I wanted was sleep. 😵💫💤
During Covid, I was juggling home schooling, studying, running a business, and doing too much exercise, often not eating enough alongside it. My husband was in another country at the time, and I was trying to hold everything together, pushing through because that felt like the only option. 😰
At the time, I would have called it burnout or adrenal fatigue.
Looking back now, I can see it was likely a combination of early perimenopause and a nervous system that had been in a prolonged state of high alert. 🚨
Progesterone was starting to decline — which normally supports those calming signals in the brain — while ongoing stress was disrupting my cortisol rhythm, so even though I was exhausted, my body wasn’t switching off in the way it needed to.
It felt like being permanently “on.”
I see this pattern often now, particularly in women in their 40s who are managing a lot and wondering why their sleep, energy and anxiety feel different to before.
When you understand the physiology behind it — hormones, stress signalling, nervous system state — it becomes much easier to support the body in a way that actually works. 🧘🏻♀️🍃
And importantly, to recognise this isn’t a personal failing, but a pattern the body has adapted to over time.
If this sounds familiar and you’re trying to make sense of your own symptoms, feel free to reach out — this is exactly the kind of pattern I work through with clients one-to-one. ❤️