
23/03/2025
You can miss someone, feel guilty about walking away…but still know you deserve better.
It’s not a contradiction - it’s the complexity of your heart.
You can hold space for the love and memories you shared, while also acknowledging that what you need, what you deserve, is something more.
Walking away doesn’t mean you didn’t care; it means you chose yourself, your peace, and your future.
Love is not self-sacrifice.
True, authentic love uplifts, nourishes, and respects you - without forcing you to lose yourself in the process.
It’s okay to feel the sadness and guilt, but don’t let it overshadow the truth that you are worthy of love, respect, and a healthy, fulfilling connection, dear one.
I hope this post speaks directly to that part of you that is yearning for a sign that things will be okay - that you’ll truly be okay without them.
I know the pain of feeling like something is missing, the uncertainty of what comes next. But deep down, you have everything you need to heal, to rebuild, and to find peace within yourself. You are not defined by the people who leave your life, but by the strength and love you have within.
Even when it doesn’t feel like it now, in time, you will discover that your wholeness was never dependent on anyone else. You will be okay. You will be okay❤️
You are allowed to take the space you need to move through this. Sending you much love ❤️
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