
25/07/2025
💬 Words matter—and what we say to kids shapes how they see themselves. Instead of generic praise like “Good job,” try using specific, effort-focused phrases that build confidence and resilience.
Here are some of our favorites:
✅ “You figured it out!”
✅ “I love how you kept trying.”
✅ “You were so focused just now!”
✅ “That was a kind thing to do.”
✅ “You stayed calm even when it was hard.”
These phrases highlight your child’s effort, choices, and strengths, helping them feel seen and valued for who they are, not just what they achieve.