15/04/2026
This post on “focusing on solutions, not problems” resonates with me.
A few nights ago, we took out some old ring puzzles I had bought years back… We were laughing, trying, and gently competing to see who could solve more. It wasn’t just about the puzzles—it was one of those simple, meaningful family moments.
It reminded me of something I often tell my boy: focus on the solution, not the problem.
Whenever he forgets something—his water bottle, book, or wallet—I try not to jump in immediately. Instead, I ask him, “What can you do to solve this?”
We even came up with a little system together—2S3W:
Snack box, Story book, Watch, Wallet, Water bottle.
It works… most days.
Yesterday, he forgot his wallet (again) and I knew he might not have lunch before his after-school activity. I could have rushed it to school—but I didn’t. It felt like one of those small but important moments to let him learn.
That night, as we chatted before bed, he shared that he managed with his snack. Then we gently explored what else he could have done—borrow from a friend, approach a teacher, think ahead next time.
These quiet conversations, these little struggles… they’re shaping him in ways that reminders never could.
As parents, it’s not always easy to hold back. But sometimes, growth happens in the space we choose not to fill. 💛
Focus on the solution, not the problem. The more you dwell on what’s wrong, the less energy you have to fix it. Shift your focus, find the way forward, and t...