Total Communication Therapy

20/01/2026

Meltdowns. Shutdowns. Constant alert mode.
It’s not “behaviour.”
It’s a nervous system asking for safety.

Before a child can focus, listen, or connect their body needs to feel safe first.

This carousel breaks down how Safe and Sound Protocol (SSP) works.
Gently.
Individually.
Never forced.

👉 Swipe to understand.
💛 Stay to see what safety really looks like.
💬 Connect with us on +65 9115 8895

16/01/2026

When Learning Feels Hard, It Might Not Be a Learning Problem

Some children want to learn- but their bodies won’t let them settle.

They melt down over small tasks.
They avoid work that feels manageable on paper.
They seem constantly on edge, exhausted by social interaction, or quick to shut down.

It’s easy to assume a learning difficulty, a motivation issue, or poor focus.
But sometimes, the real challenge sits deeper- in the nervous system.

Before a child can concentrate, communicate, or cope with mistakes, their body needs to feel safe. When it doesn’t, even the best teaching can fall flat.

This is where approaches like the Safe and Sound Protocol (SSP) come in- supporting regulation first, so learning and connection can follow.

For some children, this sense of safety is the missing piece.

Read the full blog: https://www.totalcommunication.com.sg/post/ssp-when-learning-feels-hard-it-might-not-be-a-learning-problem

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Some children want to learn but struggle to stay calm, focused, or engaged. This is often not about effort or ability, it’s about the nervous system. When a child feels safe, learning becomes possible. The Safe and Sound Protocol (SSP) is a gentle listening-based intervention that supports regulat...

16/01/2026

How Play-Based Therapy Builds Real Communication Skills

"It looks like my child is just playing… is this really therapy?"

It's one of the most common questions parents ask us, and a fair one.

What many don't realise is that for some children, communication doesn't start with words. It starts with movement, shared attention, pauses, eye contact, and feeling safe enough to try.

When communication has felt hard for a long time, pressure-heavy approaches can do more harm than good. Play, on the other hand, lowers the emotional load. It gives children control, purpose, and a reason to communicate - often before they are ready to use words.

Parents are often surprised by what changes first. Not new vocabulary, but moments: waiting instead of melting down, bringing a toy to share, staying engaged a little longer.

These are not small steps. They are the foundations of real communication.

Read the full blog: https://www.totalcommunication.com.sg/post/how-play-based-therapy-builds-real-communication-skills

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Play-based therapy is often misunderstood as “just play.” In reality, it is a structured, intentional approach that supports communication by reducing pressure and increasing engagement. When children feel safe, understood, and successful, communication begins to grow naturally and meaningfully.

16/01/2026

5 Signs of Developmental Language Disorder That Are Easy to Overlook

When a Child Understands… but Struggles to Speak

Many parents tell us the same thing:
“My child knows what to do. They understand everything. But getting the words out is hard.”

This is often where Developmental Language Disorder quietly sits -easy to miss, easy to misunderstand.

Some children answer with gestures instead of words. Others manage short instructions but get lost when the language becomes longer or more complex. A few cope well early on, only to struggle later when school expects explanations, storytelling, and written language.

These signs don’t shout. They whisper.
And that’s why they’re often overlooked.

If you’ve ever felt that something about your child’s communication doesn’t quite add up, it may be worth reading a little closer.

Read the full blog: https://www.totalcommunication.com.sg/post/5-signs-of-developmental-language-disorder-that-are-easy-to-overlook

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Some signs of Developmental Language Disorder are subtle and often missed. This article explores five common indicators and how speech therapy in Singapore supports language development.

16/01/2026

Safe before sound.

A calm nervous system creates space for curiosity,
communication, and learning.

The Safe and Sound Protocol (SSP) supports
regulation so children can engage, connect, and learn
without overwhelm.

Sometimes, the first step isn’t pushing harder, it’s
helping the body feel safe.

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🌐 Read more:
https://www.totalcommunication.com.sg/post/ssp-when-
learning-feels-hard-it-might-not-be-a-learning-problem

16/01/2026

"My child knows… but can't say it."

That sentence comes up more than you'd think.

Some children follow instructions perfectly.
They understand jokes, routines, and lessons.
But when it's time to speak?

The words get stuck.
This isn't stubbornness.
It's not laziness.

And it's not something children choose.

Understanding language and expressing it are two very different skills, and when there's a gap between the two, frustration builds quietly.

You might notice it as:
• avoiding speaking in class
• using gestures instead of words
• repeating the same phrases
• getting upset when not understood

Many families are told to "wait and see."
But waiting doesn't always make things easier; sometimes it just makes children quieter.

We've written about why this happens, what it really means, and when support can help before confidence takes a hit.

Read the full blog: https://www.totalcommunication.com.sg/post/why-some-children-know-what-to-say-but-struggle-to-say-it

(If this sounds familiar… trust your gut. It usually knows first.)

Many children understand language clearly but find it difficult to express their thoughts in words. This article explores why that gap exists and how speech therapy in Singapore supports confidence, understanding, and communication development.

13/01/2026

Understands everything.
Struggles to explain.
That’s not “nothing.”
Let’s talk.

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12/01/2026

When language feels hard, it’s rarely about not knowing.
It’s about organising thoughts, words, and timing, all at once.

Many children know what they want to say.
Getting it out is the tough part.

That’s where Total Communication comes in.
Evidence-based support, focused on the whole child.

Connect with us today:
Call/WhatsApp: +65 9115 8895

09/01/2026

My child understands everything… but speaking feels hard.

If that’s been sitting in your mind too, you’re not alone.
And no, you’re not overthinking it.

Some children have plenty to say.

The words just need a bit of support to come out.

We believe conversations come before conclusions.
That’s where clarity usually begins.

Connect with us today:
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If this post felt familiar, trust that instinct.
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21/11/2025

If your child has been talking less lately… don’t scroll past this.

We meet so many parents who whisper the same worry:

“Why is my child suddenly so quiet?”
“Is it normal that he’s 3 and barely talking?”
“She used to babble… now nothing.”

Here’s the part most people don’t talk about: talking less doesn’t always mean your child isn’t learning but it can mean they need support.

And no, Google searches and “boys talk late” advice don’t help.

In our latest blog, we break down, clearly and calmly, what “talking less” can actually mean. Including:

🔹 When it is part of normal development
🔹 When it’s a sign of a communication delay
🔹 What parents often miss (motor planning, sensory load, joint attention…)
🔹 The difference between meaningful speech and memorised speech
🔹 What you can do at home that actually works
🔹 When it’s time to seek professional help without panicking

If you’ve been feeling unsure, overwhelmed, or stuck between advice from family, teachers, and the internet… this guide will give you clarity, not guilt.

👉 Read the full blog here: https://www.totalcommunication.com.sg/post/why-your-child-may-be-talking-less-and-what-that-actually-means-a-realistic-guide-for-parents-in-si

And if you want someone to walk you through your child’s communication profile, our team is always open for a chat

When speech doesn’t come as expected, it can feel worrying — but it’s often a sign to observe, not panic. This article breaks down why some children talk less, what early communication delays look like, and how parents in Singapore can support meaningful speech development with evidence-based ...

21/11/2025

If you think your child’s behaviour is the “problem”… read this.

A lot of parents ask us, “How do I fix my child’s behaviour?”
But here’s the honest truth, behaviour isn’t the issue. It’s communication in disguise.

Every meltdown, every silence, every script from YouTube… your child is communicating.
Just not in the way most adults expect.

And once you shift from “Stop this behaviour” to “What is my child trying to tell me?,” everything changes.

Here are 3 insights from our latest blog that every parent of an autistic child should know:

🔹 Speech isn’t the only form of communication; gestures, AAC, pointing, and even behaviour count.
🔹 Echolalia isn’t “copying”; it’s a real communication tool.
🔹 Regulation comes before language. A calm brain communicates; an overwhelmed one shuts down.

If this already flips your perspective a little… wait till you read the full piece.

It breaks down meaningful communication in autistic children in a simple, compassionate way without the jargon, without the pressure.

👉 Read the full blog here: https://www.totalcommunication.com.sg/post/beyond-behaviour-a-communication-first-approach-to-autism-for-parents-in-singapore
(It’s a 3-minute read that could genuinely change how you understand your child.)

If you’d like help understanding your child’s communication profile, our team is always here; gently, and without any pressure.

Many parents worry about behaviour, but autism is fundamentally about communication, not compliance. This guide explains how autistic children express themselves, why speech may look different, and what meaningful communication truly involves. Discover practical ways to support your child at home an...

21/11/2025

Why School Holidays Are Extra Hard for Neurodivergent Children

School holidays sound great… until routine disappears and everything unravels.
For many neurodivergent children (autism, ADHD, GDD, sensory differences), the sudden change isn’t relaxing, it’s dysregulating.

Parents often notice:
• increased irritability
• constant “What’s next?”
• more meltdowns
• restlessness or clinginess
• difficulty staying engaged

This isn’t “bad behaviour.” It’s the brain struggling without predictability, structure, and steady sensory input.

The good news? There are ways to make holidays calmer and more meaningful:

✔ visual schedules
✔ short 20-minute activity cycles
✔ sensory diet breaks (jumping, heavy work, water play)
✔ predictable daily rituals
✔ simple choice boards to reduce overwhelm

And when home support reaches its limit, structured holiday programmes can make a huge difference — offering routine, social engagement, emotional regulation, and targeted skill-building in a safe, guided environment.

At Total Communication, our holiday programmes are designed exactly for this.
Children return calmer, more settled, and more confident — because the structure supports their nervous system, not fights it.

If you’ve ever felt, “Holidays are harder than school days,” this article will make complete sense.

👉 Read the full blog here: https://www.totalcommunication.com.sg/post/school-holidays-don-t-have-to-be-chaos-smart-ways-to-keep-your-child-meaningfully-engaged

A smoother holiday starts with the right structure for your child, and for you.

School holidays sound fun… until the lack of routine sends neurodivergent kids into sensory and emotional overload. This guide breaks down why holidays are harder, practical ways to create structure at home, and how Total Communication’s evidence-based holiday programmes can bring calm, regulati...