14/11/2023
Each of us lives in our own reality; in our reality, we are always right. At any given moment, we believe that our actions are correct. Even if we change our minds in the future, our “current repented self” was still accurate at the time. This means we can never truly be wrong, as what is right today may be wrong tomorrow. For instance, if I admit to my child that I was wrong, I am still being correct because I am using my current perspective to acknowledge my past mistakes. It’s important to remember that every individual is right in their own reality at each moment.
每個人都活在自己的實相裡，重點是在每個人的實相裡，他都是對的。人在每個當下都認為自己是對的，如果有一天他認為自己之前做錯了，那麼「現在這個知錯的自己」又對了。所以，人永遠不可能是錯的，雖然今天的對可能到明天又變成錯。比方說，我對小孩承認我做錯了，當我認錯時我也對了，我用我的對來承認我的錯。請大家記得，人在目己的世界裡，每個當下的時刻都是對的。
I would like to share a crucial message: being right does not mean building on top of someone else’s wrongness. Many of us think that there is only one answer; if I am right, then the other person must be wrong, or vice versa. However, the truth is that both of us can be correct. The bottleneck lies between our unwillingness to consider the possibility that I am right and the other person can also be right.
我要提供一個很重要的思考：我的對不見得必須建立在別人是錯的基礎之上，這是關鍵。很多人常常會認為答案只有一個，要是我對了、他就是錯，或是他對了、我就是錯。可是其實兩個都對，重點在於突破思想的瓶頸，如果我是對的，他不能也是對的嗎？
#許添盛醫師 #平衡 p. 270-271
