Anja Kurent

10/10/2025

ADHD - odličen dokumentarec o razumevanju motnje, notranjega čustvenega sveta, naporov, izzivov…
Priporočam ogled.

24/09/2025

Opomnik za starše - naši otroci odstirajo naše globoke rane.
Na nas starših, odraslih je odgovornost za lastno zdravljenje, celjenje, celovitenje 💝
Prekinimo transgeneracijsko vez 💞

22/09/2025

Osrečevanje otrok ne sme biti namen starševstva - zakaj poglej v videu 🙂

19/09/2025

Zanimivo… ravno danes, na terapevtskem srečanju raziskovanje teme o motivaciji in samodisciplini.
In kaj hitro se mi sinhrono pojavi spodnja objava o občutku in odločitvi.

Kako pa si ti s tem?
Izbereš zdravo hrano zaradi odločitve ali nezdravo zaradi hrepenenja?
Odideš na sprehod, četudi se ti ne ljubi ali podležeš pasivni lenobi?
Izbiraš zdrave ali nezdrave odločitve zase in svoj hram - svoje telo?

🌞🌚

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13/09/2025

Zlati rez & Fibonaccijevo zaporedje v naravi 🐚

Med držinskim sprehodom v gozdu je učenje o sveti geometriji prav zabavno

03/09/2025

Odličen članek o vzgoji, družini, otrocih. Priporočam - preberita ga oba starša in si vzemita čas za izmenjavo, refleksijo - kje ste in kam greste 💞

"Mnogi starši so se ujeli v zanko, da če je v šoli vse v redu, je vse dovoljeno. To se mi zdi velika napaka. Zelo pomembno je, da je otrok nenehno vključen v družinsko življenje. Vsak otrok mora imeti doma določene naloge oziroma zadolžitve, saj bo tako doživljal, da ima neki pomen in smise...

30/08/2025

Včasih je težko dojeti… kaj je zadaj, spodaj v globini… medtem, ko zremo v masko polna jeze, agresije, napada…
Ste kdaj pomoslili na strah, anksioznost?

V razmislek…

We often treat anger as if it’s the problem. The raised voice, the quick temper, the outburst. But anger is rarely the first emotion. It’s the mask. The shield. The cover for something far more vulnerable.

Behind most anger is fear. Fear of losing control. Fear of not being respected. Fear of failing or not being enough. Fear that if we don’t shout, we won’t be heard.

Yelling may feel powerful in the moment — like control has finally been seized — but it’s a fragile kind of power. It doesn’t calm the fear underneath, it just passes it along. The child doesn’t learn safety; they learn disconnection. They learn to be afraid.

The real work begins when we pause long enough to ask: What am I scared of here?
Because once fear is named, it loses its grip. Once it makes sense, it doesn’t need to control us.

This isn’t about shame. It’s about courage — the courage to be curious about ourselves, to see the story behind the storm.

It isn’t about perfection. It’s about honesty. Because when we tend to the fear beneath the anger, we don’t just break the cycle of yelling… we model for our children what it looks like to face emotions, instead of being ruled by them.

Because our children don’t need us to be flawless; they need us to be brave. Brave enough to face what we most fear, so they don’t ever have to inherit it as their own. ❤️

Quote Credit: .holistic.psychologist ❣️

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28/08/2025

Starši - odrasli smo odgovorno za vzpostavljanje odnosa - z vprašanji, s klici - ko nismo skupaj, za stik po konfliktu

Too often, without meaning to, we expect children to carry the weight of connection…

To come to us first,
to repair after conflict,
to prove their love through obedience or affection.

But that isn’t their responsibility. They are the child. We are the adult.

Our children shouldn’t have to wonder if they’ll be welcomed when they reach for us. They shouldn’t have to manage our moods, navigate our silences, or fight for our attention.

Their only job is to grow, explore, and trust that the bond will hold.

It’s on us to keep the door open. To return after rupture. To model repair. To show, again and again, that our love is bigger than the conflict.

Because the truth is this: children who know the bridge is steady don’t stop crossing it. They don’t shut down or run away — they keep coming back, even through the storms.

That is how trust is built.
That is how connection lasts.

And that is how relationships between parents and children grow strong enough to carry them for life. ❤️

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25/08/2025

Ena možnost kako prekiniti transgeneracijski molk 🤗💞 dopusti, da otrok spregovori in prevzemi odgovornost za svoja dejanja, besede in izreci iskren “oprosti”

25/08/2025

Mnogokrat je dovolj le biti - cel, prisoten in v tišini 💞

When our children are upset, the instinct is to rush in with words. We explain, we reason, we try to fix.

We want the lesson to land so badly that we forget this: in the height of big emotions, their brain isn’t open for business.

A child in distress can’t take in logic. Their nervous system is flooded, sounding alarms, searching first for safety.

And safety isn’t found in lectures — it’s found in presence. In a calm voice. In steady arms. In the sense that I am not alone in this storm.

When we hold them — without rushing to correct or control — we’re doing more than comforting. We’re helping their nervous system regulate, showing them what it feels like to move from chaos back to calm.

Only once that storm has passed will they be able to hear the wisdom we so urgently want to give.

Connection first, correction later.

Because children don’t learn best from explanations given at full volume of emotion. They learn best when they feel safe enough to listen.

So when your child is upset: hold your child. Hold your tongue. Hold the space.

The words can wait. The love cannot. ❤️

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11/08/2025

Današnji terapevtski dan obarvan s temami o partnerstvu. Kako različni smo si in kako iščemo način hoditi skupaj. V vsakem odnosu na edinstven način.

Lana Rae v knjigi “Da bi našel, prenehaj iskati”, najde besede o tem…