03/02/2026
Dragi vsi priljubljeni oboževalci ,
danes sem prebrala zapis, ki ga pripisujejo ki ga pripisujejo Davidu Bradburyju.
Njegove besede so se me resnično dotaknile. 💔
Ranjeni odrasli nehote predajamo svoje rane naprej ... svojim otrokom ... čas je, da to spoznamo in prekinemo.
Našla sem slovenski prevod, ki je bil nekoliko okoren in ga čisto malo uredila: ✍️
❤️🩹»Starši so me kot otroka tepli in nisem travmatiziran,«
je rekel moški, ki ga je bivša partnerica prijavila zaradi fizičnega nasilja.
❤️🩹 »Kot otroka so me pustili jokati samega, dokler nisem zaspal, pa z mano ni nič narobe,«
je rekel moški, ki preživlja dolge ure na družbenih omrežjih in ima težave s spanjem.
❤️🩹 »Kot otroka so me kaznovali in z mano je vse v redu,«
je rekel moški, ki ob vsaki napaki sam sebe ponižuje in kaznuje z ostrimi besedami.
❤️🩹 »Kot deklico so me starši vzgajali s trdo roko in imam travmo, ki se ji reče ‘vzgoja’,«
je rekla ženska, ki še vedno ne razume, zakaj so vsi njeni partnerji agresivni.
❤️🩹 »Ko sem bila kot otrok muhasta, me je oče zaprl v sobo, da bi se "naučila, kaj je prav", in danes sem mu za to hvaležna,«
je rekla ženska, ki doživlja napade tesnobe in ne zna razložiti, zakaj jo je strah zaprtih prostorov.
❤️🩹 »Starši so mi rekli, da me bodo zapustili ali dali v varstvo nekomu drugemu, ko sem imela izpade trme, pa nimam nobenih travm,«
je rekla ženska, ki prosi za ljubezen in je večkrat odpustila nezvestobo, samo da je ne bi partner zapustil.
❤️🩹 »Moji starši so me obvladovali že samo s pogledom in poglejte, kako dobro sem izpadla,«
je rekla ženska, ki ne zmore ohranjati očesnega stika z osebami v vlogi nadrejenih, ne da bi jo preplavil občutek strahu.
❤️🩹 »Kot otrok so me tepli celo z električnim kablom in danes sem dober človek, celo uspešen,«
je rekel moški, ki so ga sosedje prijavili, ker je pijan razgrajal, udarjal po stvareh in kričal na ženo.
❤️🩹 »Starši so me prisilili, da sem študiral nekaj, kar prinaša denar, in poglej, kako dobro mi gre,«
je rekel moški, ker je ujet v službi, kjer mora vsak dan početi nekaj, česar si nikoli ni želel.
❤️🩹 »Ko sem bila majhna, so me silili, da sem sedela za mizo, dokler nisem pojedla vsega, ne pa tako kot današnji permisivni starši,«
je rekla ženska, ki ne razume, zakaj nikoli ni razvila zdravega odnosa do hrane in je v najstniških letihrazvila motnjo hranjenja.
❤️🩹 »Mama me je naučila spoštovanja tako, da me je pretepala s copatom,«
je rekla ženska, ki pokadi škatlico cigaret na dan, da bi pomirila svojo tesnobo.
❤️🩹 »Hvaležen sem mami in očetu za vsak udarec in vsako kazen, ker - kdo ve, kaj bi bilo iz mene, če me ne bi tako vzgajali«
je rekel moški, ki nikoli ni mogel razviti zdravih odnosov in čigar sin mu nenehno laže, ker se ga boji.
❤️🩹 In tako hodimo skozi življenje, poslušamo ljudi, ki trdijo, da nimajo travm in da so vsemu navkljub izpadli ‘dobro’, medtem ko živimo v družbi, polni nasilja in ranjenih src.
Čas je, da prekinemo cikle generacijskih travm.
~ David Bradbury
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In še original:
“My parents beat me as a child and I am not traumatized,” said the man whose ex-partner reported him for physical violence.
“When I was a child they left me crying alone until I fell asleep and it was so bad I did not go out,” said the man who spends long hours on social networks, affecting his sleep.
“They punished me as a child and I’m fine,” said the man who, every time he makes a mistake, says contemptuous words to himself as a form of self-punishment.
“As a child, they put a heavy hand on me and I suffer from a trauma called ‘education’,” said the woman who still does not understand why all of her partners end up being aggressive.
“When I became capricious as a child, my father locked me in a room alone to learn and today I appreciate it,” said the woman who has suffered anxiety attacks and cannot explain why she is so afraid of being locked in small spaces.
“My parents told me they were going to leave me alone or give me to a stranger when I did my tantrums and I do not have traumas,” said the woman who has prayed for love and has forgiven repeated infidelities so as not to feel abandoned.
“My parents controlled me with just the look and see how well I came out,” said the woman who cannot maintain eye contact with figures of ‘authority’ without feeling intimidated.
“As a child, I got even with the iron cable and today I am a good man, even professional,” said the man whose neighbors have accused him of hitting objects while drunk and yelling at his wife.
“My parents forced me to study a career that would make me money, and see how well off I am,” said the man who dreams of Friday every day because he is desperate in his work doing something every day that is not what he always wanted.
“When I was little they forced me to sit down until all the food was finished and they even force fed me, not like those permissive parents,” said the woman who does not understand why she could not have a healthy relationship with food and in her adolescence came to develop an eating disorder.
“My mother taught me to respect her good chancletazos (Spanish meaning a strike with a sandal),” said the woman who smokes ci******es a day to control her anxiety.
“I thank my mom and my dad for every blow and every punishment, because, if not, who knows what would happen to me,” said the man who has never been able to have a healthy relationship, and whose son constantly lies to him because he is afraid.
And so we go through life, listening to people claiming to be good people without trauma, but paradoxically, in a society full of violence and wounded people. It’s time to break generational trauma cycles.”
~ David Bradbury
Objem, Ivana 🫶🩷💜💙🩵💚💛🧡❤️
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