16/06/2017
Today Is the International Day of the African Child. It was first established by the Organization of the African Unity in 1991. The day aims at raising awareness for the situation of children in Africa, and on the need for continuing improvement in education. It encourages people’s spirit of abundance to share something special with a child in Africa.
Marked annually since June 16 1991, this day was set up to honour the children who participated in the Soweto Uprising on June 16, 1976. An Article from 100Photos, recounts of that day, “ Few outside South Africa paid much attention to apartheid before June 16, 1976, when several thousand Soweto students set out to protest the introduction of mandatory Afrikaans-language instruction in their township schools.
“Along the way they gathered youngsters from other schools, including a 13-year-old student named Hector Pieterson. Skirmishes started to break out with the police, and at one point officers fired tear gas. When students hurled stones, the police shot real bullets into the crowd. “At first, I ran away from the scene,” recalled Sam Nzima, who was covering the protests for the World, the paper that was the house organ of black Johannesburg. “But then, after recovering myself, I went back.” That is when Nzima says he spotted Pieterson fall down as gunfire showered above. He kept taking pictures as terrified high schooler Mbuyisa Makhubu picked up the lifeless boy and ran with Pieterson’s sister, Antoinette Sithole. What began as a peaceful protest soon turned into a violent uprising, claiming hundreds of lives across South Africa.
It is estimated that 20,000 students took part in the protests. They were met with fierce police brutality. The number of protesters killed by police is usually given as 176, but estimates of up to 700 have been made.
Today, this day is used to highlight challenges that the African Child still faces. This year’s theme is “The 2030 Agenda for Sustainable Development for Children in Africa: Accelerating protection, empowerment and equal opportunity.” With only 13 years left before 2030, there is still a lot of work to be done to actualise the protection, empowerment and equal opportunity for Children in Sierra Leone. Currently some of the main problems faced by children in Sierra Leone are poverty,education, lack of proper health care, violence against children, child labour and all these combined factors, prevent children from receiving proper education. According to various reports in Sierra Leone, the most vulnerable group of children are aged between 6-10, followed by those aged 11-15 years..Cases involving girls were reported more often than those involving boys, despite both sexes equally likely to be abused.
“Unfortunately,the most trusted people in a children’s life are the same people that lead in abusing them sexually. Within this reporting period, fathers took the lead of abusing their daughters sexually followed by uncles’”.
We all plant the seed of violence in our children, especially the boys and we teach them constantly by using words such as ‘be a man’, ‘Don’t behave like a woman’, ‘You have to defend yourself’, ‘don’t let anyone disrespect you’ and ‘boys will be boys’ that in order for them to be real men, they have the right to defeat anyone who challenges or defies that sense of entitlement.
We are calling on Father’s to step up and challenge these norms and help change the conversation. Help champion for the rights of the African Child as we work together to raise them. It all begins with how you interact with the children in your life and what lessons you pass on to them.
According to the Father Involvement Research Alliance review,” Girls with involved fathers have higher self-esteem, and teenage girls who are close to their dads are less likely to become pregnant. Boys show less aggression, less impulsivity, and more self-direction.
“As young adults, children of involved fathers are more likely to achieve higher levels of education, find success in their careers, have higher levels of self-acceptance and experience psychological well-being. Adults who had involved fathers are more likely to be tolerant and understanding, have supportive social networks made up of close friends, and have long-term successful marriages.”
The realisation is that violence against women and girls occurs primarily at the hands of men and boys. Violence against men and boys occurs primarily at the hands of other men and boys. The boys and men do it because they know they can get away with it.
Let's help make the future brighter for our children are tomorrow's leaders. Give a lending hand,fully involve your children to participate in active decision making,instill in them the sense of responsibility,feel proud to raise a child,create the enabling environment for a better tomorrow,impact in them courage,encourage and don't negate them. Every child needs to be loved.Make them don't break them. What have they learned from you?
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⛎Béi Santigie T Kamara
Children's activist.
