
26/08/2023
After the powerful surge of birth
comes a phase of tender emergence.
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In childbirth, emergence is a phase when both baby and a transformed version of mother begin to navigate a new way of being in the world.
It is a time when great care, nurturance, compassion and support are needed for both mother and baby.
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I have been reflecting on my own postpartum emergence, as we are now in a collective moment of emergence (Venus' heliacal rise last week heralded the emergence of a new embodied expression of the féminine).
I have never experienced so much love and awe as in those early days of motherhood. But, it was also a time of great pain, confusion and exhaustion. Breastfeeding was really hard for the first two months. The physical pain was hard to manage, but even more excruciating was the pain of feeling like I couldn't nourish my baby girl in the way that my heart so desired.
Just as I have never felt so powerful as during the birth of my daughter, I have never felt so vulnerable as during those early weeks of motherhood.
I feel the echoes of this vulnerability as we're now in this collective portal of émergence.
So, I listen to echoes of my womb...
"Be patient", she reminds me
"Trust with an open heart"
"Hold yourself dearly and, at the same time, loosen your grip even more"
Yes, the journey of letting go continues well beyond birth. In many ways, the intensity of birth is but the beginning of an even deeper transformation that occurs during the phase of emergence...
Cyclical wisdom reminds that the more we continue to release with tenderness, the more space we create to welcome the abundance of renewal.