Nothando T. Dlamini

26/11/2025

Designing Your Side Hustle Soulfully: Earn Without Losing Yourself

You have worked hard all your life often for others. But deep down, you know there is something more: a way to earn with purpose, not pressure. A side hustle can be more than just income; it can be healing. It is a chance to rediscover your creativity, autonomy and voice. Why “Hustle Culture” Doesn’t Work for Women Healing from Trauma…...

You have worked hard all your life often for others. But deep down, you know there is something more: a way to earn with purpose, not pressure. A side hustle can be more than just income; it can be…

19/11/2025

Money & Meaning: How Trauma Affects Your Finances (and How to Break the Cycle)

Money can feel heavy when you have survived trauma. It is not just about numbers; it’s about safety, control and worth. Many women who have lived through chaos or abuse struggle with overspending, under-earning or avoiding money altogether. It is not because you are irresponsible; it is because your nervous system equates “safe” with “surviving,” not thriving. How Trauma Shapes Money Beliefs…...

Money can feel heavy when you have survived trauma. It is not just about numbers; it’s about safety, control and worth. Many women who have lived through chaos or abuse struggle with overspending, …

12/11/2025

If you are a nurse, caregiver or working rotating shifts, you already know exhaustion too well. Your schedule often feels like a never-ending vicious cycle of caring for everyone else. But healing can happen even inside that chaos only if you learn to work with your rhythm instead of against it. Why Traditional “Self-Care” Doesn’t Work for Shift Workers Most self-care advice assumes you have weekends off or energy left over....

If you are a nurse, caregiver or working rotating shifts, you already know exhaustion too well. Your schedule often feels like a never-ending vicious cycle of caring for everyone else. But healing …

05/11/2025

There comes a moment when you realise you have been living inside a story that someone else wrote a story marked by pain, silence, or survival. But courage whispers, “You can pick up the pen now.” Rewriting your story isn’t about erasing what happened. It’s about reclaiming your power to decide what comes next. Trauma has a way of freezing moments in time....

There comes a moment when you realise you have been living inside a story that someone else wrote a story marked by pain, silence, or survival. But courage whispers, “You can pick up the pen now.” …

29/10/2025

You have survived things that could have broken you. You have walked through storms, carried weight others will never understand and somehow, you are still here. Survival is no small thing instead it’s proof of your strength, your resilience, your fight. But here’s the truth: you weren’t made to just survive. You were made to create. To take the pieces of your story even the shattered ones and build something beautiful that reflects your courage....

You have survived things that could have broken you. You have walked through storms, carried weight others will never understand and somehow, you are still here. Survival is no small thing instead …

27/10/2025

What a celebration?!!

Thank you yo everyone who made my day a memorable one!! May God bless each & everyone of you❤❤

22/10/2025

Often times, we see healing portrayed as sunshine and laughter; smiling faces, glowing skin, and freedom on display. But the truth? Healing doesn’t always look like joy. Sometimes it looks like lying in bed because you are exhausted from processing. Sometimes it looks like crying in the shower or canceling plans because your heart feels too heavy. If this is where you are right now, sis, I want you to hear this: you are still healing....

Often times, we see healing portrayed as sunshine and laughter; smiling faces, glowing skin, and freedom on display. But the truth? Healing doesn’t always look like joy. Sometimes it looks like lyi…

21/10/2025

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19/10/2025

Abo church was great this side❤🥰

17/10/2025

Tintfo so this October ❤❤🤏🤏

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15/10/2025

As a migrant mom, there is only a certain type of pain that you understand; the kind that sits heavy on your chest when you miss a birthday, when your child is sick, school meetings or even the chance to see your babies go to school in the mornings. You left because you love them and you want a better future for them, hence the sacrifice....

As a migrant mom, there is only a certain type of pain that you understand; the kind that sits heavy on your chest when you miss a birthday, when your child is sick, school meetings or even the cha…

08/10/2025

Can I be honest with you? You are not weak because you feel afraid. You are not “less spiritual” because anxiety still sneaks into your chest even while you are praying. You are not broken because faith doesn’t erase fear overnight. Faith and fear can absolutely coexist. In fact, they often do. The question isn’t whether fear shows up, instead it’s whether we let it drive the car....

Can I be honest with you? You are not weak because you feel afraid. You are not “less spiritual” because anxiety still sneaks into your chest even while you are praying. You are not broken because …