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Havva Çelik Aile Danışmanlığı 2020 yılında kuruldu. Aile ve Bireysel Danışmanlık Hizmeti

06/04/2026

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I say: Do not speak to your spouse in a rude and disrespectful way.
They say, ‘This is just my way; I am like this with everyone when I’m annoyed.’
I ask, ‘Are you the same with everyone in your professional and social life?’
They say, ‘Yes, exactly like this.’
I’m sorry, but you are lying. I know very well how you bow down to others and how you tolerate people outside. You take out all the stress and anger of the ‘controlled’ kindness you show to the world on your partner the moment you walk through your front door. You abuse the patience you show to strangers because you rely on the unconditional love of the person at home.
When your spouse, the victim of your careless behavior, begins to fear you and grow cold, you complain saying, ‘There’s no big deal, why are they acting like this?’
It’s obvious... You eventually start breaking from the same place you broke them, but you don’t even realize it until things completely fall apart. From the moment you mistake your partner’s resilience for ‘weakness’ and their patience for ‘obligation,’ you are dragging the relationship downhill every single day.
Havva Hicran Çelik - Family Counselor 🤝

04/04/2026

Biz seninle gayet iyi anlaşabiliriz bunları yapabilirsen…🫂🌸
Kime gideceğini biliyorsun👀📨

02/04/2026

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The relationship you had 5 years ago is over. You just didn’t notice.
You think you are still with the same person.
You are wrong.
The person in front of you has changed.
You have changed too.
Old expectations are still on the table.
Then you call each other ungrateful.
You expect someone you no longer know
to act like someone you used to know.
This is not ingratitude.
This is blindness.
Love is the ability
to choose the same person again and again.
If you don’t choose them, you just get used to them.
And what you get used to, you eventually devalue.
Then you are surprised when the relationship ends.
Don’t be.
This is the fate of those who become strangers to each other.
Havva Hicran Çelik- Family Counselor 🤝
̇lişkiler

01/04/2026

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A father says his child does not want to go to school. He says he does everything he can so his son will study. He takes care of him all the time and even finds teachers from many places in the country.
At the same time, he says he does not like books. He says he is impatient and he did not finish school. Then he says, “I did not study, at least my child should study.”
I’m sorry, but your children are not that foolish. They will not like something you do not like. They watch you very closely.
Children copy what their parents do to get their approval.
Think about this: Why would a child try to please you with something you don’t like?
The behavior you want to see in your child must also be in you. Do not look for another way. This is the natural rule of life.
Havva Hicran Çelik- Family Counselor🤝

30/03/2026

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I’ve come to a very clear conclusion from observing people who avoid responsibility:
They all have the mindset of “This is who I am, I can’t change.”
Some people go from door to door to fix their marriage problems.
They read books, attend seminars, and make an effort.
Others keep their eyes only on their own small world, focused on their own needs and priorities.
So you naturally ask:
Why did you get married then?
Marriage is not a place to live selfishly.
It is not a system where you can chase your own pleasures without taking responsibility.
Marriage is a life for two.
Not a one-person comfort zone.
Stop turning marriage into a personal service for yourself.
Havva Hicran Çelik- Family Counselor 🤝

28/03/2026

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A mother does not care for her child only when she feels like it.
Even when she feels overwhelmed and wants to step away, she still acts as a mother because she knows her responsibility. She may be sleepless at night, yet she wakes up in the morning, prepares food even if she doesn’t want to, and smiles at her child despite her exhaustion.
This applies to a child, a spouse, a family member…
It is true for all of them.
We feel responsibility toward the people we love.
Responsibility is the clearest cost of love.
You cannot act only when you feel like it for the people you love.
Even if you feel resistance or it feels heavy, you still do what needs to be done because you are aware of your responsibility.
Isn’t life itself built on doing many things we don’t feel like doing?
Think about it: Do you always get out of bed because you want to?
There are so many examples like this that they cannot all be listed here.
One thing is clear: The peace of a home is mostly maintained by doing what we don’t want to do, yet still doing it out of responsibility.
Havva Hicran Çelik- Family Counselor🤝

27/03/2026

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If there is abuse in a marriage,
there is no trust, respect, loyalty, honesty, love, or appreciation.
Instead, there is fear, betrayal, lies, insults, and a lot of disrespect.
Now it’s your decision:
Will you be controlling and abusive, or someone who is loved and respected?
Every decision you make will slowly turn you into either a happier person or someone who is lonely and excluded.
The choice is yours.
Havva Hicran Çelik- Family Counselor 🤝

25/03/2026

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Here is a simple and clear English version (keeping your tone but not overcomplicating) :
Milan Kundera has a quote I really love:
“But when the strong become too weak to hurt the weak, the weak must become strong enough to walk away.”
The most important responsibility in life is to protect your own identity.
When you show mercy to harm that was done to you knowingly, you are also betraying yourself.
When they were strong, they didn’t truly apologize. Pay attention to this.
Now they simply don’t have the power over you anymore. That’s all.
Learn to clearly tell the difference.
Havva Hicran Çelik- Family Counselor 🤝

24/03/2026

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Every married person, one day, goes through a test about whether someone else’s marriage looks better than theirs.
To me, this is one of the hardest tests in marriage.
You don’t have it, but someone else does.
They earn more, while you are just getting by…
They are very attentive, while you feel like you are in an inattentive relationship.
Once you fall into this spiral, it keeps pulling you in.
You should not forget that everything you don’t have will always look more attractive to you. Always.
To pass this difficult test, you need to turn your attention not to what is far away, but to what is right beside you.
What is still with you, what you can still reach, may actually be what is best for you.
When people are healthy and strong, they can hardly see the value of what they have.
Yet there are relationships where people say, “Even their presence feels like a breath to my soul.”
So the issue is not what others have and you don’t.
The real issue is being able to truly recognize what is still with you.
Comparison becomes a problem in every relationship sooner or later.
And its cure is only deep gratitude.
Havva Hicran Çelik- Family Counselor 🤝

23/03/2026

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Continue showing non-s*xual affection, especially through touch. Whether woman or man, we all need not only s*x but also affection without s*xuality. When we touch, we understand that we are not opponents but allies.
John Gottman
I hear this from couples:
“My partner is very harsh, except when it comes to s*x.”
In a marriage that continues like this, one person keeps feeling used, and after a while, they can’t do anything for you willingly. This is a classic story the point where a relationship begins to turn into an exchange of interests.
Havva Hicran Çelik -Family Counselor 🤝

21/03/2026

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A person’s nature shows itself early, but we still give people time until adulthood so they can understand what they are doing and develop judgment.
If a grown person keeps breaking their sibling’s heart and causes repeated disappointments, then that relationship has become one that needs distance.
We may miss the good times we shared, their wisdom, and the comfort of their presence.
This is our most natural right and feeling. But some relationships cannot continue if they keep draining us. Just as you cannot step into a fire just to get warm, you cannot destroy yourself just to keep something alive.
Havva Hicran Çelik- Family Counselor 🤝

19/03/2026

Büyüklerimin ellerinden, küçüklerimin ise gözlerinden ve kalplerinden öperim🙌
Ramazan Bayramı’nızı en içten dileklerimle kutlarım🌸🌹
Eviniz neşe ve huzurla dolsun🙏
Havva Hicran Çelik- Aile Danışmanı🤝

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