14/01/2026
“I Thought I Was Too Young”
I was 34 when I was told I had advanced cervical cancer.
Even writing those words feels unreal.
I’m a mother. My days were full — work, school runs, cooking dinner, and chasing my toddler around the house. I didn’t smoke. I rarely drank. I tried to eat well and stay active. I felt healthy. I was healthy… or so I thought.
I had no pain.
No abnormal bleeding.
No symptoms at all.
I almost skipped my Pap smear and then I heard of a colleague at work who was my age being diagnosed. I decided to go through with it…not knowing that decision would change my life.
When the doctor called me in, I immediately panicked, my mind started racing…I didn’t know what to expect. First, she said the results were abnormal. Then came the biopsy. The scans. The waiting…
I would never forget the words that shattered everything I thought I knew about my body:
Advanced cervical cancer.
It still makes my blood crawl.
I stared at my doctor. How could I have cancer? I had gone to the beach weeks before. I was running around with my child. I hadn’t even been sick.
That’s when I learned something no one had ever explained to me before — cervical cancer can grow quietly. For years. Without any warning signs.
The hardest part wasn’t hearing the word cancer. It was going home and looking at my child, knowing my life had suddenly become uncertain. It was trying to explain why Mummy was tired. Why I couldn’t lift him anymore. Why hospital visits had become routine.
Some nights, after he fell asleep, I cried — not just because I was scared, but because I wished I had known sooner. I wished I had understood that screening isn’t about symptoms. It’s about prevention.
Today, I’m in treatment. Some days are harder than others. But I’m telling my story because maybe it can change someone else’s story.
Please don’t wait until your body gives you a warning — sometimes it doesn’t.
Get your Pap smear.
Ask about HPV testing and vaccination.
Encourage your sisters, daughters, and friends.
Cervical cancer can happen to anyone — and catching it early can save your life.
