13/09/2024
My Positive Birth Story:�10th August 2024
It all started on a seemingly normal day. I had a fun and productive morning with a bump photoshoot (just in time!), wrapped up a business meeting, had lunch with some girl friends and ended the day with an unintentionally spicy dinner.
The doctor had told me the day before that, although the baby’s head was down, it wasn’t engaged yet, and delivery that week seemed unlikely. Which I why after dinner, I decided to go for an evening walk in an effort to help the baby’s head
engage, as per my doctor’s suggestion.
I also spontaneously treated ourselves to a foot massage around the corner— was heavenly. Highly recommend.
So when my waters broke at 22:28pm that night I was in a bit of shock! I had been convinced I’d go over my due date following in my mother’s footsteps , not deliver two weeks early… !
I wanted to be sure it was my waters, so popped in a pad and after walking around a bit and seeing a steady flow of clear liquid, I knew this was it.
Too excited and full of adrenaline to sleep, I put on a movie & cuddled up in bed. We went for Hitman’s Bodyguard (not the most obvious choice for relaxation, I know, but I wanted something light-hearted and funny). Felix ran out to Family Mart to grab ion drinks and some snacks, and I spent the time chatting on the phone with a close friend who was also expecting. That call was so comforting, and I highly recommend speaking with a loved one if you’re in the early stages of labor. It gave me reassurance and calm, a great tip from the birthing courses we’d done.
By midnight, I tried to sleep and managed a few hours before the contractions kicked in. Around 4:00 am, I was up, trying to stay quiet and let Felix rest as long as possible. I pottered around, unloaded the dishwasher, and indulged in a weird but delicious snack—peanut butter, jam, and cottage cheese on a bagel. I highly recommend eating early on during labor because you never know when you’ll have the chance again!
I also spent some time bouncing on my exercise ball, which felt great, and kept myself moving.
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