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11/02/2026

When a man stops worshipping his stomach and starts fasting, even his face repents.

Keep chasing your 2026 resolutions on weight loss. 🙏🏾🙏🏾

11/02/2026

07/02/2026

Diagnosed with HIV 💔

Arthur Ashe, the legendary American tennis champion and Wimbledon winner, was diagnosed with HIV in the late 1980s after receiving contaminated blood during a heart surgery in 1983. At that time, testing was not as advanced as it is today. Later, the virus developed into AIDS.😥

In 1988, Arthur publicly shared his diagnosis. Despite facing stigma, pain, and declining health, he remained strong and continued inspiring millions until his death in 1993.😭😭

A few weeks before he passed away, Arthur received many letters from fans around the world. In one of them, someone asked:

“Why did God choose you to suffer from this terrible disease?”

Arthur replied with wisdom:🤔

Out of 500 million children who start playing tennis worldwide,
-50 million learn the rules.
-5 million become professional players.
-50,000 compete in major tournaments.
-5,000 reach Grand Slam level.
-50 play at Wimbledon.
-Only 4 reach the semifinals.
-2 reach the final.
-And only 1 becomes champion.
-That champion was me.

When I lifted the trophy and heard the cheers, I never asked God,
“Why me?”
So why do we ask, “Why me?” only when pain comes,
and never when success comes our way?

Arthur’s words remind us that life is made of both blessings and struggles. We celebrate success without question, but often doubt God when hardship arrives. Yet, every season of life has meaning.

Lesson: If you want to live happily, learn to be content.
Be grateful in victory.
Be faithful in trials.
And never forget: your story still matters.

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06/02/2026

We are truly passers by in this world,this is unbelievably painful, Rest in Peace Kenneth.

He was voluntarily donating a kidney to his cousin who needed a kidney transplant, the operation didn't go as planned in India and he lost his life, a person with such a pure heart gone😭

05/02/2026

The answer that would literally take a man’s soul from his body.💔

04/02/2026

What causes this disease?

How do you prevent it?

How do you manage it incase you already have it?

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26/01/2026

Lawyer Kills Husband After He Discovers Their Houseboy Is Her Biological Son .

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Yes, this story is about a 2022 incident in Nigeria where lawyer Abasiesebanga Ikoiwak was accused of involvement in her husband Godwin's murder after he discovered their houseboy was her son from a prior relationship.

In 2025, she was convicted of accessory to murder and got 2 years; others received up to 10 years.

The family appealed, calling sentences too light.

Crazy world. Single mothers should learn to be honest with your new partners about kids you already have from past relationships,

13/01/2026

Let me break this down the way I usually explain it to you

A lot of people ask, “Why is it that some people don’t get HIV even after repeated exposure?”

First, understand this clearly, HIV transmission is not automatic. Many factors are involved. For example, if an HIV-positive partner is on treatment and their viral load is undetectable, they cannot transmit the virus at all. This is what we call U=U which means Undetectable = Untransmittable.

In very rare cases, some people are known as elite controllers. That is ,their bodies naturally keep the virus at very low levels even without drügs. This greatly reduces transmission risk, but it doesn’t make it zero. Also, HIV doesn’t pass during sëx every single time. The rïsk depends on the type of sëx, whether there are cuts or sores, and if other infections are present.

Another thing people don’t talk about enough is that our immune systems are not the same. Some people’s immune response can fïght the virus early before it fully settles in the body. Genetics also play a role. A very small number of people have genetic mutations like CCR5-delta32 that make it harder for HIV to enter their cells in the first place. And yes, not all HIV strains behave the same way, some are less easily transmitted than others.

But listen and listen attentively, none of these are a guarantee of safety. The smartest protection is to use the cöndöms, get testing, prevention, and treatment. Never rely on luck when it comes to your health.

So, yes! It’s possible to have sëx with someone with HIV and not have it.

I hope you learnt something today.

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09/01/2026

Let's mention some of them

05/01/2026

This year we have all made the resolution that we are only going to sleep with *only quality people*

- OQP

No time for low hanging fruits.

02/01/2026

Hi doc please kindly advise me.

I'm a woman living with HIV and I've been with my fiance who is a soldier in the army for two and a half years now. I was taking my arvs secretly without his knowledge(well for obvious reasons) and all was going until recently when he came across my pills and I was left with no choice but to come out of the closet. Now this man is so mad at me and he's even threatening to sue me if he's to test positive but I know I have never skipped my medication. I am U=U. After all he's the one that stopped wearing condoms. I didn't force him. I always insisted we use condoms but he said he didn't like them. So what is my crime here? I love him , it's not like I'm careless but I don't understand why he's so mad. I know I didn't infect him. I am scared because he always carries his gun back at home.

Please help me.

01/01/2026

Good morning doc, happy new year.
I'm a 41 year old man, been living with HIV for 10 years and married with 3 kids. The eldest is daughter 14 and youngest is 1 and a few months. My wife doesn't know about my status.

I have been in marriage for more than 15 years now but I feel empty and exhausted. I think I just got married out of pressure. I don't feel any s*xual attraction for my wife anymore we can even go for 6 months without s*x. When I'm with her in bed my dick cannot even stand am just there becoz of the kids only. Whenever am with other women outside i function normally very well but at home zero 🤔 I had an ex when I was in campus who I was so much in love with and we broke up and she left me and got married to another guy now she's a mother of 3 kids. I still think about her. We usually meet once in a while and we have secret intimacy no body knows but man I still have her in my heart out of all my women she stands out. I still dream about her. Infact yesterday I dreamt about her and she was pleading with me to move on 💔💔💔
This issue has been going on for a while now and I don't know how to stop it. Dr Lawi pls assist. How can I move on???