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05/01/2026

This year we have all made the resolution that we are only going to sleep with *only quality people*

- OQP

No time for low hanging fruits.

Hi doc please kindly advise me. I'm a woman living with HIV and I've been with my fiance who is a soldier in the army fo...
02/01/2026

Hi doc please kindly advise me.

I'm a woman living with HIV and I've been with my fiance who is a soldier in the army for two and a half years now. I was taking my arvs secretly without his knowledge(well for obvious reasons) and all was going until recently when he came across my pills and I was left with no choice but to come out of the closet. Now this man is so mad at me and he's even threatening to sue me if he's to test positive but I know I have never skipped my medication. I am U=U. After all he's the one that stopped wearing condoms. I didn't force him. I always insisted we use condoms but he said he didn't like them. So what is my crime here? I love him , it's not like I'm careless but I don't understand why he's so mad. I know I didn't infect him. I am scared because he always carries his gun back at home.

Please help me.

Good morning doc, happy new year.I'm a 41 year old man, been living with HIV for 10 years and married with 3 kids. The e...
01/01/2026

Good morning doc, happy new year.
I'm a 41 year old man, been living with HIV for 10 years and married with 3 kids. The eldest is daughter 14 and youngest is 1 and a few months. My wife doesn't know about my status.

I have been in marriage for more than 15 years now but I feel empty and exhausted. I think I just got married out of pressure. I don't feel any s*xual attraction for my wife anymore we can even go for 6 months without s*x. When I'm with her in bed my dick cannot even stand am just there becoz of the kids only. Whenever am with other women outside i function normally very well but at home zero 🤔 I had an ex when I was in campus who I was so much in love with and we broke up and she left me and got married to another guy now she's a mother of 3 kids. I still think about her. We usually meet once in a while and we have secret intimacy no body knows but man I still have her in my heart out of all my women she stands out. I still dream about her. Infact yesterday I dreamt about her and she was pleading with me to move on 💔💔💔
This issue has been going on for a while now and I don't know how to stop it. Dr Lawi pls assist. How can I move on???

A 45-year-old woman with a painless lip lesion that suddenly grew and bleeds easily.⚠️ Never cut this at home.Name the d...
25/12/2025

A 45-year-old woman with a painless lip lesion that suddenly grew and bleeds easily.
⚠️ Never cut this at home.
Name the diagnosis?

A. Kaposi Sarcoma

B. Herpes

C. Pyogenic granuloma

D. Haemangioma

E. HIV related

We will post the correct ANSWER after 48 hours.
Merry Christmas



The correct ANSWER is C. Pyogenic granuloma

Merry Christmas to you and your family. Cheers 🥂
24/12/2025

Merry Christmas to you and your family. Cheers 🥂

Ladies:Choose oneHaving a man who is rich but you share him with others ladies.OrHaving a man who is poor but is person...
23/12/2025

Ladies:
Choose one

Having a man who is rich but you share him with others ladies.

Or

Having a man who is poor but is personally committed to you.

Please help me advise this young lady. 🙏 *x
23/12/2025

Please help me advise this young lady. 🙏

*x

HOW A BABY’S S*X IS DETERMINED — BIOLOGICALLYHumans have two s*x chromosomes: • X chromosome• Y chromosomeA woman’s egg ...
21/12/2025

HOW A BABY’S S*X IS DETERMINED — BIOLOGICALLY
Humans have two s*x chromosomes: • X chromosome
• Y chromosome
A woman’s egg always carries X.
A man’s s***m can carry X or Y.
🧬 What happens at fertilization: • X (egg) + X (s***m) = Girl (XX)
• X (egg) + Y (s***m) = Boy (XY)
This means the father’s s***m determines whether the baby is a boy or a girl.
Can a man control which s***m fertilizes the egg?
❌ No.
The process is entirely natural and random. There is no guaranteed natural way to choose a baby’s s*x.
Why the man’s s***m decides: • Women are XX, so they can only pass on X
• Men are XY, so their s***m may carry X or Y
• Whichever s***m reaches and fertilizes the egg first sets the baby’s s*x
Extra: X vs Y ***m (biological theories)
Some studies suggest: • Y s***m (boy s***m):
– Faster
– More delicate
– Shorter lifespan
• X ***m (girl s***m):
– Slower
– More resilient
– Live longer
⚠️ These differences do not allow parents to intentionally choose a baby’s *x.
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Every day I come across people—including health workers—who still doubt U=U. Yet it remains an undeniable scientific tru...
21/12/2025

Every day I come across people—including health workers—who still doubt U=U. Yet it remains an undeniable scientific truth.
What fuels this disbelief isn’t lack of evidence, but the deep stigma surrounding . Stigma creates fear, boundaries, and limitations. science does the opposite—it tells us there is no difference.
Living with HIV today is not what it was in the early 80s or 2000s. With , viral load becomes , HIV is s*xually , and people live the same full, healthy lives as anyone else.

Join our program today and keep learning and growing as a person. WhatsApp now 0715 657384

At just 20 years old, Kagiso Bokaba’s life was shattered by a sentence no one should ever hear.After being infected by a...
19/12/2025

At just 20 years old, Kagiso Bokaba’s life was shattered by a sentence no one should ever hear.

After being infected by an intimate partner, he coldly told her:
“Welcome to the world of AIDS, Kagiso.”

At a time when ARVs were rare and HIV was seen as a death sentence, fear and stigma ruled. But Kagiso refused to disappear.

Instead of hiding, she rose.

She chose healing over shame ❤️ embracing counseling, education, and treatment. Then she did the unthinkable: she stepped into the spotlight. Openly HIV positive, Kagiso entered beauty pageants, becoming a finalist in Mrs Globe and Mrs Universe, and a semi-finalist in Mrs South Africa, boldly proving that HIV does not cancel beauty, dreams, or life.

Her courage came at a cost. She faced hate, threats, and rejection. Still, she stood firm.

Now a single mother and more than 25 years HIV positive, Kagiso has turned pain into purpose 💪🏾💪🏾using her voice to motivate, educate, and fight stigma.

Her story is a reminder that HIV is not the end.
You can live.
You can thrive.
You can rise.

Kagiso Bokaba didn’t just survive, she became a symbol of hope.

She keeps saying, "It's very important to drink Arv's, Eat healthy, Drink lots of water, Exercise , forgive everyone who did you wrong (remember your mental health comes first) and acceptance.

I ask myself that am I going to let HIV AIDS to kill me /kill other's?
Am I going to be afraid to come out because of Stigma?
Am I going to be afraid to fight the disease?
But my answer was Hell No!!!
I am going to stand up, fight, use my unique instrument (which is my voice) that has the power to move soul, heal and touch hearts. "
Such an amazing inspiration.

Take notes. Take lessons. Life must move forward. We are not about to slow down. Join our program today and learn, connect and interact with many amazing people living just like you.












Rofhiwa Madima was shot and killed in Venda, Limpopo, on 29 March 2025.Her death came after she had obtained a protectio...
19/12/2025

Rofhiwa Madima was shot and killed in Venda, Limpopo, on 29 March 2025.
Her death came after she had obtained a protection order against her boyfriend, who had allegedly threatened to hire hitmen to kill her, warning that she had only months left to live.

At the time of the attack, Rofhiwa was at home attending a family celebration when armed men entered the house. They forced her to kneel and shot her in front of her children and other family members.

No arrests have been made in connection with the murder.

Love is a very strong emotion. Be careful with whom you are dating or getting married to 🙌🏾

If you have been in this situation, please leave a simple piece of advice in the comments.A simple statement can have fa...
19/12/2025

If you have been in this situation, please leave a simple piece of advice in the comments.
A simple statement can have far-reaching consequences.

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