Birungi B Kasfah

Birungi B Kasfah Mentor , Counselor, Life Caoch & Mental Health Advocate

๐ท๐‘œ ๐‘ฆ๐‘œ๐‘ข ๐‘๐‘ข๐‘ โ„Ž ๐‘™๐‘œ๐‘ฃ๐‘’ ๐‘Ž๐‘ค๐‘Ž๐‘ฆ ๐‘คโ„Ž๐‘–๐‘™๐‘’ ๐‘๐‘Ÿ๐‘Ž๐‘ฃ๐‘–๐‘›๐‘” ๐‘“๐‘œ๐‘Ÿ ๐‘–๐‘ก?Hey incredible souls!Let's dive into a commonrelationship patternthat can fee...
20/06/2025

๐ท๐‘œ ๐‘ฆ๐‘œ๐‘ข ๐‘๐‘ข๐‘ โ„Ž ๐‘™๐‘œ๐‘ฃ๐‘’ ๐‘Ž๐‘ค๐‘Ž๐‘ฆ ๐‘คโ„Ž๐‘–๐‘™๐‘’ ๐‘๐‘Ÿ๐‘Ž๐‘ฃ๐‘–๐‘›๐‘” ๐‘“๐‘œ๐‘Ÿ ๐‘–๐‘ก?

Hey incredible souls!
Let's dive into a common
relationship pattern
that can feel incredibly
confusing: ๐Ÿ„ต๐Ÿ„ด๐Ÿ„ฐ๐Ÿ…๐Ÿ„ต๐Ÿ…„๐Ÿ„ป ๐Ÿ„ฐ๐Ÿ……๐Ÿ„พ๐Ÿ„ธ๐Ÿ„ณ๐Ÿ„ฐ๐Ÿ„ฝ๐Ÿ…ƒ ๐Ÿ„ฐ๐Ÿ…ƒ๐Ÿ…ƒ๐Ÿ„ฐ๐Ÿ„ฒ๐Ÿ„ท๐Ÿ„ผ๐Ÿ„ด๐Ÿ„ฝ๐Ÿ…ƒ( ๐ƒ๐ข๐ฌ๐จ๐ซ๐ ๐š๐ง๐ข๐ฌ๐ž๐ ๐€๐ญ๐ญ๐š๐œ๐ก๐ฆ๐ž๐ง๐ญ).

๐Ÿ’Ÿ Do you find yourself intensely craving deep connection and intimacy, but then when it gets too close,you feel an overwhelming
urge to pull away?

๐‘†๐‘œ๐‘š๐‘’๐‘ก๐‘–๐‘š๐‘’๐‘  ๐‘ฆ๐‘œ๐‘ข ๐‘ ๐‘ก๐‘Ÿ๐‘ข๐‘”๐‘”๐‘™๐‘’ ๐‘ค๐‘–๐‘กโ„Ž ๐‘ก๐‘Ÿ๐‘ข๐‘ ๐‘ก ๐‘’๐‘ฃ๐‘’๐‘› ๐‘คโ„Ž๐‘’๐‘› ๐‘กโ„Ž๐‘’๐‘Ÿ๐‘’ ๐‘–๐‘  ๐‘›๐‘œ๐‘กโ„Ž๐‘–๐‘›๐‘” ๐‘ก๐‘œ ๐‘ค๐‘œ๐‘Ÿ๐‘Ÿ๐‘ฆ ๐‘Ž๐‘๐‘œ๐‘ข๐‘ก.
๐ด๐‘ก ๐‘กโ„Ž๐‘’ ๐‘ ๐‘Ž๐‘š๐‘’ ๐‘ก๐‘–๐‘š๐‘’;

You may be like i think this is the last one i am talking to and it seems i have got what i want.

After some time of both of you doing everything to see it move forward;

๐˜๐จ๐ฎ๐ซ ๐ก๐ž๐š๐ซ๐ญ ๐ฌ๐š๐ฒ๐ฌ "๐‚๐จ๐ฆ๐ž ๐œ๐ฅ๐จ๐ฌ๐ž๐ซ!" ๐–๐ก๐ข๐ฅ๐ž ๐ฒ๐จ๐ฎ๐ซ ๐›๐ซ๐š๐ข๐ง ๐ฌ๐œ๐ซ๐ž๐š๐ฆ๐ฌ "๐ƒ๐š๐ง๐ ๐ž๐ซ!"

๐Ÿ’ซ This ๐‘ƒ๐‘ข๐‘ โ„Ž- ๐‘ƒ๐‘ข๐‘™๐‘™ dynamic
can leave you and your
partners feeling frustrated
and misunderstood.

๐Ÿ’ซ But here's the powerful truth:
๐”nderstanding this pattern
is the first step towards healing and building the secure, loving relationships you truly desire.

๐Ÿงšโ€โ™‚๏ธ If this resonates, know that
๐‘Œ๐‘œ๐‘ข ๐‘Ž๐‘Ÿ๐‘’ ๐‘›๐‘œ๐‘ก ๐‘๐‘Ÿ๐‘œ๐‘˜๐‘’๐‘›. You've
simply developed a coping
mechanism that once served
you.

Now, we can learn new
ways to connect safely ๐‘–๐‘› ๐‘กโ„Ž๐‘’ ๐‘›๐‘’๐‘ฅ๐‘ก ๐‘๐‘œ๐‘ ๐‘ก.

Drop a โค if this speaks
to you, let's start
a conversation about
navigating these waters!







๐•€ ๐•Ž๐”ธโ„•๐•‹ โ„๐•€๐•„/โ„๐”ผโ„ ๐•‹๐•† โ„‚๐•†๐•„๐”ผ ๐”น๐”ธโ„‚๐•‚ ๐•‹๐•† ๐•„๐”ผ. Feeling physically sick and anxious after a breakup is a common and incredibly tough ...
09/06/2025

๐•€ ๐•Ž๐”ธโ„•๐•‹ โ„๐•€๐•„/โ„๐”ผโ„ ๐•‹๐•† โ„‚๐•†๐•„๐”ผ ๐”น๐”ธโ„‚๐•‚ ๐•‹๐•† ๐•„๐”ผ.

Feeling physically sick and anxious after a breakup is a common and incredibly tough experience.

That longing for reconciliation and the desire to "start over" can be overwhelming you will agree with me.

* As a life coach and emotional healer, I often guide clients through this very difficult period.

* Hereโ€™s what I share with them about navigating these intense feelings and finding a path forward.

๐–๐ก๐ž๐ง ๐ฒ๐จ๐ฎ ๐ก๐š๐ฏ๐ž ๐ญ๐จ ๐ง๐š๐ฏ๐ข๐ ๐š๐ญ๐ž ๐ญ๐ก๐ž ๐ฌ๐ญ๐จ๐ซ๐ฆ.

๐Ÿ It's a familiar ache: that pit in your stomach, the racing heart, the constant replay of "what ifs."

๐Ÿ After a breakup, especially when you yearn for a second chance, the emotional pain can manifest as genuine physical sickness and relentless anxiety.

๐ŸYou just want them to reach out, to want you back, to rewind and start over. Worst of all you might be blocked everywhere.

If you're feeling this way, please know you are not alone, and these feelings are valid.

๐–๐ก๐ฒ ๐๐จ ๐ฒ๐จ๐ฎ ๐Ÿ๐ž๐ž๐ฅ ๐ญ๐ก๐ข๐ฌ ๐ฐ๐š๐ฒ?
๐šˆ๐š˜๐šž ๐šŠ๐š›๐šŽ ๐š—๐š˜๐š ๐š–๐š’๐šœ๐šœ๐š’๐š—๐š ๐š๐š‘๐šŽ๐š– ๐š›๐šŠ๐š๐š‘๐šŽ๐š›;

๐ŸŒพ Missing who you got to be when you felt chosen .
๐ŸŒพ Your brain is clings to the moments that felt good.
๐ŸŒพ You keep replaying the sweet early days, like they are still happening.

Remember that version does not exist anymore.

๐‡๐จ๐ฐ ๐œ๐š๐ง ๐ฒ๐จ๐ฎ ๐ฌ๐ญ๐š๐ซ๐ญ ๐Ÿ๐ž๐ž๐ฅ๐ข๐ง๐  ๐›๐ž๐ญ๐ญ๐ž๐ซ?

๐ŸŒค Acknowledge and Validate Your Feelings ( Do not force yourself to be strong).
It's okay to feel sad, angry, anxious, and even physically unwell. Give yourself permission to grieve the loss of the relationship and the future you envisioned.

๐ŸŒค Prioritize Self-Care (Even When It Feels Impossible): This isn't a luxury; it's a necessity.

First ask yourself would they feel same way if it was me who left ?

* A short walk can help release pent-up energy and anxiety.
* Nourishment: Try to eat regular, healthy meals, even if your appetite is low.
* Sleep: Aim for consistent sleep, creating a calm bedtime routine.
* Mindfulness/Meditation: Even 5-10 minutes of focused breathing can help calm your nervous system.

๐ŸŒคLimit Contact (Crucial for Healing): While you might desperately want them to reach out, constant checking of their social media or sending messages will only prolong your pain.
* Create space for your own healing.
* It is not about manipulation; it's about self-preservation. It's hard but do it.

๐ŸŒค Lean on Your Support System: Talk to trusted friends, family, or a therapist. You can reach out to me if possible.
* Sharing your feelings can lighten the load and remind you that you're supported. Don't isolate yourself.

๐ŸŒค Engage in Distraction (Healthy Ones!): Dive into a hobby, read a book, watch a movie, or learn something new.
*Temporarily shifting your focus can provide much-needed breaks from rumination.

๐ŸŒค Write down your thoughts/ feelings:
* It allows you to process emotions without judgment and can help you identify patterns in your thinking.

* Reconciliation might not always be the answer though can work in some cases , i have seen many who went back but got just worse.

Remember, healing is not linear, but with self-compassion and consistent effort, you will move through this and emerge stronger.

What's one small act of self-care you can commit to today to help ease your anxiety?

How did you overcome that heartbreak that you thought would finish you?

๐“๐จ ๐ž๐ฏ๐ž๐ซ๐ฒ ๐ฉ๐š๐ซ๐ž๐ง๐ญ ๐จ๐ซ ๐ ๐ฎ๐š๐ซ๐๐ข๐š๐ง ๐จ๐ซ ๐ฉ๐š๐ซ๐ž๐ง๐ญ, ๐Ÿ๐ข๐ ๐ก๐ญ ๐ก๐š๐ซ๐ ๐ญ๐จ ๐ฌ๐ž๐ž ๐ญ๐ก๐š๐ญ ๐ฒ๐จ๐ฎ ๐š๐ซ๐ž ๐ญ๐ก๐ž ๐ ๐จ ๐ญ๐จ ๐ฉ๐ž๐ซ๐ฌ๐จ๐ง ๐จ๐Ÿ ๐ญ๐ก๐จ๐ฌ๐ž ๐œ๐ก๐ข๐ฅ๐๐ซ๐ž๐ง ๐ฎ๐ง๐๐ž๐ซ ๐ฒ๐จ๐ฎ๐ซ ๐œ๐š๐ซ๐ž...
07/06/2025

๐“๐จ ๐ž๐ฏ๐ž๐ซ๐ฒ ๐ฉ๐š๐ซ๐ž๐ง๐ญ ๐จ๐ซ ๐ ๐ฎ๐š๐ซ๐๐ข๐š๐ง ๐จ๐ซ ๐ฉ๐š๐ซ๐ž๐ง๐ญ, ๐Ÿ๐ข๐ ๐ก๐ญ ๐ก๐š๐ซ๐ ๐ญ๐จ ๐ฌ๐ž๐ž ๐ญ๐ก๐š๐ญ ๐ฒ๐จ๐ฎ ๐š๐ซ๐ž ๐ญ๐ก๐ž ๐ ๐จ ๐ญ๐จ ๐ฉ๐ž๐ซ๐ฌ๐จ๐ง ๐จ๐Ÿ ๐ญ๐ก๐จ๐ฌ๐ž ๐œ๐ก๐ข๐ฅ๐๐ซ๐ž๐ง ๐ฎ๐ง๐๐ž๐ซ ๐ฒ๐จ๐ฎ๐ซ ๐œ๐š๐ซ๐ž.

๐Ž๐ง๐ž ๐ญ๐ก๐ข๐ง๐  ๐ข ๐ฐ๐š๐ง๐ญ ๐ญ๐จ ๐ญ๐ž๐ฅ๐ฅ ๐ฒ๐จ๐ฎ ๐ข๐ฌ, ๐œ๐ก๐ข๐ฅ๐๐ซ๐ž๐ง ๐ก๐š๐ฏ๐ž ๐ญ๐ก๐ž๐ข๐ซ ๐ฉ๐ซ๐จ๐›๐ฅ๐ž๐ฆ๐ฌ ๐ฆ๐จ๐ซ๐ž ๐ญ๐ก๐š๐ง ๐ฒ๐จ๐ฎ ๐œ๐š๐ง ๐ž๐ฏ๐ž๐ง ๐ข๐ฆ๐š๐ ๐ข๐ง๐ž.

๐ˆ๐ง ๐ญ๐ก๐ž ๐ฉ๐š๐ฌ๐ญ ๐Ÿฏ๐Ÿฌ ๐จ๐ซ ๐ฆ๐จ๐ซ๐ž ๐๐š๐ฒ๐ฌ ๐ข ๐ก๐š๐ฏ๐ž ๐ญ๐š๐ฅ๐ค๐ž๐ ๐ญ๐จ ๐ฆ๐š๐ง๐ฒ ๐ฎ๐ง๐๐ž๐ซ ๐ญ๐ก๐ž ๐š๐ ๐ž ๐จ๐Ÿ ๐Ÿญ๐Ÿฒ, ๐ญ๐ก๐ž ๐ข๐ฌ๐ฌ๐ฎ๐ž๐ฌ ๐ฆ๐ข๐ ๐ก๐ญ ๐ง๐จ๐ญ ๐›๐ž ๐ญ๐ก๐š๐ญ ๐›๐š๐ ๐ญ๐จ ๐ฎ๐ฌ ๐š๐ฌ ๐š๐๐ฎ๐ฅ๐ญ๐ฌ ๐›๐ฎ๐ญ ๐ฒ๐จ๐ฎ ๐Ÿ๐ข๐ฆ๐ ๐š๐ฅ๐จ๐ญ ๐จ๐Ÿ ๐š๐ง๐ฑ๐ข๐ž๐ญ๐ฒ ๐š๐ง๐ ๐›๐š๐ ๐ญ๐ก๐จ๐ฎ๐ ๐ก๐ญ๐ฌ ๐œ๐š๐ฎ๐ฌ๐ž๐ ๐›๐ฒ ๐ฐ๐ก๐š๐ญ ๐ฐ๐ž ๐ฆ๐š๐ฒ ๐ญ๐ก๐ข๐ง๐ค ๐ข๐ฌ ๐ฌ๐ฆ๐š๐ฅ๐ฅ.

๐ˆ ๐๐จ ๐ง๐จ๐ญ ๐ฎ๐ฌ๐ž ๐ฆ๐š๐ ๐ข๐œ ๐™ฑ๐š„๐šƒ ๐ญ๐ก๐ž ๐ญ๐ฎ๐ซ๐ง๐ข๐ง๐  ๐ฉ๐จ๐ข๐ง๐ญ ๐ญ๐จ ๐ญ๐ก๐ž๐ฆ ๐ข๐ฌ ๐š๐ฅ๐ฐ๐š๐ฒ๐ฌ

" ๐‘๐‘œ๐‘ค ๐‘– ๐‘“๐‘’๐‘’๐‘™ ๐‘Ÿ๐‘’๐‘™๐‘–๐‘’๐‘ฃ๐‘’๐‘‘ ๐‘– โ„Ž๐‘Ž๐‘ฃ๐‘’ ๐‘ ๐‘œ๐‘š๐‘’๐‘œ๐‘›๐‘’ ๐‘ก๐‘œ ๐‘Ž๐‘™๐‘ค๐‘Ž๐‘ฆ๐‘  ๐‘ก๐‘Ž๐‘™๐‘˜ ๐‘ก๐‘œ".

" ๐ผ ๐‘›๐‘œ๐‘ค ๐‘“๐‘’๐‘’๐‘™ ๐‘Ÿ๐‘’๐‘™๐‘–๐‘’๐‘ฃ๐‘’๐‘‘ ๐‘“๐‘œ๐‘Ÿ ๐‘– โ„Ž๐‘Ž๐‘ฃ๐‘’ ๐‘Ž ๐‘š๐‘œ๐‘กโ„Ž๐‘’๐‘Ÿ"

" ๐ผ ๐‘Ž๐‘š ๐‘”๐‘™๐‘Ž๐‘‘ ๐‘– โ„Ž๐‘Ž๐‘ฃ๐‘’ ๐‘™๐‘’๐‘ก ๐‘กโ„Ž๐‘–๐‘  ๐‘œ๐‘ข๐‘ก , ๐‘›๐‘œ ๐‘œ๐‘›๐‘’ ๐‘˜๐‘›๐‘œ๐‘ค๐‘  ๐‘Ž๐‘๐‘œ๐‘ข๐‘ก ๐‘–๐‘ก"
๐“๐ก๐ž๐ฌ๐ž ๐š๐ซ๐ž ๐ง๐จ๐ญ ๐จ๐ซ๐ฉ๐ก๐š๐ง๐ฌ ๐Ÿ๐จ๐ซ ๐ฒ๐จ๐ฎ๐ซ ๐ข๐ง๐Ÿ๐จ๐ซ๐ฆ๐š๐ญ๐ข๐จ๐ง.

๐๐ฎ๐ญ๐ญ๐ข๐ง๐  ๐š๐ฌ๐ข๐๐ž ๐ญ๐ก๐ž ๐ฌ๐ญ๐ซ๐š๐ญ๐ž๐ ๐ข๐ž๐ฌ ๐ฐ๐ž ๐ฐ๐จ๐ซ๐ค ๐จ๐ฎ๐ญ ๐ญ๐จ๐ ๐ž๐ญ๐ก๐ž๐ซ , ๐ญ๐ก๐ž๐ฌ๐ž ๐ฒ๐จ๐ฎ๐ง๐  ๐ฌ๐จ๐ฎ๐ฅ๐ฌ ๐š๐ซ๐ž ๐ญ๐จ๐ฎ๐œ๐ก๐ž๐ ๐ฆ๐จ๐ซ๐ž ๐›๐ฒ ๐ญ๐ก๐ž ๐Ÿ๐š๐œ๐ญ ๐ญ๐ก๐š๐ญ , ๐ญ๐ก๐ž๐ซ๐ž ๐ข๐ฌ ๐š๐ง ๐ž๐š๐ซ ๐ฅ๐ข๐ฌ๐ญ๐ž๐ง๐ข๐ง๐  ๐ญ๐จ ๐ญ๐ก๐ž๐ฆ ๐š๐ง๐ ๐ฌ๐จ๐ฆ๐ž๐จ๐ง๐ž ๐ฐ๐ข๐ฅ๐ฅ๐ข๐ง๐  ๐ญ๐จ ๐ญ๐ก๐ž๐ฆ ๐ญ๐ก๐ž๐ฒ ๐š๐ซ๐ž ๐›๐ž๐ข๐ง๐  ๐ฎ๐ง๐๐ž๐ซ๐ฌ๐ญ๐จ๐จ๐.

๐ˆ๐ง ๐ž๐ฏ๐ž๐ซ๐ฒ๐ญ๐ก๐ข๐ง๐  ๐ฒ๐จ๐ฎ ๐š๐ซ๐ž ๐œ๐ก๐š๐ฌ๐ข๐ง๐  ๐›๐ซ๐ข๐ง๐  ๐ญ๐ก๐จ๐ฌ๐ž ๐œ๐ก๐ข๐ฅ๐๐ซ๐ž๐ง ๐ฌ๐จ ๐œ๐ฅ๐จ๐ฌ๐ž ๐ญ๐จ ๐ฒ๐จ๐ฎ , ๐œ๐ซ๐ž๐š๐ญ๐ž ๐š ๐ฌ๐ฉ๐š๐œ๐ž ๐ญ๐จ ๐ญ๐š๐ฅ๐ค ๐š๐›๐จ๐ฎ๐ญ ๐š๐ง๐ฒ๐ญ๐ก๐ข๐ง๐ .

๐‚๐ก๐ž๐œ๐ค ๐ญ๐ก๐ž ๐ฉ๐ž๐จ๐ฉ๐ฅ๐ž ๐ฒ๐จ๐ฎ ๐ก๐š๐ฏ๐ž ๐ž๐ง๐ญ๐ซ๐ฎ๐ฌ๐ญ๐ž๐ ๐ญ๐ก๐ž๐ฆ ๐ฐ๐ข๐ญ๐ก ๐ซ๐ž๐ฅ๐š๐ญ๐ข๐ฏ๐ž๐ฌ ๐จ๐ซ ๐ง๐จ๐ญ , ๐ฉ๐ž๐จ๐ฉ๐ฅ๐ž ๐ก๐š๐ฏ๐ž ๐๐ข๐Ÿ๐Ÿ๐ž๐ซ๐ž๐ง๐ญ ๐ฆ๐จ๐ญ๐ข๐ฏ๐ž๐ฌ ๐›๐ฎ๐ญ ๐ซ๐ž๐ฆ๐ž๐ฆ๐›๐ž๐ซ ๐ญ๐ก๐ข๐ฌ ๐ญ๐ซ๐š๐ฎ๐ฆ๐š ๐ฐ๐ข๐ฅ๐ฅ ๐ฆ๐š๐ง๐ข๐Ÿ๐ž๐ฌ๐ญ ๐ข๐ง ๐š๐๐ฎ๐ฅ๐ญ๐ก๐จ๐จ๐.

๐–๐ž ๐š๐ซ๐ž ๐ซ๐š๐ข๐ฌ๐ข๐ง๐  ๐ฅ๐ž๐š๐๐ž๐ซ๐ฌ,๐›๐จ๐ฌ๐ฌ๐ž๐ฌ, ๐ฌ๐ฎ๐ฉ๐ž๐ซ๐ฏ๐ข๐ฌ๐จ๐ซ๐ฌ , ๐‚.๐„.๐Ž'๐ฌ ๐ง๐š๐ฆ๐ž ๐ข๐ญ , ๐ข๐Ÿ ๐ง๐จ๐ญ ๐œ๐š๐ซ๐ž๐Ÿ๐ฎ๐ฅ ๐ข๐ญ ๐ฐ๐ข๐ฅ๐ฅ ๐›๐ž ๐ก๐š๐ซ๐ ๐ญ๐จ ๐ฆ๐š๐ข๐ง๐ญ๐š๐ข๐ง ๐ก๐ž๐š๐ฅ๐ญ๐ก๐ฒ ๐ซ๐ž๐ฅ๐š๐ญ๐ข๐จ๐ฆ๐ฌ๐ก๐ข๐ฉ๐ฌ ๐ข๐ง ๐Ÿ๐ฎ๐ญ๐ฎ๐ซ๐ž.

๐–๐ž ๐ฐ๐ข๐ฅ๐ฅ ๐œ๐จ๐ง๐ญ๐ข๐ง๐ฎ๐ž ๐ฌ๐ž๐ž๐ข๐ง๐  ๐๐ž๐ฌ๐จ๐ฅ๐š๐ญ๐ž ๐ก๐จ๐ฆ๐ž๐ฌ ๐ฐ๐ข๐ญ๐ก ๐ญ๐ก๐ž ๐ž๐ฅ๐๐ž๐ซ๐ฅ๐ฒ ๐š๐ฅ๐จ๐ง๐ž.

๐‡๐ž ๐ž๐๐ฎ๐œ๐š๐ญ๐ž๐ ๐ก๐ข๐ฌ ๐ค๐ข๐๐ฌ ๐›๐ฎ๐ญ ๐ง๐จ ๐จ๐ง๐ž ๐œ๐š๐ซ๐ž๐ฌ ๐ฐ๐ก๐ฒ? ๐˜๐จ๐ฎ ๐๐ข๐ ๐ง๐จ๐ญ ๐œ๐ซ๐ž๐š๐ญ๐ž
๐ญ๐ก๐š๐ญ ๐œ๐จ๐ง๐ง๐ž๐œ๐ญ๐ข๐จ๐ง.

๐€๐ฌ ๐ฒ๐จ๐ฎ ๐ฌ๐ž๐œ๐ฎ๐ซ๐ž ๐ญ๐ก๐ž๐ข๐ซ ๐Ÿ๐ฎ๐ญ๐ฎ๐ซ๐ž, ๐ญ๐ก๐ข๐ง๐ค ๐จ๐Ÿ ๐ฒ๐จ๐ฎ๐ซ ๐Ÿ๐ฎ๐ญ๐ฎ๐ซ๐ž ๐ญ๐จ๐จ.

๐Œ๐ž๐ง๐ญ๐š๐ฅ ๐ก๐ž๐š๐ฅ๐ญ๐ก ๐œ๐ก๐š๐ฅ๐ฅ๐ž๐ง๐ ๐ž๐ฌ ๐š๐ซ๐ž ๐ซ๐ž๐š๐ฅ ๐ข๐Ÿ ๐ข๐ญ๐ฌ ๐ญ๐จ ๐จ๐Ÿ๐Ÿ๐ž๐ซ ๐š๐ฐ๐š๐ซ๐ž๐ง๐ž๐ฌ๐ฌ , ๐ ๐ฎ๐š๐ซ๐๐ข๐š๐ง๐ฌ ๐š๐ง๐ ๐ฉ๐š๐ซ๐ž๐ง๐ญ๐ฌ ๐ง๐ž๐ž๐ ๐ข๐ญ ๐ฆ๐จ๐ซ๐ž.

๐๐ข๐œ๐ž ๐ฐ๐ž๐ž๐ค๐ž๐ง๐

๐ผ๐‘ก๐‘  ๐‘œ๐‘˜๐‘Ž๐‘ฆ ๐‘ก๐‘œ ๐‘๐‘’ ๐‘ ๐‘’๐‘’๐‘›,๐ผ๐‘ก๐‘  ๐‘œ๐‘˜๐‘Ž๐‘ฆ ๐‘ก๐‘œ ๐‘๐‘’ ๐‘ฆ๐‘œ๐‘ข.๐ŸŒท There are certain walls we build around our hearts/lives may be because of how ...
04/06/2025

๐ผ๐‘ก๐‘  ๐‘œ๐‘˜๐‘Ž๐‘ฆ ๐‘ก๐‘œ ๐‘๐‘’ ๐‘ ๐‘’๐‘’๐‘›,

๐ผ๐‘ก๐‘  ๐‘œ๐‘˜๐‘Ž๐‘ฆ ๐‘ก๐‘œ ๐‘๐‘’ ๐‘ฆ๐‘œ๐‘ข.

๐ŸŒท There are certain walls we build around our hearts/lives may be because of how we grew up and what we went through in the past ,

Could be;

disappointments, rejection , compromise name it.

โ˜„๏ธ We also settle with it in our minds, you see they did this to, may be I not worthy of any good thing, may be I can never amount to anything .

To some even when told " I love you " you ask questions like Really?, why ?

โ˜„๏ธ Well Birungi tou can do this , the response will be like" I don't know how to talk " , who can even listen to me", me without this and that .

That's so wrong.

What you think , believe and know about yourself matters alot .
It will either open doors/ opportunities for you or build walls around you.

๐“๐ก๐ข๐ง๐ค ๐š๐›๐จ๐ฎ๐ญ ๐ญ๐ก๐ข๐ฌ;

๐ŸŒ€All the quirks, the passions, the
vulnerabilities that make you uniquely you.

They deserve to be witnessed
and embraced.

๐ŸŒ€ The fear of not being accepted can
build invisible walls around our hearts, preventing us from experiencing genuine connection and the richness of life.

Let's gently nudge ourselves to step into the light, knowing that
our authentic selves are not just ๐š๐œ๐œ๐ž๐ฉ๐ญ๐š๐›๐ฅ๐ž, but truly worthy of love and belonging.

03/06/2025

Imagine feeling
so understood and empowered that your tears of pain turn into a smile of hope, That's the kind of transformation my clients experience

One yesterday shared,

"๐‘Šโ„Ž๐‘’๐‘› ๐ต๐‘–๐‘Ÿ๐‘ข๐‘›๐‘”๐‘– ๐‘ ๐‘๐‘’๐‘Ž๐‘˜๐‘  ๐‘– ๐‘ค๐‘–๐‘๐‘’ ๐‘š๐‘ฆ ๐‘ก๐‘’๐‘Ž๐‘Ÿ๐‘  ๐‘Ž๐‘›๐‘‘ ๐‘ ๐‘š๐‘–๐‘™๐‘’ "

Are you ready to find your strength and clarity? Let's talk
about how you can take the next step. Send me a DM,





๐‹๐จ๐ง๐ž๐ฅ๐ข๐ง๐ž๐ฌ๐ฌ ๐ข๐ฌ๐ง'๐ญ ๐ญ๐ก๐ž ๐ซ๐ž๐š๐ฅ ๐๐š๐ง๐ ๐ž๐ซ. ๐…๐š๐ค๐ž ๐œ๐จ๐ง๐ง๐ž๐œ๐ญ๐ข๐จ๐ง ๐ข๐ฌ.โšก๏ธBeing alone isn't a weakness. Being surrounded bythe wrong people...
02/06/2025

๐‹๐จ๐ง๐ž๐ฅ๐ข๐ง๐ž๐ฌ๐ฌ ๐ข๐ฌ๐ง'๐ญ ๐ญ๐ก๐ž ๐ซ๐ž๐š๐ฅ ๐๐š๐ง๐ ๐ž๐ซ. ๐…๐š๐ค๐ž ๐œ๐จ๐ง๐ง๐ž๐œ๐ญ๐ข๐จ๐ง ๐ข๐ฌ.

โšก๏ธBeing alone isn't a weakness. Being surrounded by
the wrong people is.

โšก๏ธWe glority connection.

"Network more."

"Stay visible."

"Be in the room."

But what if that room's full of people you can't trust?

โ™จ๏ธ People who smile at you and talk behind you.

โ™จ๏ธ People who clap for your wins but hope you fail.

โ™จ๏ธ People who compete instead of support

That's not connection -that's noise.

no to shallow circles
solitude over politics
trust over company.

WAY TO FIND BALANCE IN YOUR LIFE. Part 1๐ŸŒผ The symptoms of being out of balance are feeling rushed, hurried and anxious a...
26/05/2025

WAY TO FIND BALANCE IN YOUR LIFE. Part 1

๐ŸŒผ The symptoms of being out of balance are feeling rushed, hurried and anxious as you take on daily events.

๐ŸŒผ When we're out of balance, we
find it difficult to enjoy life.
Life balance seems to be the topic on everyone's mind of late.

๐ŸŒผ We have discovered that maintaining a healthy life balance is not only essential for happiness and well-being;

It can be a tremendous boost to your productivity and career or business success as well.

๐ŸŒผ A well-balanced person has a far greater ability to focus their attention and energy on attaining
their goals, taking productive actions, and moving forward in a meaningful way.

๐ŸŒผ Creating balance isn't a one-time thing, it will be something you're constantly working towards as priorities and needs naturally shift over time.

You will need to recalibrate often, and it takes dedication to remain a balanced person over time.

How do you keep your life balanced ?

Or

If possible stay glued here to know how to keep balanced in your life.

Think about it: our mental health is as vital as our physical health.๐Ÿ It's not just about the hard times; it's about ou...
24/05/2025

Think about it: our mental health is as vital as our physical health.

๐Ÿ It's not just about the hard times; it's about our everyday feelings, connections, and how we engage with life.

๐Ÿ When we nurture our mental well-being, it ripples through everything we do.

๐Ÿ Let's commit to making mental health a continuous priority, for ourselves and for those around us.

๐Ÿ‚ What's one step you're taking today to care for your mental health?
Let us know.



๐•‹โ„๐”ผ ๐•Žโ„๐•€๐•Šโ„™๐”ผโ„๐•Š ๐•†๐”ฝ " ๐ˆ๐ญ๐ฌ ๐ญ๐จ๐จ ๐ฅ๐š๐ญ๐ž " โ„‚๐”ธโ„• ๐”น๐”ผ ๐•‹โ„๐”ผ ๐•ƒ๐•†๐•Œ๐”ป๐”ผ๐•Š๐•‹.โœจ Ever feel that tug in your heart, that little nudge to try somethi...
14/05/2025

๐•‹โ„๐”ผ ๐•Žโ„๐•€๐•Šโ„™๐”ผโ„๐•Š ๐•†๐”ฝ " ๐ˆ๐ญ๐ฌ ๐ญ๐จ๐จ ๐ฅ๐š๐ญ๐ž " โ„‚๐”ธโ„• ๐”น๐”ผ ๐•‹โ„๐”ผ ๐•ƒ๐•†๐•Œ๐”ป๐”ผ๐•Š๐•‹.

โœจ Ever feel that tug in your heart, that little nudge to try something even when logic screams, "Nah, it's probably too late"? I have been pondering on the power of ignoring that limiting voice.

Recently, I witnessed this firsthand. A friend wrote in a certain grouo with a desire to sponsor 3 ladies into makeup training.

I saw the post late in the night thinking all the spots were gone, but i took the chance to ask one for my daughter, and guess what? An opportunity opened up and the training is done.

Similarly, i applied a for a fully funded tech program finally materialized even when I had forgotten about it.
Yesterday I attended the first orientation.

These aren't just lucky coincidences. They highlight profound truths about life:

๐ŸŒŸ The "deadline" in your mind might not be the universe's deadline. We often self-sabotage by assuming it's too late before even trying.

* What if you challenged that assumption? What if you sent that message, submitted that application, or started that project you've been putting off?

๐ŸŒŸ Seeds of effort, even planted slowly, can blossom beautifully. While applying for the tech program I saw the age limit was 18-35 years but inside of me i was like " I am a woman" This reminds us that perseverance isn't just about pushing hard; it's about staying in the game and knowing what you want.

๐Ÿ’ฅ Think about it: how many times have you held back because you thought you missed the boat?

๐Ÿ’ฅ What could happen if you decided to cast off those limiting beliefs today?

๐Ÿ’ฅ I encourage you to reflect on an area in your life where you might be telling yourself "it's too late."

๐Ÿ’ฅ What's one small step you could take today to challenge that narrative?

Let's inspire each other! Share your thoughts below. ๐Ÿ‘‡








๐™ผ๐š˜๐š๐š‘๐šŽ๐š›๐šœ ๐š๐šŠ๐šข ๐š™๐š›๐šŽ๐šŒ๐š’๐š˜๐šž๐šœ ๐š๐š’๐š๐šSometimes, the most profound impact we can have is simply by being present and offering support...
12/05/2025

๐™ผ๐š˜๐š๐š‘๐šŽ๐š›๐šœ ๐š๐šŠ๐šข ๐š™๐š›๐šŽ๐šŒ๐š’๐š˜๐šž๐šœ ๐š๐š’๐š๐š

Sometimes, the most profound impact we can have is simply by being present and offering support.

Last evening, I received feedback that truly touched my heart. A young person, who was in a place of immense darkness and had made the devastating decision to end their life, found a glimmer of hope through our conversation.

To hear them say,

"Thank you, it was from the bottom of my life because by the time you talked to me I had made up my mind to kill myself but you were there to comfort me and counsel me, I even feel like calling you mom cause you're worthy it," is a powerful reminder of the importance of reaching out and the incredible strength within each of us.

If you're reading this and feeling overwhelmed, please know that you are not alone.

๐Ÿ—จ There is always hope, even when you can't see it.

๐Ÿ—จ Reach out to someone you trust, a friend, a family member, or a professional.

๐Ÿ—จ Your life is precious, and there is support available.

Let this be a reminder that:

๐ŸŒพ Presence matters: Sometimes, simply being there for someone can make all the difference.

๐ŸŒพ Hope is always possible: Even in the darkest moments, a path towards light can be found.

๐ŸŒพ Reaching out is a sign of strength: Don't hesitate to seek support when you need it.

Many thanks to this brave young person for sharing their experience.

Your courage is inspiring. โค๏ธ







I was honored to be one of penalists at the launch of Inner Pulse a research centre that is interested in making sure th...
10/05/2025

I was honored to be one of penalists at the launch of Inner Pulse a research centre that is interested in making sure that the well-being of workers is made a priority since they spend the biggest part of each day at their work spaces.

We ought to derive happiness and fulfillment from our careers, get satisfaction, a sense of purpose and a healthy balance between work, life and leisure.

The Painful Imbalance of UnspokenExpectations:  Just when your situationship expectations don't align Think about it; In...
05/05/2025

The Painful Imbalance of Unspoken
Expectations: Just when your situationship expectations don't align

Think about it;

In a committed relationship, there's usually a shared understanding, however fragile, of commitment, exclusivity, and a general
direction, even if that path eventually diverges.

But in a situationship, you might find yourself deeply invested emotionally, picturing a future, and behaving as though you're in a relationship, while the other person remains intentionaly casual, enjoying the benefits without the responsibility or label.

This inherent ambiguity and lack of explicit
agreement allows for vastly different interpretations of the connection.

When those unspoken realities inevitably clash, when you realize you were on different pages all along, the emotional fallout can be surprisingly intense, leaving you feeling foolish, unseen, and deeply hurt by the unmet expectations.





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