07/03/2013
What is cheating in a relationship/
marriage?Cheating doesn't mean you have to kiss,
meet or have s*x with a third party. Once
you find yourself deleting texts and e-
mails so your partner wont see them, you
are already there. Its like a cancer it
develops slowly but you will surely feel
the pain when its fully grown. The funny
thing is most of the times, people try to
find what they already have because they
don't just appreciate what they have.
Remember the grass may look green on
the other side but what if you could just
invest time and energy by watering the
one that you have. Wouldn't the world be
a better place to be today?
Can you imagine how strong your
relationship would be if you would not
waste your energy, resources and time on
things that have no future. Secret, small,
hidden relationships are like ticks they
suck all the good things out of your
marriage or relationship and makes it
unstable. it will take you more effort to
repair what you would have damaged and
the sad thing is sometimes those wounds
might never heal.
Stop s*xing and flirting with those people-
Yes you know them. Imagine your partner
(Husband/wife) reading the messages that
you receive, would he/she reply with a
free heart on your behalf???? If the answer
is NO, then that is an unhealthy chat/ talk
that you are having Stop it before its too
late. Some mistakes will cost you for a life
time yet you could have just avoided them
by just ignoring that chick/ dude who now
loves you because you have been turned
into a better 'asset' by your current
partner. Where were they when you were
doWN?
Please may you all get rid of all the
parasitic relationships that will always be a
treat to your relationships' health. Fight
for what is right and never give up on the
one you Love. Yes l said health because
you have to know and take care of it just
like your body. Love it as you love your
body, maintain it as you maintain your
skin, teeth, hair and nails. True love means
hard-work. Do not apply if you are not
prepared to take the risks. Stay out of a
relationship if you still want to fool around
(but that has its own price) because a
relationship calls for great deal of
commitment.
Most of the young people think that they
will start being faithful when they get
married- Word of Advise (You can never
teach an old dog new tricks) That is why
they are so many broken familes because
people think they still have time to adjust.
Start practicing being true to yourself
when no one is watching u because that's
who you really are.Besides its by nature
that what goes around comes around- Do
you think the person that you got out of a
secret affair will stop just because you are
now with her/him? if you agree,
save someone's marriage / relatnship
todaY....bottom line......ALWAYS BE
FAITHFUL TO UR PARTNER...
