Únashay

Building sanctuary for unmet grief.
𐌔 Presence and land-based care for the grieving.

Únashay is a physical grief sanctuary that supports people through loss and change. It is an exploration of shapeshifting, relationship, and presencing support for what is most unmet in ourselves, communities and land. As such, we are building a physical grief sanctuary on Tewá land in Abiquiu, New Mexico where an interspecies web of connected liminal workers, grief bearers, deep listeners, animal

s, artists, body workers, musicians, plants, movers, and the spaces needed for such meeting can be brought as an offering to the grieving and land.

04/21/2026

ⵉ • Join us community,

This Sunday, April 26th for a Noria Grief Café at French Funeral Home.

3 to 5pm, with bevs and snacks.

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RSVP at inquiries@unashayhome.com and please spread the word! Free and welcoming of donations.

1111 University Blvd NE •⁠ ABQ
When you enter the parking lot, drive along the left side of the building and enter into the side entrance to your right.

𝘯𝘰𝘳𝘪𝘢𝘴 𝘣𝘳𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘱𝘳𝘦𝘴𝘦𝘯𝘤𝘦 𝘵𝘰 𝘵𝘩𝘦 𝘨𝘳𝘪𝘦𝘷𝘪𝘯𝘨. 𝘩𝘦𝘭𝘥 𝘣𝘺 𝘤𝘰𝘮𝘮𝘶𝘯𝘪𝘵𝘺, 𝘵𝘩𝘦𝘺 𝘰𝘧𝘧𝘦𝘳 𝘴𝘱𝘢𝘤𝘦 𝘧𝘰𝘳 𝘥𝘪𝘧𝘧𝘦𝘳𝘦𝘯𝘵 𝘧𝘰𝘳𝘮𝘴 𝘰𝘧 𝘦𝘹𝘱𝘳𝘦𝘴𝘴𝘪𝘰𝘯, 𝘤𝘢𝘳𝘦 𝘢𝘯𝘥 𝘤𝘰𝘯𝘯𝘦𝘤𝘵𝘪𝘰𝘯, 𝘵𝘰 𝘢𝘤𝘤𝘰𝘮𝘱𝘢𝘯𝘺 𝘸𝘩𝘢𝘵 𝘩𝘶𝘳𝘵𝘴 𝘪𝘯 𝘵𝘩𝘦𝘴𝘦 𝘵𝘪𝘮𝘦𝘴.

04/09/2026

DATE CHANGE::
Noria Grief Cafe - Taos
April 12th 4-6pm
Optional potluck at 6pm

Where is grief trying to crack us open, like a seed bursting towards the warmth of the sun? What has been buried in us that wants to be released?

This Noria explores our relationship with grief as a force of life and what becomes possible when we stop resisting it. Together we will give grief the space to be. We will explore through movement and story, using curiosity to welcome what we have been unable to feel on our own. And we will have space to share our tender hearts with one another, to be known and loved.

Mikyö Black-Wangmo (they/them) is a devotee of the Great Mystery, reclaiming indigeneity, the esoteric arts, and of the wisdom of the body. They are based in, and in love with, the Red Willow lands of Northern New Mexico, otherwise known as Taos.

They are committed to the evolution of grieving and dying as a communal path to joy, freedom, and aliveness. That currently comes into form through facilitating grief rituals, embodied grief trainings, and retreats, individual grief support, rituals to connect with the lands, elements, and ancestors, and multiple modalities of body and energy work.

You can learn more about their offerings through Subrosa Santo at www.SubrosaSanto.com

They are also offering a Community Grief Ritual, Resting with the Cracks, in Taos, April 17th-19th. Link in their bio Mikyö Black-Wangmo

04/05/2026

A sincere hiiiiii 👋⚡ after a long winter quiet and much deep change. We are here, more than ever, and listening.

Stay tuned, and sign up for our substack newsletter (link in bio) to connect.

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📷 Above:: Board directors Reverend Rose Gordon & Aaron Bumgarner Aaron Bumgarner , and únashay Executive Director/ lead listener Aimée Wilson aimee wilson .

04/04/2026

Noria Grief Cafe⎯ Taos
April 9th 6-8pm

Where is grief trying to crack us open, like a seed bursting towards the warmth of the sun? What has been buried in us that wants to be released?

This Noria explores our relationship with grief as a force of life and what becomes possible when we stop resisting it. Together we will give grief the space to be. We will explore through movement and story, using curiosity to welcome what we have been unable to feel on our own. And we will have space to share our tender hearts with one another, to be known and loved.

Please RSVP for venue directions at subrosasanto@gmail.com or text Mikyö at 575-224-6611.

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Mikyö Black-Wangmo (they/them) is a devotee of the Great Mystery, reclaiming indigeneity, the esoteric arts, and of the wisdom of the body. They are based in, and in love with, the Red Willow lands of Northern New Mexico, otherwise known as Taos.

They are committed to the evolution of grieving and dying as a communal path to joy, freedom, and aliveness. That currently comes into form through facilitating grief rituals, embodied grief trainings, and retreats, individual grief support, rituals to connect with the lands, elements, and ancestors, and multiple modalities of body and energy work.

You can learn more about their offerings through Subrosa Santo at www.SubrosaSanto.com

They are also offering a Community Grief Ritual, Resting with the Cracks, in Taos, April 17th-19th. Link in their bio Mikyö Black-Wangmo

Mikyö Maria Black-Wangmo (they/them)
575.224.6611
SubrosaSanto.com
Opening to the joys of life, death, and grief

03/18/2026

This 𝗦𝘂𝗻, 𝗠𝗮𝗿𝗰𝗵 22𝗻𝗱⎯ we meet at French Funeral Home for a 𝘕𝘰𝘳𝘪𝘢 𝘨𝘳𝘪𝘦𝘧 𝘤𝘢𝘧é. Join us community.

3 to 5p, with beverages provided.

Please RSVP at inquiries@uashayhome.com and share the invitation with who might benefit!

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02/20/2026

Join us this Sunday, Feb 22nd for a Noria Cafe at French Funeral Home in Albuquerque. From 3 to 5pm.

1111 University Blvd NE - ABQ
When you enter the parking lot, drive along the left side of the building and enter into the side entrance to your right.

01/26/2026

⎯ The beauty of drawing close,
when it hurts. With no agenda
other than being together,
and letting grief move 𖦹

Our noria grief cafes continue to be the
pulse of únashay's practice. They are made of
every day, gorgeous humans, witnessing
and walking with each other.

Here is from yesterday's Albuquerque café, with friend guiding us through a somatic practice and grief "show and tell".

We meet next month, February 22nd, at French Funeral Home (ABQ). Join our newsletter (🔗 in bio) to connect further!

01/20/2026

Join and this Sunday January 25th from 3-5pm at French Funeral Home for an experiment in GRIEF MOVEMENT.

This special noria café asks the question:

How does artmaking and artsharing move grief?

Participants will be invited to SHOW AND TELL their grief.

Bring a story, song, piece of art, an object to share with the group. No one is required to perform/share. To witness is to participate.

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Norias are free and welcoming of donations. Please share the invitation to who might benefit and RSVP at inquiries@unashayhome.com .

Address:: French Funeral Home
1111 University Boulevard NW, ABQ

11/26/2025

You might say.. norias are 𝘭𝘪𝘷𝘦 𝘤𝘰𝘮𝘮𝘶𝘯𝘪𝘵𝘺 𝘢𝘭𝘵𝘢𝘳𝘴, made and lived into by the people.

Join us this 🌹 Sunday, November 30th 🌹for another Noria at French Funeral Home in Albuquerque. 3 to 5pm.

Please bring (if you wish) something to contribute to our altar, for all the layers of grief people are carrying. And/ or come, to quietly witness.

This might include something that represents your grief-love and/ or dead loved one(s), flowers, non-verbal movement, silence, song, written word, seeds, pictures, art, and anything in between.

Please RSVP at inquiries@unashayhome.com and spread the invitation 🕯️🖤

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Pics: Community altar from our time together at Dar al Islam this month, for becoming sanktuaree.

11/24/2025

This Sunday, November 30th •⁠ 3 to 5pm⎯
at French Funeral Home in Albuquerque, NM

Join us for a noria grief café 🌹

𝘈𝘭𝘭 𝘢𝘳𝘦 𝘸𝘦𝘭𝘤𝘰𝘮𝘦.

1111 University Blvd NE •⁠ ABQ
Once you enter the parking lot, drive along the left side of the building and enter into the side entrance to your right.

Please RSVP at inquiries@unashayhome.com and spread the word! Free and welcoming of donations.

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norias bring presence to the grieving. held by community, they offer space for different forms of expression, care and connection, to accompany what hurts in these times.

Video~ The Birth of a Flower (1910), directed by F. Percy Smith

11/15/2025

Tonight ☽

𝗦𝗮𝘁, 𝗡𝗼𝘃𝗲𝗺𝗯𝗲𝗿 15𝘁𝗵 8 𝘁𝗼 9𝗽𝗺⎯

Luz Elena Mendoza (of ) will play a solo set in the vaulted adobe ceilings of Dar al Islam in Abiquiu, New Mexico.

Aimée Wilson & Ben Myler will open.

All to benefit 's direct community-held service for the underserved grieving of Northern New Mexico, and beyond.

Join us for this beautiful evening 🕌🌌 Find tickets at 🔗 in 's bio. Accommodations available (for travelers) on the Dar Al Islam property in shared heated dormitory-style housing for an additional fee. Find ticket options and ways to support únashay in bio link.

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