
16/03/2025
Let’s talk about breaking soul ties, also known as cord cutting. Although soul ties are commonly expressed in the space of romantic relationships, unhealthy attachments can also exist between close friendships, family members, partnerships or traumatic experiences. They can also be formed through codependency, emotional bonding, intimacy or even past lives.
What are Soul Ties? Soul ties refer to a deep spiritual or emotional connection shared between two people. Some soul ties can create meaningful bonds while others can be toxic and damaging to our emotional well-being. In this share, we will address the latter. Understanding that we are made up of pure energy offers great insight into how easy it is for these bonds to form. With the best intentions, dissolving a relationship of any kind does not cut the bond between the two individuals. There are still energetic ties that can be deeply rooted, depending on the level of connectedness involved. The first step to breaking soul ties is to acknowledge they exist. The good news is that we can release them with love. As difficult as it may be, find the lesson(s) learned with the individual. Understand that there is a vibrational or magnetic pull that is tying you together on some level. This can be a trauma bond or some other form of intense emotional attachment, usually stemming from a lack of mutual care or respect. Forgive them for any pain they have caused you and give yourself permission to heal. Holding grudges or bitterness will only poison your own soul, not theirs. There are effective ways to dissolve energetic cords which we will not explore in this particular post, however, meditation is one of the most powerful and practical ways. When we do our inner-work, the less affect anyone or any situation will have on our lives. As a share, here is a powerful declaration that you can repeat to release anything from your energetic field. Repeat 3 times and believe that it is done:
“Today, I peacefully let go of __________. I embrace the lesson(s) with grace. I release all energy not serving me from my energy field and return it back to its rightful owner.”
Soul ties can be debilitating to our soul’s journey. Recognizing them when they are formed only gives us greater insight into ourselves. What we experience in our relationships with others is simply a mirror into our own soul’s condition. Be well!