05/27/2026
This weekend at Lake Havasu I stood on that beach
and felt like the biggest person there.
And I know some people are going to roll their eyes 🙄 but that’s honestly how I felt. And I know many of moms and women feel this sometimes, too.
I was covering up when I could. Comparing myself
to every woman I saw. Looking down and convincing
myself I was huge. I’ve been having to buy bigger
pants, bigger shorts, bigger tops — and even though
I KNOW it’s muscle, even though I’m proud of how
hard I’ve been training, my brain still went there.
That is body dysmorphia. And it does not
discriminate — not even against the girl who
has a master’s degree in nutrition and has been
strength training for years.
Then my husband took that photo of me on the beach
laughing. And I stopped. Because that is NOT what
I saw in my head. Not even close.
Here’s what I have to remind myself — and what
I want you to hear too:
→ Lighting changes everything
→ Angles change everything
→ A photo taken from below vs above vs the side
are three completely different images of the
SAME body in the SAME minute
→ The picture is not the truth
→ And the voice in your head saying you’re huge?
That’s not the truth either
How I get out of the funk:
✔️ I look at what my body can DO — I paddleboarded,
I ran with my daughter, I strength trained
this week
✔️ I remind myself that bigger clothes because of
muscle is not the same as unhealthy
✔️ I let myself feel it without letting it make
decisions for me
✔️ I remind myself that this body is the only one I have & it gave me my little girl 💕
✔️ I come back to this — it is okay to want to
change AND love where you are right now.
Those are not opposites.
If you needed to see this today — you are not alone.
Not even a little bit.
Save this for the next hard body image day and send it to a mom who needs it. Because she exists in your phone right now. 🤎