
06/08/2024
My motto this week: Embrace who you are. The world would be so boring if we were all the same.🤗
This is something that has been on the forefront of my mind lately.
Somehow I started comparing myself to others in small ways. 👀😳
And when I do that, it distracts me from what’s really important… and that is something that I’ve worked too hard on to let anything affect it… embracing ME.
It’s those little things that were starting to knock me off kilter a bit like…
- Seeing women wearing makeup and thinking I want to look like that too. BUT… I absolutely hate makeup and always have, so I don’t wear it… so I will never look like that. 💄
- Thinking that I should act more “soft” and “feminine”. And really what TF does that even mean? 🤔 I’ve always been a ”tomboy”, I provide for my myself and my family with no help, know how to protect myself (yes, I’m a damn good shot too 🤠!), and don’t take any sh*t. Basically, I’m self-sufficient.
- I don’t look polished. No matter what I do, I just can’t pull off that polished look. My hair won’t allow it and it feels fake to me...because it IS fake for me.🙃
- I have no family. Long story, but I had to remove myself from my entire family and my kids did the same once they were old enough to see for themselves what was really happening and make their own decisions. It’s the 3 of us against the world. 💕 It’s sometimes sad to know that I have had this experience, but I also know what strength it took within me to create that boundary. And my kids are stronger for it and better off too.
- I don’t fit it any box. 📦 I’m an oxymoron of all kinds of things that don’t go together by society’s standards. And I’m absolutely ok with that. No one tells me who I can be. ✌️😊
So I’m posting this as a reminder that being YOU and embracing that is the most important thing you can do.
Everything in your life flows from that.🫶
If you feel good about who you are, it flows outwardly.
And the same happens if you DON’T feel good about who you are.
💖