04/22/2026
A compulsion is anything you do to make the anxiety go away.
It can be physical or mental. Visible or invisible. If it's aimed at relief, it counts.
The trap? Relief lasts minutes. Then the urge comes back stronger.
Not all compulsions are visible.
Mental reviewing, reassurance-seeking, googling symptoms, avoidance, checking how you feel, arguing with the thought.
So what do you do instead?
Nothing.
Let the anxiety be there. Don't check, argue, or solve. Just keep moving.
When people hear this they may automatically think it's going to be like this forever.
No... it's just for now. We're retraining the brain to not respond to "false threats"
But it takes practice and constancy.
When the thought shows up, you can say "maybe, maybe not" and keep doing what you were doing.
The urge will be there. The anxiety will be there. And you're going to live your life anyway.
Don't stop what you're doing to deal with it. That's the compulsion.
Instead of asking "is it true?" ask yourself: "Can I let this be here without answering?"
Then go make lunch. Text your friend. Walk the dog. Whatever you were about to do before OCD showed up.
You're not trying to make the feeling go away. You're living your life while it's there.
Exposures are a great alternative to really punch OCD in the gut.
Because it's urging you to do a compulsion, you're actually going to move closer to the threat.
It's not easy, but it's worth it.