Knitted in the Womb

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October is domestic violence awareness month. Today, being Sunday, I challenge those of you who are active in faith comm...
10/20/2024

October is domestic violence awareness month. Today, being Sunday, I challenge those of you who are active in faith communities to consider whether your faith community is safer for abusers or for victims? to be clear… To be safe for abusers you need to do virtually nothing to be safe for victims, you need to take active steps to make them know that they can share their abuse and that they will get help.

I am proud to feature the work of Dr. Nancy Murphy on my blog today. Dr. Murphy is a professor, former Executive director of Northwest Family Life, and created Speaking Up online course to help educate churches in navigating issues of Domestic Violence. She has been my teacher and supervisor for

This is spot on.
10/14/2024

This is spot on.

Okay, people, I want to give you permission for something.

The next time any "Christian" teacher says anything remotely like this--you don't have to wonder if they're healthy. You don't have to stay sitting listening to them, politely. You don't have to read the rest of the book.

You're allowed to trash the book, stand up and walk out, or warn other people about him.

This has to end.

When women have pushed a whole human being out of their bodies; when they are still healing from being ripped open; when they aren't sleeping; when postpartum depression may hit; when they're leaking milk and exhausted--you are allowed to matter.

The fact that so many evangelical teachers framed the postpartum time as a difficult time FOR THE HUSBAND (remember Kevin Leman? or the book Intended for Pleasure?) rather than the hardest time in a woman's life is completely beyond me.

But what's even worse was that we were all gaslighted into just taking it.

If we thought this was off, we had no support.

So I'm telling you now--YOU HAVE SUPPORT.

Women are seeing through this garbage.

This isn't of Christ. There is absolutely nothing Christian about this.

And if a man prioritizes himself in the postpartum time, or if any teacher tries to guilt you into prioritizing your husband's or***ms when you are in recovery--that's a HUGE red flag. HUGE.

And you have permission to take that seriously!

So speak up now and show other women that they're not alone. Let me know what you think!

I’m going to end this pride month with an LGBTQ story that focuses on a topic near & dear to me, maternal & infant healt...
07/01/2024

I’m going to end this pride month with an LGBTQ story that focuses on a topic near & dear to me, maternal & infant health. It was written by a friend of mine.

“Happy Pride!
Dr. Sara Josephine Baker was an American physician working in New York City in the early 1900s. .My own grandmother, born in 1918, was still a year away from being born when Baker discovered that infants were dying at alarming rates — higher mortalities than World War 1 soldiers! Her own family had balked when she wanted to become a doctor, but that didn't stop Baker from not only becoming a physician, but even starting the first-ever department related to infant/mother health in NYC.

Typically dressing in men’s tailored suits, Baker encountered many male colleagues who didn’t realize she was a woman and would disparage women physicians to her in conversation. From accounts I’ve read, she seemed to laugh this off and just go on her way with her work, probably realizing she was better off if they thought she was a man anyway.
After changing careers in mid-life and going from newsrooms to hospital delivery rooms more than 100 years after Baker's career, I had a first-hand look at the hierarchal medical system that makes accomplishments like Baker's even more impressive.
One of my first nursing preceptors warned me of which doctors to watch out for; which ones were rude to nurses; which ones would ask the most questions about the patient and expect all the answers; who would gripe if called at night etc. One in particular was a doddering old man who apparently would accost new nurses and quiz them on the spot, making them feel stupid if they couldn’t answer his off-the-wall questions about medical topics while standing in the hallway. He’d been known to bring new nurse graduates to tears apparently. I honestly think he thought he was doing a great service by making sure the squeaky-new graduates were on their toes, but his delivery scared the wits out of some. My age protected me from some of this sort of harassing behavior I'm sure, since my age would point to many years of nursing experience, not just the actual 15 minutes I'd done it.

But Baker didn't let intimidating encounters, society, family pressure or the outright negative talk from male doctors stop her. She became one of our nation’s first leaders in public health, leading departments in education about basic hygiene, midwife training, smallpox eradication, parenting classes, and she helped in identifying the patient known as “Typhoid Mary,” all leading to life-saving changes in how things were done By the time Baker retired in 1933, NYC had the lowest infant mortality rate of all U.S. cities, thanks in large part to her work. Basic hand-washing was a cornerstone and as we all know, it's something we are still trying to teach in the Post-Covid age.
Baker lived with her life partner writer Ida Wylie on a farm, from 1920 until her death in 1945, which sounds like an idyllic ending to me. (Wylie’s book, the 1942’s “Keeper of the Flame,” was also turned into a film and starred Katherine Hepburn, but that's another story.)
Meanwhile, Baker and Wylie participated in the Heterodoxy Club, women’s “radical discussion group,” in which about 25 percent of the 100 women were le***an or bisexual. They bantered ideas of feminism and other topics and if that's not a great example of women supporting each other, I don't know what is. I would LOVE a group like that!
Baker taught us not only tenacity, support for other women, but also showed the way of how to be yourself and just ignore the haters. Sometimes, that's just the best thing to do. Hats off to all those working in women and infant health!

Happy Pride!”

06/29/2024

“I'm now 29 and have 3 kids with my wife, Franziska, who carried and birthed them all like a pro. Here's what I would tell my childless 24-year-old self about how to be a supportive partner during the ‘becoming parents’ phase:
1. Wifey carried baby IN her belly for 9 months. So, you carry baby ON your belly for 9 months every chance you get. Not only does it help her recover but it bonds you to your kid more than imaginable.
2. Wifey is breastfeeding and--while beautiful and fulfilling for her--it's exhausting. So, you change EVERY diaper you can. From diaper #1 onward. You will get over the grossness fast. And you will prevent imbalances and resentment in the relationship; in fact, when all your wife's friends are complaining about how absent and unsupportive their husbands are, your wife will be bragging about you.
3. Make her the decaf coffee every morning. Even if she leaves it cold and forgets to drink it most mornings because she falls back asleep while you're working or (later) taking the kids to school. She was up all night feeding the baby so help start her day in a way that helps her reset.
4. Tell her she is beautiful and help her see that in the moments when she is feeling most self-critical and hopeless about her body. Remind her of times when she achieved goals in the past. Remind her she is a superhero. She literally just moved all her organs around and gained 20 + pounds to give you a child that will be a gift to you for the rest of your life. Help her see past her body image issues and stay focused on a positive goal, one day at a time.
5. Take the heat. Hormones are crazy, both pre and post birth. She won't seem like herself every day and sometimes she will say things she wouldn't say if she didn't feel like she was hungover, caffeinated, and on steroids every day. Remember your job is to be her rock through all of this, so toughen up and keep perspective when her tongue is sharper than you know her best self intends. Normal will return soon and you want her to be grateful that you kept it together when she wasn't, not resentful and disappointed that you hijacked her emotions by making her problems yours.”

05/16/2024
Playing Phase 10 with my kids, and we managed—quite unintentionally—to play cards that ONLY “8” can be played on…
05/12/2024

Playing Phase 10 with my kids, and we managed—quite unintentionally—to play cards that ONLY “8” can be played on…

05/12/2024

Great video for new & expectant dads!

04/23/2024

Today is primary Election Day in PA! The Attorney General race is contested on the Democratic ticket, and in my district the House of Representatives is contested for the Republicans. Please vote!

So many things on this list make our lives better. I encourage you to Google a couple to learn more.
02/08/2024

So many things on this list make our lives better. I encourage you to Google a couple to learn more.

Babies wake up at night a lot more than people want to acknowledge. That’s okay!
01/07/2024

Babies wake up at night a lot more than people want to acknowledge. That’s okay!

I asked if your little one wakes and/or feeds at night and their age bracket.
This was an informal poll and is most definitely not scientific in any way! But did have nearly 10 thousand responses so will hopefully reassure you that you're not alone.


07/20/2023

This is super cool!

03/21/2023

A fabric womb made by Angélique du Coudray, a French midwife who was commissioned by King Louis XV to reduce infant mortality. From 1760 to 1783, she traveled all over France, visiting poor rural women and sharing her extensive knowledge with them. It is estimated that she trained some 10,000 women.
Du Coudray also invented the first lifesize obstetrical mannequin, for practicing mock births, and published a well-received midwifery textbook

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I’m a childbirth educator, and I’ve never seen one either! This is beautiful.
03/19/2023

I’m a childbirth educator, and I’ve never seen one either! This is beautiful.

12/13/2022

Perspective.

Lol. How many do you identify with? I identify with all of them.
11/10/2022

Lol. How many do you identify with? I identify with all of them.

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