11/14/2025
Dr. Chheda - ๐ My third grader won first place in a science contest without studying, and his teacher was so excited. I was not. I actually went up to the teacher and said, "I'm not really happy that he got first place in a science contest that he didn't study for." And the teacher was amazed. She's like, "Why not?"
๐ I said, "Well, I don't want everything to be so easy for him. He needs to fail. He needs to know that hard work pays off and it's just not skating through, coasting on everything."
No, let your kids fail. Don't make everything easy for them. They need to know how to pick themselves up from the ground and practice and try again. Just because they don't get it the first time doesn't mean that they stop.
They need to fail so that they learn how to pick themselves back up and try again. That's what life is all about - picking yourself back up, having the resilience to do it. So it's okay, let them fail.
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