01/23/2026
Asking for help doesn’t come easily to me. For a long time, I refused to do it. I found comfort in being able to rely on myself. I thought it meant I was “strong” to not need anyone else.
Now I know better. Thanks to so many lessons (so, so, so many lessons) and wise teachers along my path (shoutout to Brene Brown for paving the way for all of us vulnerability Vikings) I still don’t find it easy to ask for a favor or help.
But I do it anyways. Because I want the connection. I want to be a person who people lean on. And in order to do that, I have to be willing to lean on others. To ask for help. To be vulnerable.
I have a dear friend who has a lovely little cottage in Maine that she has offered to me multiple times. So I finally took her up on it to celebrate my husband’s birthday with a night away for just the two of us. Not easy to do at this phase of life, but oh so valuable.
We walked in the woods. We got lost in the best bookstore. We sat in silence together. We sweat in the most incredible sauna. We talked about goals and birthed business ideas for both of us. We got silly. We barely did any dishes. It was epic.